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His close group of friends makes me feel like i don't stand a chance
Is it weird to feel like you don't have a chance with a guy because he's part of this close group of friends? I mean it's not like this is just a bunch of guys its like guys and girls who've been friends for a pretty long time i guess. And all of them i either don't know well at all or I'm merely aquaintances with. I mean I feel ridiculous because first of all he doesn't even know I like him and I'm still in the process of trying to get him to like me, and I don't even know if he likes me. And the thing is it's very possible he does like me but it's also very possible he doesn't, and I'm not going to start to explain the reasons but I don't know everytime I try to imagine the possibilities some thought like this makes me feel like I don't stand a chance. Am I being ridiculous or is it normal to feel this way?
And please don't say get to know his friends because it would be totally obvious and I'm not just gonna randomly talk to them
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Get to know his friends!:D No, I'm messing. It's true you do want to get to know his friends, but it's probable better if you become close to this guy, who if he feels comfortable with you randomly introduce you to his gang of friends.
It is normal to feel this way, but don't let it get in the way. A man should be able to make decisions on his own, with out his buddies going, "oh yeah man she's a winna!" or, "Oh Man she's so lame." You just need to get to know him, and perhaps be spontanious and in the middle of a conversation just ask him if he likes you. :x Don't be scared. He's only a guy, and I seriously believe it's better to put effort towards something, if you know he likes you. So, you're not putting all this work into someone who doesn't like you. : Don't you think?
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Calm down. It's absolutely normal to be confused about whether he likes you or not. The best source is, of course, the guy himself. Forget what the friends are making you feel like. Ask him if he wants to go out for ice cream or a cheeseburger. Don't make it a romantic lovey-dovey date situation, just a casual friends thing. Spend a lot of time with him. Remember to smile, flirt, and have fun. The worst he can do is turn you down. And if you never ask him, you'll never know.
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