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Hello! My name is Shelby. I'm 13, about to turn 14 in April, and I have the greatest boyfriend anyone could ask for! His name is Landon, and he's sweet, funny, and loves me with all his heart. I love to hang out with friends, go to school, surprisingly, and to just relax and have fun. I'm on the computer most of the time. I love being on Facebook. I love to listen to music. But the one thing I love the most is Landon :D. If you have ANY questions, you can ask me and I will answer the best that I can.


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I'm a 15 yr old girl. How can i thicken my hairline? I DO NOT have a receeding hairline nor am i suffering from hair loss. I just want to thicken/grow it so i can part my bangs further to the side (i like the scene hair style). I also want to be able to but my bangs back into a quiff.

maybe go to a hairstylist and see what they have to say.
it sometimes just depends on your hair type.
blow drying helps too.

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do friends suggest to each other that they should fall asleep on the phone together?

My guy friend and I were on the phone last night and he suggested that we fall asleep on the phone together. We are both single and same age.(18)..We been friends for about 16 months>

Me and my ex used to do that. It sounds like he likes you. (:

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My whole life, so far anyways, has been one, big, miserable hell. I'm going to be 19 in September and I don't feel like I can trust anybody. I've been told I'm pretty even beautiful, but I am not popular. Everybody makes fun of me, all throughout school they've made fun of me. My friends make fun of me, my family makes fun of me, and they do it in front of people who just met me which gives them a bad impression of me. I feel like everyone hates me because of some of the stuff they say. Everyone talks down to me when I say how I feel and I just hate it! Everyone seems to want to know how you feel and then when you tell them, they yell at you! I hate my life, and I hate being alive. No one would miss me if I was dead, so why does God keep me alive?

let me tell you what I believe..i'm not sure if you really religious..but i do hope this helps.

i believe we are all God's angels.
and we're all sent down here for a reason.
even if it's the simpilest task...like helping someone cross the street..or if it's the biggest thing, like curing cancer. and when your purpose that God has planned for you is done..your life ends..

you have a purpose in life. or many purposes. and you havent finished it/them yet. and God wants you on earth to serve that purpose.there isnt really a whole lot i can do about how you feel..and i do hope that your family and friends stop. and i do hope that you realize that life is a beautiful thing, and that you enjoy it.

i do hope i helped.

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I am going to Branson, MO next week and it's my first time there. I don't know my way around or any good places to stay at. I want a hotel that's cheap because I will be there for a week & I want a good area where there is a lot of shopping and places around where it's close to the lake also.thanks.

anytime me and my mom go we stay at the musical capital inn.
it's a great hotel, indoor pool, and cheap. and there is a taco bell right across the street from it!

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My boyfriend and I are 16 and have never had a relationship before. We had our first kiss recently. It was nothing special and he used tooo much tongue. Is it too soon to tell him that he uses too much tongue? Or too late since it was 4 days ago and we've hung out since? I don't want to kiss him again til I talk to him about it. I plan on just telling him to close his eyes so I can show him how I like to be kissed. How can I word that though?

i understand that it can sometimes be hard to be open with a boyfriend about stuff.

maybe ask him how HE likes to be kissed..and then show him how YOU like to be kissed.

that way he wont think that your trying to show him what he's doing wrong..he'll think that you're just trying to make the kiss better for the both of you. (:

i hope i helped!

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soo im going to a public school next year and realize how little of clothes i actuually have. i normally used to wear free people ella moss juicy aqua hollister and abercrombie because i didnt need clothes for during the week. i want to get stylish affordable clothes at good prices. what kinds of brands and stores can offer that?

try target.
they have really good jeans and cute colorful shirts.
walmart has good flats. those are in.


i really really like abercrombie. even though it's not the cheapest. they have really nice clothes.

maybe JC pennys?? if they have those where you live..

Kmart maybe..?

that's all i can really think of right now.
there are usually a few stores in the mall that have affordable clothes.

good luck at school next year. (:

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18/f

okay so im having this issue right? In april my period was 21 days late then in may i didnt even have a period. I've been getting the whole PMS symptoms this month, so i believe im about to start but im just kinda spotting at the moment. Yeah i know pregnant right? Well i took a test and it came back negative so thats out of the question... SO does anyone know what may be happening. I plan to go to the doctors soon but i dont know.... im sorta impatient right now.

you might just be spotting from stress.

this can also happen if you've just started your period. it can sometimes take a few years for you to get on a regular normal track.

hope i helped!

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So recently I plugged in my iPod and it told me I had too much music. I got rid of a bunch of songs, emptied my iPod, and plugged it back in. It said "syncing 40 of 452 songs" or whatever, but in the end it didn't sync all the songs! How do I get the music back on there?

when you plug it in..and on itunes it will show a picture of your ipod on there. and down at the bottom of the screen click " sync"

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whats the difference between a 2006 cobalt LT and a 2006 cobalt SS?

i have a 2005 chevy cobalt LS.
i dont think there's really much of a difference between the two. maybe the engine..or some features.

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alright, im a sorphomore in high school and wanna get a topic on my senior project soon. im interested in animal care but do not know what to do for it. i will have to type 8-10 pages and probably have a producct too. i do not know what to do for it. any sugestions please?

you could do one about animal testing..animal abuse..animal shelters..

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I recently posted a question about me mom, (link: http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=563722) and recently, it has gotten worse. Today, I heard her talking to my dad about driving somewhere and leaving me there. I really don't like her. And she got my sister to go on her side, has my dad like a puppet, and is working on my brother. My brother is like my best friend, and she is trying SO hard to get him on her side, but he is on my side. He thinks shes over-reacting as well. Well, yesterday we got into a fight, and I said I wouldn't talk to her, and she say Fine, it's like a blessing on me. So I said, You know what, for once your wish is my command. And I havn't spoken to her since.
I'm not going to talk to her, I hate her, and I want nothing to do with her. So back to this question, if I wanted to run away, and I couldn't go to a friends or familys house, 1 would they find me? 2 Could I survive?

I understand that this is a weird question, and to be honest, I don't want to leave because I have no where to go, but I can't take it anymore, I'm going to go insane unless I get out of here. All I here 24/7 is whats wrong with me and how I have a poblem, and I'm sick of it.

NEVER RUN AWAY.
it only causes more problems.
talk to someone at your school who can help..your principal..counselor..or a school resource officer.
but please..NEVER EVER RUN AWAY.
that will honestly not help.

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im 14 and my bf is 16 and weve been together for about 5 months we make out and stuff and i ask him if i could see his penis he got a bit shy he says its small he's worried about showing me his penis i told him i love him no matter what i dont want to push him what can i do?

If he's worried about doing that kind of stuff with you..then dont push him too. Just let him take his time. If you push him, it can make him feel like all you want him for is sex. And that can make him not want to be in the relationship anymore. Just give him time..and he might warm up to you soon.

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so there's this guy a like and i've been liking him for a while now. But the problem is he's a junior and i'm a freshman. So we don't even talk at all. We're in the same lunch period and i see him in the hallways a lot. How can i get him to talk to me? because i cant go up to him. I'm too shy. haha.

Okay..well.

I know how you feel.
I'm a freshman. And I'm dating a senior.
Maybe, since your shy, you could start talking to him online..like on Facebook or MySpace. And then if he becomes interested, I'm almost certain that he will want to talk to you in person. I was the exact same way about my boyfriend. But we started talking online one night..and now I couldnt be happier! :)

I hope it all work's out for you!

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Sorry to be so blunt about it, but its beginning to piss me off. We've been dating now for over 8 months, and she seems incapable of completing the smallest tasks (like operating the ice maker on a fridge for instance) or even dealing with the smallest insignificant issues that come across the average person in everyday life. She cries all the time, and whenever i'm anywhere near her friends (whom are also my friends) she gets EXTREMELY jealous and basically pisses me off. I've never yelled at her, and i've been nothing but the kindest, sweetest boyfriend i can be, but sometimes i feel like our relationship is going nowhere, and i honestly can't see us even making it to valentines day :(

Am i crazy, or are there girls out there that are emotionally stable and don't feel like they need to make me feel that i'm prince charming every time i put ice in my glass? I just wish sometimes that i was with a girl that was a little more outgoing and less clingy. One that can just "hang out" without having to figure out what we're gonna do before coming over.

By the way. What she lacks in emotional stability, she makes up for in physical intimacy, and i feel trapped. We haven't had sex yet, and i know we both would be okay with it if we could ind somewhere other than the top of a parking garage to let it happen... but now, i'm almost afraid to be any more intimate with her than i already am, because i don't want to hurt her so badly if we break up.

All I can think of..is to be honest with her. Me and my ex boyfriend dated for 8 month's..and when he broke up with me..he didn't tell me the honest reason..he just made up a bunch of excuses. PLEASE be honest with her..

Tell her you dont like her jelousy..and how you dont like how she's clingy..and all about her not being able to complete simple tasks.

If you be honest with her..it wont hurt her as much as breaking up with her and not even trying to fix it.

So please just be honest with her..tell her what you like about her..and what you dont like..what she can improve on..that kinda thing.

I wish you two the best of luck. :)

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so this is what i look like without makeup
(bad picture, bad quality, but its something)

http://img150.imageshack.us/img150/638/photo555dv5.jpg

basically big blue eyes & big lips, long black hair

best way to use eyeliner, eye shadow and lip colors
anything would be a big help
pictures too!
thanks (:

wear eyeliner around your eyes..like on the lashline. wear lot's of mascara..maybe some that make your lashes look thicker..and fuller.

for eyeshadows..maybe browns and golds..

for lip colors...i think maybe..natural pinks..vanillas..and coffee colors..like nude, and gold would do good for you. (:

hope i helped!

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I'm sorry, I didn't know where to put this question!

I have had T-mobile for a while. I have a very old phone. I don't have a real plan. Just whenever I need minutes I go and buy a refill card from the store and refill it.

Now. I want to know if I can;

a) http://www.t-mobile.com/shop/phones/detail.aspx?device=33a988b0-3ac9-4aed-937c-6316144741f9

Get this phone (either new or off ebay) and put my sim card in it and have it work like normal.

b) Add unlimited text and pay every month for it without having to get an actual plan.

Help??

you can definitly put the sim card into this phone..and it work like normal. i do that any time that i get a new phone..and i'm on a Go Phone plan.

you can talk to your phone company and ask them about adding unlimited texting to your phone. i'm posotive that you can!

hope i helped. :)

i really like that phone! :)

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When i upload songs from my mixed cds it comes up on itunes at "track 01"
how do i change it?

Ive tried right clicking, but there is no option to where i can choose rename.

Heeeeeeelp.

right click on the song that you want to rename.
Click " Get Info"
you can change the name of the song, the artist, the CD. :))

hope i helped!

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Does anybody know why Harry Potter and the Philosopher's Stone was released in the United States as Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone?

I think it's just the way that people in America say Philosopher's. I'm not sure though.

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hey im kinda confused how do i upload pictures from my cell to facebook. I added facebook mobile but then i entered the activation code into the upload photos part and it always ended up being invailed. I have version btw, idk if that means anything. Thanks!

when you take a picture, go to where you can send it to an address, then type in that you want to send it to mobile@facebook.com

and it will send it to your account.

to send the pictures quicker everytime that you want to send one, just add facebook mobile to your contacts list!

hope i helped!

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What are some good songs that will get me in that crazy, spunky, summer party mood? They can be from the 80s, 90s, and early 2000s and recently. I'd prefer not to get a list of what the top ten songs are on Z100 right now, I'd like to have music that isn't as well known or overplayed.
Thanks!

metro station has great music. it will really get you dancing and excited!!

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