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Stuck.
16 f, Long Distance Relationship.
I dated this guy for a few months and everything seemed fine. Every few weeks he'd come into town and we'd spend time together, we'd text and IM everyday, talk to eachother on the phone etc.. until one day he decided to break it off. He never really gave me a reason but I was heartbroken. I really cared for this guy. We decided we'd try and be friends and if it was meant to be we'd end up together again.
A few weeks later he tells me he misses me and wants me back. I told him I missed him to but if he wanted to be with me he had to really make an effort now. (Traditional dates, hanging out) and he agreed to it. Then a few days after that he broke it off AGAIN. I was fed up so I didn't talk to him for a week or so.
Now hes back, and I told him if he really wants me he has to TRY and until we can be functional again, i can't be his girlfriend. For the first few days he's sweet and caring and then afterwards you can TELL he loses interest again.
I'm so over all this back and forth. I DESERVE better than that. I deserve a guy who can make up his mind and be stable with me. Im sick of being toyed around with.
How can I really and truely stop going back to him. I feel like he just doesnt care as much as he thinks he does, and everytime he loses interest i just keep getting hurt. I love him with all my heart, but I need to move on.
Help.
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yes you do deserve better than that. A guy will do what you allow him to do.If he loses interest after a few days, then he's just not that into you. Its a good idea for you to find someone that will love you no matter how far apart you are and will do everything he can to keep your love growing.
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The same thing happened to me.I just stopped texting him and talking to him,and I was avoiding him for a while.Then I lost it and went back to him,but this time I ditched him,even though I still had feelings for him.He stopped asking to see me and that was it.Soon after I fell in love with another guy.So,the thing is keep him away from you and look for someone who'll treat you better,with respect.You may think you're in love with him,but as time passes you'll forget about him.Just as I forgot about my ex.There are plenty guys out there who won't be a total jerk to you like this guy is.Be strong and show him he can't play with you.If I were you,I'd ditch him for good.That's my opinion.Hope it helped. :)
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