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okay so i recently had a question about my boyfriend being a no-show 2 nights in a row and not calling me...that was 2 days ago and he hasnt contacted me in any way since...his phones broken but he could use his little brothers who doesnt use it alot...should i text his brother or wait until he texts me? i really wanted to see him this weekend but im tired of always having to be the one to step up, and i'm trying to be mad at him because i want him to know that he hurt me but its soo hard, especially when he won't text or call me...=/
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well i say that you should call the house if you know it and tell him how you feel about him not showing up cuz thats really trashy i mean maybe there is a reason you could always ask be like so i was waiting for you and you never showd up wats with that? and if his excuse sounds dumb then get rid of him yes its hard but why have put yourself through that you know
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I disagree with the other person. I wouldnt tell him your mad, because guys tend to think the opposite and he'll think your blowing it out of control. I would say 2 nights or 4, whichever isnt that long, especially since his phone is broken, so you dont necesarily know that he can use his brothers. I wouldnt text the brother, if you guys sort of just started dating you dont want to come off as that attached clingy girlfriend trying to get in contact with him anyway possible, if not then i still wouldnt because if he can use his bro's cell or a house phone then maybe he will call you. If he waits over a week when you guys do talk, be like hey your alive or yeah thanks i am alive, something to show your kinda upset but not directly saying that your mad.
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if you're mad at the guy than i would just tell him. i mean guys can be totally clueless and he might not get the message. so i would just tell him. i think that you should make the move and call him but not text him. texting is always a wrong way to solve a problem.
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