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bestfriends lil sis
Here is the deal. I really like my best friend's little sister (She's 21) and Im 24. its been ongoing for about a year and a half now. We've talked off and on, and talked about getting together numerious times, but never happends. It started out fast paced, and before I knew it we were using pet names, etc. It always seems that she gets me interested, appologies for the last time, then hooks up with some other guy. This last time is actually an ex she just split up with over the summer. She knows how I feel, Ive been very honest with her, probably a little too much. She's told me that she thinks about me everyday and how she wishes things would work out, yada yada. I know Im just setting myself up for a dissapointment, but how can I stay friends with someone that I have a strong attraction to? Especially my best friends lil sis. Its hard to be around when she's with some other guy, but I think about her all the time.
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I'm sorry, but it sounds like this girl likes to play games a little too much. She KNOWS you like her, so she goes ahead and does whatever she wants and then apologizes because she KNOWS you'll forgive her. She's getting her cake and eating it too, ya know? She likes the fact that you're giving her attention since a) your her brother's friend, which is almost a forbidden sexy thing to her and b) you're older! I know these kinda chicks! lol
Please, try to distance yourself from her. (Unless she really matures up FAST and stops playing games) Being attracted to someone and still being friends with them, is just a recipe for heartbreak day after day. You need some space and time to get over these feelings and maybe find someone else!
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