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I am so confused!!

Question Posted Thursday February 12 2009, 4:55 pm

I've liked this guy for a really long time(2 years) and known him 4 that long too.But he never gives me the time of day.He always makes fun of me and is always rude to me and not my other friends.But I feel like I love him.And on the other hand, I like this other kid but he lives far away from me and he treats me better than the other kid.What should I do?I really like both of these guys.

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spixieeex3 answered Friday February 13 2009, 6:01 pm:
Besides the part about there being another guy for you, I had just about the exact same situation in 9th&10th grade. I refused to get over this guy, he was such a jerk to me but I kept telling myself maybe he'd come around, I'm sure you're feeling extremely unwilling to get over him. I finally got over the guy this past June, and I realized a lot about my self. I became a lot stronger, and lot braver, and a lot more confident since then. Trust me, I understand it's hard, but you gotta realize that in the end he's not worth it, I thought I couldn't bare to get over him but I really was wrong. The best advice I could give you would be to gradually start getting over him, and realize that you deserve better. Life is very, very short and girls like us can't waste it on guys who have no respect for us. Getting over this guy can definitely help you gain more self respect and realize your own inner potential. What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger.

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musicissoul301 answered Friday February 13 2009, 6:15 am:
What I would do is, if a girl I like treated me better, but she was far away and then the other girl that I like that lives closer, but she treated me like he treats you, then I would go for the one farther away because there is a better CHANCE(I'm saying its likely but could not be true) that she will like me back.

Hope I helped by the way I'm 13(m)if it matters.

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