|
what would you do in my situation?
16/f, sorry if this is a bit long, I appreciate your help so so so much :]
So, there is this guy, and he told me he liked me, I told him I liked him, but then a couple days after that he got with his ex girlfriend who basically was just dumped by her boyfriend. the guy and i havent talked for 4 or 5 weeks. [since that happened] he is in one of my classes. math. and i hate that class already.
well on friday, i had to collect homework. and no one was passing it up, so i kind of went down his row [which is right next to mine, and im in the way front, he is like 2 seats behind me in the next row, so awkward. he moved there when we got our seats changed.] but before i got to him, they started passing it up, so then all of the sudden the guy ... we'll call him bob.. leans on his desk and says something like, "[my name] would you mind taking this--" or "[my name] will you do me a favor and--" i've been wanting him to talk to me, but i felt like he was being an asshole so i cut him off and snatched it out of his hand. [with attitude i guess] and then bob was like "thank you" [i think kind of sarcastically. or surprised.]
anyways, that happened and then i've been having wierd dreams involving him [nothing sexual, dont worry hahaha] just like dreams that I'm trying to get him to notice me. or talk to me. or break up with his girlfriend. who doesn't deserve him because she always told people ho annoying he was. and not that bob deserves anyone because i REALLY like/liked him.
sometimes i feel like he's looking at me in math. and when i talk to someone who sits behind him, i feel like he tries to make eye contact with me, and when we do make eye contact, i break away frist really quickly, or he does. and we were put in groups on friday [the day i snatched the paper from him] and he was right next to me [in his group] and i think he was listening to me talk to my group or trying to get my attention because whenever this guy in his group asked me a question, he would look at me and our eyes met and it was so intense. like. i don't even now how to explain it.
and ontop of that, i think i like this freshman now. but i still like bob. im so lost and confused and i can't get bob off of my mind. and sometimes the new guy i like comes into my mind. but not really. wow im so confused. what should i do? talk to bob? I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO, I AM SO LOST. someone please help me :[ thank you.
and by the way, i don't think that the new guy i liek likes me haha. its a long story but we are starting to become flirtatious and playful :] he is also in one of my classes. and bob is friends with my brother. and so is the freshman.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
I would just break it off completely with Bob. Because first of all, he did go back to his x. So he obviously thinks more about her than you and if he still flirts with you too he's obviously a player. Try to do your best not to think about Bob, and DON'T talk to him, because he sounds like he's a real jerk. Eventually he's going to hurt you really bad. He will probably still try to talk to you, but you still need to avoid him.
It will be hard to get your mind off of this matter, but keep your mind on other things like your friends and doing things you enjoy that don't involve him.
Hope something I've said helps you with this.
Mr-Fix-It
]
I love how everyone uses the name bob for a code male name. Bob is a cool name lol. I would say that whether you think you like bob or not you probably do, your having dreams about getting him to like you and its your subconscious talking to you. I dont suggest talking to bob because he has a girlfriend and thats an easy way for you to let go and move on. I think if bob really liked you to begin with than he wouldnt of gotten back with his ex so theres a sign that you have to watch out for this guy. As for the new guy, try to get to know him. If you still have reasons to believe that bob likes you then ask your brother to find out some info, also on the new guy.
]
More Questions: |