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i like him so much
Posted Sunday February 22 2009, 3:41 pm
hi first off i'm a junior in highschool and the guy i like is a sophomore. this guy and i have a little past, we've made out once for like threee hours. after that we texted and talked a lot, but nothing serious because i'm not one to be in a relationship and i made that sort of clear to him. but now he has a freshman girlfriend and now i want him back because i'm realizing how much i reallly reallly like him. we still text and talk a lot. last night he was going to sneak out with me, but i decided that wouldn't be a good idea and instead we talked on the phone for two hours until two in the morning. do i have a chance? at alllll to get him back.
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i just wanna be his friend
Posted Sunday February 22 2009, 10:59 am
okay well me and this boy used to be bestfriends. like sooo close he wuld come over all the time and talk on the phone with me and everything bestfriends shuld do. and then it became more than that for a while now. we just recently broke up and i have a feeling things wont ever be the same. he keeps trying to make a move on me even though we just broke up. i want to be his bestfriend like we used to be but that cant happen if he thinks we're more than freinds...i dont want to be mean and say i dont like you..but it seems like i have to....what do i do, what do i say?
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suspicions
Posted Sunday February 22 2009, 8:21 am
hello everyone, im new here. heres my question/problem.
me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 3 months now, this is our 3rd time dating and its working out amazingly accept for a few issues. i have suspicions that she is cheating on me. she swears that she isnt and i believe her 100% cause she never had done that to me or anyone at least to my knowledge. but theres still my suspicions. she never lets me see her phone, she occasionally has added miles on her car, and she is always texting someone even when we are together. i have asked her about this and she tells me to stop being nosy and that i need to trust her, and i do. but my suspicions are still there. i just cant seem to get them outta my head. any advice is appreciated. thanks
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Just sex or more?
Posted Sunday February 22 2009, 3:04 am
I'm really just looking for opinions here. Honest ones. Be as blunt as you want really.
A guy and I have been "talking" for a few weeks. we have had sex twice and there is no doubt in my mind that we will continue to have sex whether there is a relationship or not. Now this whole time I really think he is just using me for sex. which obviously i'm fine with if i continue to do this. but he texts me all day and will tell me he misses me (he's out of town for the weekend) and how he wants to see me. I however take that as "i want to have sex with you" cause I mean i'm not completely naive here. Then out of the blue he asks when we are going to start dating. He has also introduced me to his family and shared some in...
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worried about my girlfriend
Posted Sunday February 22 2009, 1:41 am
16/m
my girlfriend has not had her period since christmas.
we have, since then, had sex once (1 week ago)(valentine's day)(we used a condom which did not break)
we've been really close and for the most part naked but not inside each other, but, again, really close, without a condom.
what are the chances that she's pregnant? i'm worried, and so is she.
thank you very much!
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Stuck.
Posted Sunday February 22 2009, 1:04 am
16 f, Long Distance Relationship.
I dated this guy for a few months and everything seemed fine. Every few weeks he'd come into town and we'd spend time together, we'd text and IM everyday, talk to eachother on the phone etc.. until one day he decided to break it off. He never really gave me a reason but I was heartbroken. I really cared for this guy. We decided we'd try and be friends and if it was meant to be we'd end up together again.
A few weeks later he tells me he misses me and wants me back. I told him I missed him to but if he wanted to be with me he had to really make an effort now. (Traditional dates, hanging out) and he agreed to it. Then a few days after that he broke it off AGAIN. I was fed...
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ask me out
Posted Sunday February 22 2009, 12:40 am
This guy asked me out a like a little bit over a month ago, because we both told eachother we liked one another and have been talking for a while. When he asked if i would say yes I said that i would say no. I felt like at the time we should just still get to know eachother more and I was too confused about whether I liked him, it was on and off everyday. So now i want him to ask me out because im positive that i want to now. Thing is we havnt talked all vacation, like over a week because he lost his cell. I dont want to specificly say ask me out but i want to hint that im ready for him to. What are some ways to flirt more or specific small flirty comments and be more [made up word] girlfriendy?
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what would you do in my situation?
Posted Saturday February 21 2009, 11:05 pm
16/f, sorry if this is a bit long, I appreciate your help so so so much :]
So, there is this guy, and he told me he liked me, I told him I liked him, but then a couple days after that he got with his ex girlfriend who basically was just dumped by her boyfriend. the guy and i havent talked for 4 or 5 weeks. [since that happened] he is in one of my classes. math. and i hate that class already.
well on friday, i had to collect homework. and no one was passing it up, so i kind of went down his row [which is right next to mine, and im in the way front, he is like 2 seats behind me in the next row, so awkward. he moved there when we got our seats changed.] but before i got to him, they started passing it up, so then all of the sudde...
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about this guy
Posted Saturday February 21 2009, 10:37 pm
ok so i work at a deli store and theres this guy that im really attracted too...but he seems to be really nci eand into me but at the same time he dont seem to give me much importance what should i do? i am really attracted to him and i cant wait to talk to him? any thing i should do??
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don't know what to do..
Posted Saturday February 21 2009, 8:59 pm
ok.. so i'm 19 and am in my first relationship ever, its been six months now, and just last week my boyfriend left for a job in another country. he says he wants to stay together and be together when he comes back in a year but it dosen't even seem like he cares at all.. he dosen't write me emails or anything, he can't call me because he said that he can't use his cell over there and it would cost way to much to call, however i looked it up and he could have used his cell over there if he paid a little extra.. and he tells me that he loves me a lot, he had an ex who did the same thing (take a job in another country) and so he knows how it feels but if he does and he loves me as much as he says why would he want to put me through that? anyw...
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is he just a player?
Posted Saturday February 21 2009, 8:58 pm
I know this guy, and he is my neighbor. and a while ago, I had a dream about him and I decided to confront him about it. And we started talking and flirting and we arent going out but he wants to hang out and get to know me better. but the thing is... whenever he wants to hang out he talks to me and says "so you busy tonight?" but then on other days (such as week days) he wont talk to me at all. I text him and he gives me short answers like "hey" "whats up" "not much" "same" "yep" but then on the weekends when we want to hang its like "oh ya so i talked to my friend and he was totally cool about it" its so weird. I'm just not sure if he really does want to get to know me,...
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an emotional wreck
Posted Saturday February 21 2009, 6:51 pm
16/f, sorry if this is a bit long, I appreciate those who take the time to read this and help me :]
So, there is this guy, and he told me he liked me, I told him I liked him, but then a couple days after that he got with his ex girlfriend who basically was just dumped by her boyfriend. the guy and i havent talked for 4 or 5 weeks. [since that happened] he is in one of my classes. math. and i hate that class already.
well on friday, i had to collect homework. and no one was passing it up, so i kind of went down his row [which is right next to mine, and im in the way front, he is like 2 seats behind me in the next row, so awkward. he moved there when we got our seats changed.] but before i got to him, they started passing it up,...
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boyfriend...=[
Posted Saturday February 21 2009, 4:08 pm
okay so i recently had a question about my boyfriend being a no-show 2 nights in a row and not calling me...that was 2 days ago and he hasnt contacted me in any way since...his phones broken but he could use his little brothers who doesnt use it alot...should i text his brother or wait until he texts me? i really wanted to see him this weekend but im tired of always having to be the one to step up, and i'm trying to be mad at him because i want him to know that he hurt me but its soo hard, especially when he won't text or call me...=/
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I Need Advice
Posted Saturday February 21 2009, 3:58 am
What should if a boy i like says he doesn't like me but other people says he does?
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Boy being pushy?
Posted Friday February 20 2009, 10:39 pm
15/F
this is lengthy!!!
This guy really likes me and he used to do bad things. Hes not a virgin and he used to always ask for "pictures" and stuff. That wasnt too long ago. Then, he would ask to hang out, just at the park and we would cuddle and stuff and he actually asked to hold my hand, and now he's asking to kiss me.
I went to his house w/o supervision to tell him that I didn't know how I felt about him and that I didn't wanna lead him on. Because I like how he acts around me and I like him, but I don't want to kiss him. I wouldn't let him kiss me at his house but we cuddled and stuff.
And how he doesn't talk to me or hug me as much as he did. And when he does, he's really hard to read. Like, he'll ...
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is this right?
Posted Friday February 20 2009, 9:53 pm
ive been dating my bf of 6 months and i know we're in love...the thing is he blew me off 2 days in a row this week saying we're gonna hang out and that hes coming at a certain time...he was a no-show both days...i didn't even get a call from him saying that he couldn't come, so i stayed up all night waiting for him until ijust couldnt take it and crashed...i cried myself to sleep because i felt like i wasnt even worth a phone call...do i have a right to be mad at him?
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Revenge
Posted Thursday February 19 2009, 10:08 pm
People say revenge is never the answer, and you might be one of them, but I don't care. So don't scold me or try to reason with me just answer my question and get over it. I want revenge on him. There is this boy ((we'll call him Dave)) and he broke my heart. I know we are young and I am not going to try and say we are in love but I think its stupid that people say you can't get your heart broken even though they know they felt this exact pain at your age. Anyway, if Dave thinks he can just mess around with my emotions, tell me he likes but that he's "not interested in dating" but still expect me to treat him like a boyfriend, he's wrong. If he thinks he can lead me on when he gets bored but then ignore me whenever he feels like ...
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Are the signs there? Does he like me?
Posted Thursday February 19 2009, 9:38 pm
Let me give you some background information: (If it helps any?)
I'm 21 yr old african american female, he's a 31 yr old caucasion male...
Here's what's up....
1) I've liked him since August of 2008.
2) We're pretty close (especially now)... we've been on 3 "dates"...
3) We haven't kissed, we simply hug...
4) Anytime we depart, he tells me to be careful and to have a good night...
5) He's such a gentleman... he holds the door for me, offers to carry my stuff, offers me his jacket, pays on dates and stuff...
6) He's always staring at me....and smiling too.
7) I find him always trying to get close to me... and when he does he touches me gently in non-provocative w...
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Ugh Bf Problems
Posted Thursday February 19 2009, 9:29 pm
Everything is just fine with me and my boyfriend except for one thing. His best gal friend which is someone I'm very jealous of sometimes. They talk alot with each other and I know they're just friends but sometimes I feel that he likes being with her than with me. I know he loves me but how can I let him know I dont like this, that he should make some time for me too as much as he makes for her and that maybe she can back off alittle?
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hes not over her
Posted Thursday February 19 2009, 8:33 pm
okay. im 15/f hes 15/m
so he nad his girl friends of a year just broke up almost a month ago. and he lied to her about hanging out with other girls okay. so theres some back history now heres my story.
im rachel and his names adam. i have like him sense i saw him in 7th grade he played base ball on my best friends team. well me and adam dated for a month and brooke up and we lost tuch untill we got to highschool now i see him evry day and everywhere. i like it.hes freinds with my friend becca so we all went to the movies (this is after him and his gf broke up)so becca had her guy zach and i had adam. it was really fun we saw taken. okay but we held hands and snuggled together the whole time. it was very nice. he was s...
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