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shy girl!!
Posted Thursday February 12 2009, 10:20 pm
so im 15/f and i have never had not even 1 boyfriend!! im kinda shy which probbaly explains a bit. wondering how i can i guess get out of being shy? im only shy at skool but at home im jokeing and haveing fun!! i don't really no y? any thoughs about y?
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Back together - how do I handle it?
Posted Thursday February 12 2009, 10:07 pm
Hi, I'm 21 f, he's 23 m.
The basics: We dated for a few months almost three years ago, but broke up because he was having depression issues and couldn't handle our relationship on top of all that. We...didn't have the best time when we were together. Neither of us were really ourselves for various reasons. He was a little emotionally abusive, and I was insecure, borderline anorexic...etc...
So, we remained friends and hung out a lot over the past few years, growing together, having fun just doing nothing...We both had some trials and leaned on each other for support, and the one thing that hasn't changed is that we love each other. His family hates me, and that has stopped us from really being together, as we were both a litt...
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Is he just NOT that into me??
Posted Thursday February 12 2009, 8:54 pm
Okay, so a lot of my friends like this guy that I live by and I have a little crush on him too. Last week, one of my friends was texting him and he asked her what my number was. We started texting and it really seemed like he liked me. But then one day, we texted for two hours straight and he started giving short answers and replying slow. I asked him if he liked me and he told me kinda and I said I kinda liked him too. Things have been awkward since then and I really don't want to like him, but I can't help it.
So I guess my question is, does he still like me and if not, how do I get over him?
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Easily Discouraged
Posted Thursday February 12 2009, 8:24 pm
I like a guy in my school, I'm not sure if he likes me but it's possible. He doesn't know I like him. There are a lot of signs he does like me but a couple of things make me skeptical about it. But the fact of the matter is whether he likes me or not I get completely discouraged over little things and completely lose confidence in myself, and lose confidence that I'll ever have a chance with him. I know I should go with my intuition because he has shown several signs but one little thing happens and I'm totally upset. How can I feel more confident about myself, around him, and in the possibility of him liking me or ever liking me?
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what to do
Posted Thursday February 12 2009, 6:16 pm
So I have known this guy for about 2 years we arent dating he says hes single but is with a different girl I guess to use her for her car and stuff well the other night me and him slept together and I questioned him about this girl the next day hes like we are kinda sorta talkin now hes goin around saying I didn't sleep with that bitch all she did was suck my dick. I am hurt by him deny this but what can I do to get even because I am seriously done with him.
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I am so confused!!
Posted Thursday February 12 2009, 4:55 pm
I've liked this guy for a really long time(2 years) and known him 4 that long too.But he never gives me the time of day.He always makes fun of me and is always rude to me and not my other friends.But I feel like I love him.And on the other hand, I like this other kid but he lives far away from me and he treats me better than the other kid.What should I do?I really like both of these guys.
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making out
Posted Thursday February 12 2009, 4:06 pm
I have only kissed a guy. I haven't made out yet and i am 15. I have a boyfriend and i think the time is right. How do i make out? I know everyone does it differently but i want to know some kind of way so i'm not completely lost!! Some people do it with toungue and some only suck on the lips. I don't know what to do! Help!
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partay!!
Posted Thursday February 12 2009, 4:04 pm
16/f
Alright well my boyfriend is having a party this weekend and it is going to be huge! He invited a lot of the school and even some of the people i don't like is going to be there. I have some problems though...
1. I can't go because i am sick and its outside and i have a bad cough.
2. The girl that likes him is going and she always flirts with him and i am scared she will do that there. They are friends but she likes him lots.
3. There will be alcohol and drugs there and he dosen't do drugs but he does drink occasionaly. I am scared he will get drunk because i'm not there and do something bad. I don't want him to cheat on me! Last time he had a party we werent going out and he made ou...
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CONFUSING signals
Posted Thursday February 12 2009, 12:58 pm
Ok I will make this as brief as possible.
I am 18/F, been dating 21/m for about a month.
First date no kiss, second date kiss, third date nothing, fourth kiss, fifth nothing.....
but he keeps asking me out, is he just nervous?
He's also told me he "wants to make sure it's right" before committing to a relationship. Which I think I can understand if he really means what he said...
I'm confused. Does anyone have any idea whats going on?
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im sprung....
Posted Thursday February 12 2009, 10:15 am
me and my bf have been togethr for almost 2 months. and i liked him so much like a month or two before we got together. well we both told eachother we fell for eachother. and were in love. and i feel like im hella sprung. every song on the radio reminds me of him. i cant go a second without thinking bout him. i get butterflies. i think im seriously sprung. but is that a bad thing? i just dont want to get hurt. cuz my friend is the same with her bf and she got hella hurt recently but there beter now. but my question is how can i not be so sprung? and not be so much in love. i dont want to put all of myself into a guy and something does happen (which i dont think will happen) but still. i dont want to get hurt. well thanks so much in advance!
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Weird turn on
Posted Thursday February 12 2009, 3:46 am
So I don't really know why but
today in science class we were pricking our fingers to draw blood and test our blood type, and I couldn't get my fingers to bleed enough to fill this little tube. so this guy, we'll call him adam, offers to help me and i say ok, because i really do need the help.
well ive been mildly attracted to adam for a while, sort of off and on, but today when he pricked my finger and it started bleeding it really turned me on. I think it might have had something to do with him causing me minor pain. But when he did it I cried out in..well i guess it was pleasure rather than pain. I have been thinking about him ever since. I flirted with him the rest of the day. Is there anything...weird about this turning me on like this?
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Joking or No?
Posted Wednesday February 11 2009, 11:12 pm
This guy sort of asked me out, but I dont know if he was joking or not. I was in gym talking to some friends and a guy I hate. Then the guy I hate went and sat by these other two guys. Then like five minutes later the guy I hate called over to me and said, "hey, Lynn!, Edward likes you and wants to know if you will go out with him" and I ignored him. But he asked me like three times. Then our gym teacher told me n the guy i hate and my two friends that it was our turn to play badmitten. When i was walking up to the laughing with my friends, "Edward" said hey...lynn? and I ignored him too because hes the kind of guy that asks people out as jokes and laugh in the persons face if they say yes. And I kinda like this guy but I dont know if hes joking. Any thoughts? Thanks
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This Is Screwed Up
Posted Wednesday February 11 2009, 10:44 pm
Hi, this question relates to a friend of mine not me. If have this friend who is infatuated with this girl. The girl doesn't want a relationship with him but likes the attention. I also found out that she gets jealous when he doesn't call and mad when he flirts with other girls. What should I do as his best friend, and how should he respond to this girl.
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valentines day for boyfriend
Posted Wednesday February 11 2009, 10:33 pm
okay so i have been dating my guy for 7 months and we each went all out for xmas time gifts so im kind of thinking i dont wanna go all out money-wise for v-day. but i still want it to be good you know? i also worry that he will go all out for me and then i will just feel bad so any suggestions would be great. i wont see him on valentines by the way so it cant be like dinner or anything like that... so far i think im getting him a new nice wallet with something in it-probably a note or a pic. and then a frame with a picure of us. maybe some cute boxers? and chocolate and other food of course...anything else?? thanks :)
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gradually admit i like him
Posted Wednesday February 11 2009, 10:03 pm
16/F
I think the guy i like likes me, but i'm not totally sure. There are a lot of signs that could prove he does but I'm still not sure. He doesn't know I like him though. So I've never had a boyfriend, and I like to do things gradually and slowly, I don't feel comfortable just blurting it out to him. How can I gradually hint to him that I like him and how can I lead that up to makinghim figure it out sortof? (assuming he doesn't make a move first). We talk in two particular classes, and one of them is every other day where we talk the most but my friend is also there. so help!
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Valentines Day
Posted Wednesday February 11 2009, 9:19 pm
Ok so me and my boyfiend have been dating about 2 months. We are going out to eat saturday for valentines day its nowhere fancy(i'm not a big fancy restaurant or fancy anything kinda girl)but i don't know what i should get him or do for him. I told him not to get me anything when he asked what i wanted but he said he was still gonna get me something. What do I do?
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guys?
Posted Wednesday February 11 2009, 9:09 pm
what does it mean when a guy you're hooking up with says gross things to you? like...i have to take a shit. he likes you? he's trying to send the "were just friends" message? does it mean anythinggg?
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i think i forgot how to be in a relationship
Posted Wednesday February 11 2009, 8:41 pm
on 2/13/06 i got my first boyfriend. i was 14, he was 17 and we were set up through friends. it was something like..we met on saturday and were going out on monday with no talking in between. we went out for 4 months and it was really akward for a really long time until we got to know each other. we broke up in may.
two and a half years later (Oct/Nov of 08) i had a fling with my best friend. i'm not sure what to call it. we acted like we were dating, if people asked we would say we were together and we were basically together 24/7.
Now today i started going out with one of my best friend's boyfriend's best friend. we met a while ago, october i think, at a party. just a quick introduction. then we all went bowling together thi...
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Valentines Night
Posted Wednesday February 11 2009, 4:39 pm
My boyfriends coming to my house on valentines day. I can't think of fun cute things to do before having sex n stuff. Like watch a movie n order food is all i can reli think of just now. Any Ideas?
x
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another short boy story, sorry haha.
Posted Wednesday February 11 2009, 4:17 pm
Okay, so I don't know if any of you have seen my other posts about this guy who told me he liked me, and i told him that I liked him, and then got in a rleationship with his ex girlfriend .. well, anyways. I don't know if I should talk to him or something. He's in one of my classes and it's ALREADY awkward, so i'm not sure about this talking in person thing. Actually, I'm completley sure that I don't want to talk to him. I want to write him a message on facebook or something, saying like ... "I know you have her now, and I hope your happy. I just want you to know that what you did was a really dick move, and one day karma is going to come back and bite you in the ass ..." or something like that. i dont know. I just can't stay sile...
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