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dirty situation.
I'm 18/f Ry-just turned 17.
i have a good guy friend, ryan. we've been friends for about four years now, maybe a little longer. i've always had a crush on him. he knows i'm attracted to him and i know he's attracted to me but there is one huge problem. he recently broke up with his girlfriend of THREE years. they were like the "perfect" couple in everyone's eyes. me and ry are about a year and a half apart and i'm the older one but to me thats NO problem at all. we were texting each other and i thought he was interested in another girl already which i was disappointed for many reasons so i asked him and he was like i dont have a new girl, i dont want one. its totally understandable he doesnt want another girl right away because he was tied down for three years. keep in mind we've only kissed ONCE. now we talked about sex, and i'm still a virgin and he only had sex with one girl and that was with his ex girlfriend. when he was going out with his ex girlfriend i told him i couldnt do ANYTHING sexual with him because it would be wrong but he knew if he wasnt going out with her, i would get on that right away haha. BUT now that he doesnt i dont know what to do. i have the strongest feelings for him i love the kid. i tell him alot of personal things about me and he tells me alot too. i just dont want to feel used. if i want it too though i know its not necessarily him using me but i dont want to be heartbroken because i know i'll be even more attached and he even said he didnt want a new girl like right away. he's a junior in high school and AMAZING at every sport he plays and he's definately going to go on and play for a D1 college because he's gotten so many letters from colleges that want him to play for them. that also scares me. i was miserable for three years without ry in my life so much because he always use to be with his girlfriend and i couldnt stand seeing them together but now that they're broken up i'm also fearful that they're going to get back together somehow. i feel like i have to stand out in his eyes, i cant go through seeing him and his ex back together again. what's a girl to do?
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as soon as he has sex with you, things will be different. thats what keeps guys around, sex. if you give it up to him, he'll want to do it again and lose intrest in the REAl you. tell him how you feel and ask if he could feel the same for you? if he cant girl you have to move on. its hard but its the only other option.. you can still be friends but thats all.
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