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partay!!
16/f
Alright well my boyfriend is having a party this weekend and it is going to be huge! He invited a lot of the school and even some of the people i don't like is going to be there. I have some problems though...
1. I can't go because i am sick and its outside and i have a bad cough.
2. The girl that likes him is going and she always flirts with him and i am scared she will do that there. They are friends but she likes him lots.
3. There will be alcohol and drugs there and he dosen't do drugs but he does drink occasionaly. I am scared he will get drunk because i'm not there and do something bad. I don't want him to cheat on me! Last time he had a party we werent going out and he made out with this girl and didn't even realize who it was. He hooked up with her and didn't even like her.
4. Another reason i probably wouldn't go is because i have never drank in my life or done any kind of drugs and i would be the only one at the party not doing anything. Everybpdy tells me i should but i'm not doing that.
I just hope he dosen't do anything like this or flirt with other girls or hook up. I know i should trust him and i do but you never can tell because he might get drunk and not realize it. It's not my decision to tell him to drink or not, that's up to him. What should i do? thanks!
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uh..why don't you just go? i wouldn't want to miss out on a fun party because i 'have a bad cough'.
i say you go and get drunk. i'm telling you, you will enjoy yourself so much.
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k...if i were you....
1.good that you're tryna take care of your health
but take medicine at the exact times you're supposed to and cover up nicely and go.
2. there's always gonna be girls like that...some you may not even know about..you just have to hope he's faithful.
3. Ok really...i don't buy that... i've been drunk before and still know exactly who everybody is or if i don't know someone. they say the truth comes out when you're drunk so if he ends up cheating..and hopefully he wont..then maybe he just doesn't have a faithful heart..i dunno
4. you DO NOT have to do either of the two ever if you don't want to. if people talk smack just remember that at least you're not a FOLLOWER doing things just to fit in. (p.s. always keep your cup in ur own hand..ppl try to slip things in drinks...not safe!)
k hun...hope i helped...let me know how things worked out...best of luck!!
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