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completly unfair


Posted Thursday January 29 2009, 6:35 pm

This guy told me he liked me, I told him I liked him, and now, all the sudden on facebook, he's in a relationship with his ex girlfriend and her status messages are all ... "<3 love you baby" WHAT THE HELLL. they've been dating for 3 weeks now, and I see them everywhere, it's like they are haunting me. This is ridiculous. I don't even know what to do. My friend told me that she doesn't even like him. I guess they deserve eachother. Any advice or feedback would be lovely.

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chemistry?


Posted Thursday January 29 2009, 6:32 pm

So, I'm 16/f, sophomore. and I am attracted to this frosh (freshman) in one of my classes. we barely ever talk, but I don't know why, I always want to talk to him, or get him to notice me. He's not even THAT cute, he doesn't have perfect skin and what-not, but with him, it doesn't even matter. he has brown short hair and blue eyes. I'm usually not attracted to these types of guys, but he is so ... i dont know. I just can't get him off my mind, and I don't even know like anything about him. well i know some stuff, but I'm always trying to impress him when he looks at me. and hes almost 2 years younger than me. I dont know what to do or how to think or why this is happening haha. I guess I'm just confused? He doesn't show any signs that he li...

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My girlfriend is driving me insane.


Posted Thursday January 29 2009, 5:43 pm

Sorry to be so blunt about it, but its beginning to piss me off. We've been dating now for over 8 months, and she seems incapable of completing the smallest tasks (like operating the ice maker on a fridge for instance) or even dealing with the smallest insignificant issues that come across the average person in everyday life. She cries all the time, and whenever i'm anywhere near her friends (whom are also my friends) she gets EXTREMELY jealous and basically pisses me off. I've never yelled at her, and i've been nothing but the kindest, sweetest boyfriend i can be, but sometimes i feel like our relationship is going nowhere, and i honestly can't see us even making it to valentines day :(

Am i crazy, or are there girls out the...

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WHAT IS IT??


Posted Thursday January 29 2009, 2:20 pm

This boy that i like ive been liking him for while now and he knows i like him. You see i have this class with him and usually he be talkin to me or be messing around. But now all of a sudden he dont even talk to me or nothing. Like at first i thought maybe something between us was really happening but now its like nothin. what do this mean.

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6 month anniversary and valentines day!


Posted Thursday January 29 2009, 1:03 pm

do girls get guys things for 6 month anniversary and valentines day? idk what to get my boyfriend...i was thinking of just baking a cake in the shape of a heart and writing the date we started going out...should i do something else too? i have noo idea this is my first relationship on valentines day that lasted longer than 6 months

helpp
thank you
17.f

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dirty situation.


Posted Thursday January 29 2009, 11:30 am

I'm 18/f Ry-just turned 17.
i have a good guy friend, ryan. we've been friends for about four years now, maybe a little longer. i've always had a crush on him. he knows i'm attracted to him and i know he's attracted to me but there is one huge problem. he recently broke up with his girlfriend of THREE years. they were like the "perfect" couple in everyone's eyes. me and ry are about a year and a half apart and i'm the older one but to me thats NO problem at all. we were texting each other and i thought he was interested in another girl already which i was disappointed for many reasons so i asked him and he was like i dont have a new girl, i dont want one. its totally understandable he doesnt want another girl right away bec...

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boy trouble


Posted Thursday January 29 2009, 3:30 am

1m 13f
OK ill start from the beginning, sorry if it is long
i have known this guy in my school since kindergarten, he is a year older then me. at first we were friends then really good friends. i like this guy more then a friend and i'm not sure if he likes me that way too. i'm not sure if this is a hint. he got me rose scented candles for Christmas with love hearts and roses on them for a Christmas present. im scared that if i tell him and he doesn't feel the same way about me that it will ruin our long term , strong friendship!another thing is, he found out like a month ago he has cancer on his brain, its not active but doctors are trying to shrink it with radiotherapy, if it doesn't work they will operate! im also afraid t...

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I need to forget about him.


Posted Thursday January 29 2009, 12:10 am

I'm 30, have a husband (3 years) and have feelings for someone else. the other person i met at a conference. we spent a lot of time that week together. he knows i'm married and he has a girlfriend so not much happened between us physically. i've never cheated before in my life. i dated a lot before i got married but have never had this kind of instant connection with someone before and it makes my heart warm and my stomach hurt everytime i think about him. he lives a 2 hour plane ride from me but i happened to be in his town for business last week. we met for a drink, talked about how we were doing for a couple of hours, hugged goodnight and that was it. now it's even worse - i can't stop thinking about him, it's affecting my daily ...

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17f: First Date Advice?!


Posted Wednesday January 28 2009, 11:58 pm

Hey,
So last Saturday I was at a bar and I made out with this guy. Totally normal. I guess I'm "that kind of girl". I do not date. I ended up going back to this guys dorm and spending the night (it was very PG and cute).

well he asked me out on a date, and I am freaking out. I don't date, I don't know how to act.
Can someone share some stories?
Thanks

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How would you go about this?


Posted Wednesday January 28 2009, 11:00 pm

Ok, so 16m
What are some ways to get a girl to like you?
And what are some ways to see if a girl is in to you?

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i like this guy


Posted Wednesday January 28 2009, 6:11 pm

okayy so i really like this guy and i havet really talked to him because i was scaared and my friend that was in my class in grade 8 and not now in grade 9 went out with him for a lil so i descided to tell her so when she found out shes like ooh ill set you upand that didnt go very well so now a month later i hear from on of her bffs that she likes the guy i like and im not suppose to know about this so i cant confront her .. but the problem is, the only reason they broke up before was because she didnt like him as more than a friend and now that she likes him again and shes good friends so she talks to him alot so what do i do??
thanks
loveboys

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Trust


Posted Wednesday January 28 2009, 5:23 pm

recently my boyfriend has been lying alot he has cheated on my once by kissing another girl but he was drunk.

he lied to me and went into a girls house with two other girls. and he is making a movie for school with 3 girls but he only told me one.

i figured this out and he says he will never lie to me again. we have been together for two years. were both 16.

do you think i should break up with him or stay with him. i love him and i feel like i cant live without him yet i cant trust him and i know that you cant have a relationship without trust. but i am trying. i broke up with him when he cheated on me but i was misrable.

should i give him one more chance? what would you do.

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His close group of friends makes me feel like i don't stand a chance


Posted Wednesday January 28 2009, 4:54 pm

Is it weird to feel like you don't have a chance with a guy because he's part of this close group of friends? I mean it's not like this is just a bunch of guys its like guys and girls who've been friends for a pretty long time i guess. And all of them i either don't know well at all or I'm merely aquaintances with. I mean I feel ridiculous because first of all he doesn't even know I like him and I'm still in the process of trying to get him to like me, and I don't even know if he likes me. And the thing is it's very possible he does like me but it's also very possible he doesn't, and I'm not going to start to explain the reasons but I don't know everytime I try to imagine the possibilities some thought like this makes me feel like I don...

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Its complicated?


Posted Wednesday January 28 2009, 4:27 pm

Ok so this guy just recetly told me he likes me, and he asked me if i wanted to go on a date with him sometime. I said yes, and i really really like this guy alot.
We've been talking for a really long time now and we hang out in school.
So he changed his facebook status to 'Its complicated'
What does that mean?
He didnt even talk to me about it, im not even sure if its me.
Why doesnt he just ask me out?

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love and personal life


Posted Wednesday January 28 2009, 4:21 pm

hi, i'm 18 year old and have been with my current boyfriend since october 2007.
i love him and always have but i'm just getting so stressed lately over college, moving home, he's got a job over 1000 miles away from me, money problems and more, i'm just worried it's going to tear us apart. i keep asking myself if leaving him would make things easier for myself and i no it would, but i don't want to loose him

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i love two guys and dont know which one to pick


Posted Wednesday January 28 2009, 3:19 pm

please help me...
ok i have been on and off with this guy austin for almost six years..i love him i do..but he doesnt treat me like i know i should be treated..sometimes he even just makes me feel shitty about myself sometimes though..he makes me feel reall good...we have been through more good times and bad times..than anyone i know...also..his family is my family..they adore me..and i feel the same about them...it that makes it harder....and everytime we break up..it never fails..i go back to him.. because i cant stand the sight of him and someone else...
but theres this justin guy that has just recently come into my life..and we have become extremely close over the last 5 or 6 months..give or take a few...but he makes me fe...

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bestfriends lil sis


Posted Wednesday January 28 2009, 2:33 pm

Here is the deal. I really like my best friend's little sister (She's 21) and Im 24. its been ongoing for about a year and a half now. We've talked off and on, and talked about getting together numerious times, but never happends. It started out fast paced, and before I knew it we were using pet names, etc. It always seems that she gets me interested, appologies for the last time, then hooks up with some other guy. This last time is actually an ex she just split up with over the summer. She knows how I feel, Ive been very honest with her, probably a little too much. She's told me that she thinks about me everyday and how she wishes things would work out, yada yada. I know Im just setting myself up for a dissapointment, but how can I stay fr...

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Wedding Guest List


Posted Wednesday January 28 2009, 1:47 pm

My fiance and I are planning our wedding for 8/29/09. The only problem - a 'girl' friend of his who he has put on the guest list that I cannot stand. They have been friends for 20 years and everytime I come in contact with her she is extremely rude to me. When we first started dating I found her through another friend on myspace (website). I requested to be her friend because I knew she was a friend of my fiance's and I figured I would introduce myself. I am friends with several of his other friends on the website. She responded to my request with 'I'm sorry, but why are you requesting to be my friend? I don't know you, I've never met you. I know you're dating my friend but I've never met you.' From that point on she has been the one and on...

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i feel like something is missing...


Posted Wednesday January 28 2009, 11:38 am

My boyfriend and i have been dating for about 9 months now. We're both 16 and we love eachother.
but he has this crazy ex. (don't they all.) and she wants him back so bad. but he loves me.
so one night he got drunk( or so he says) and kissed her. but then practically fainted and cried. ( i wasn't there...his friends, who i'm close with, told me) so that first day back he told me. he told me everything, and didn't lie about anything. which i respect and loved that he told me. but ever since then, i feel like he might do it again, but he's that kind of boy who...tells the truth. i know its hard to understand, but like. He's a good boy, and had a good family...it's just he made a mistake. I still love him, but it feels like the...

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valentines day present


Posted Wednesday January 28 2009, 10:50 am

my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 11 months and i have noo idea what to get him for valentines day. i asked him what he wantd and he just showed me a few shirts he liked. how much should i spend on him though? he said he was going to take me out to dinner and get me something as well. help pleasee. :)

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