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My girlfriend is driving me insane.
Sorry to be so blunt about it, but its beginning to piss me off. We've been dating now for over 8 months, and she seems incapable of completing the smallest tasks (like operating the ice maker on a fridge for instance) or even dealing with the smallest insignificant issues that come across the average person in everyday life. She cries all the time, and whenever i'm anywhere near her friends (whom are also my friends) she gets EXTREMELY jealous and basically pisses me off. I've never yelled at her, and i've been nothing but the kindest, sweetest boyfriend i can be, but sometimes i feel like our relationship is going nowhere, and i honestly can't see us even making it to valentines day :(
Am i crazy, or are there girls out there that are emotionally stable and don't feel like they need to make me feel that i'm prince charming every time i put ice in my glass? I just wish sometimes that i was with a girl that was a little more outgoing and less clingy. One that can just "hang out" without having to figure out what we're gonna do before coming over.
By the way. What she lacks in emotional stability, she makes up for in physical intimacy, and i feel trapped. We haven't had sex yet, and i know we both would be okay with it if we could ind somewhere other than the top of a parking garage to let it happen... but now, i'm almost afraid to be any more intimate with her than i already am, because i don't want to hurt her so badly if we break up.
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Clingy and jealous.. phew.. thats tough for a guy to handle. If you really like her and want things to work than talk to her, be honest, thats the key to a relationship. Tell her that shes very clingy and gets jealous for no reason. She might be hurt by what your saying but if she likes you enough and doesnt want to drive you away she will try to act more normal. Just dont break up with her on valentines day or the day before, because thats just the worst. That would be like a slap in the face, like oh i like you so much im going to break up with you so close to valentines day. So remember her feelings at the same time. Also, dont let intimacy be the basis of your relationship, you want to like her for who she is not for what she does. If you feel like you dont love her on the inside then dont take advantage of her on the outside, but you seem to already know that. Thats good. This may seem a bit out there but its good to do some research on your horoscope signs, often you may find info that is like Oh thats true and wow that happens sometimes and itll help you find out more like how your two signs connect and why they dont connect. Just something to look into. But definitely talk to her and be honest.
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All I can think of..is to be honest with her. Me and my ex boyfriend dated for 8 month's..and when he broke up with me..he didn't tell me the honest reason..he just made up a bunch of excuses. PLEASE be honest with her..
Tell her you dont like her jelousy..and how you dont like how she's clingy..and all about her not being able to complete simple tasks.
If you be honest with her..it wont hurt her as much as breaking up with her and not even trying to fix it.
So please just be honest with her..tell her what you like about her..and what you dont like..what she can improve on..that kinda thing.
I wish you two the best of luck. :)
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There are women like this threw out the universe. Why there is such a type of woman is beyond me. :x You could try to just tell her she needs to become more indepedent, or she'll lose you. Just give her time to grow up or say buhbye type of situation.
It's stupid that the poor girl thinks you're Prince Charming for ice! At least I think so, anyways perhaps brake it to her easily. : We all don't want to be inlove and miserable, it'll lead to bad things.
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