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guys?
what does it mean when a guy you're hooking up with says gross things to you? like...i have to take a shit. he likes you? he's trying to send the "were just friends" message? does it mean anythinggg?
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This means that he is very comfortable with you (and, no, not in the GOOD way) to the point that he feels he does not need to impress you to "catch" you. It also means that he has very, very poor manners when it comes to interacting with others.
So, if you're hooking up with this guy then don't ever expect roses, candlelit dinners, and romantic gestures. The guy is after the booty and that's about that. You're simply "one of the guys" plus some sexual gratification. If he felt you were girlfriend material then, trust me, he wouldn't inform you of his bathroom habits.
Simply put: The guy isn't as into you as you are into him, most likely. Like I said, you're basically one of the guys with sexual pluses.
So, technically, yes, he is sending you the "we are just friends" message. To add insult to injury, he's also adding the, "You're not even worthy of personal respect in my eyes." (Yeah, it sounds a little harsh but think of it this way: Do you think a man that is interested in dating a female could walk up and say, "I need to shit," or a man trying to impress a lady says, "I need to go take a dump right now...hold on." No. Never. Giving respect also means keeping personal hygiene habits concealed.)
For more information about friends with benefits relationships, you may want to read a previous answer of mine:
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I suggest you stop "hooking up" with the guy and find someone who is looking for a relationship with you--and not just your body or what gratification you can give them.
If you have any more questions please feel free to ask me! :)
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