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I just got back from a 7 week exchange program in France. I thought I was eating pretty healthy and moderately over there, but now that Im home I realize Ive gained ALOT of weight. I havnt weighed myself yet, but some of the pants that I didnt wear the whole time now dont even fit me. I had just bought these white jeans before I left, and they fit perfectly when I bought them (they werent even that tight) and now they are too tight to wear in public. That is just one example, but there are alot more things that dont fit anymore. Tell me what to do!! Go on a diet? Start running or somthing? People used to call me skinny alot and now Ive actually got 'love handles' and its embarrassing! (link)
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usually, foods from another country may have different calories than our country...
i would exersise reguarlly, maybe join a gym, and try to eat a little healthier and cut down on the snacks.. maybe you should weigh yourself and try to make a goal for yourself.. maybe each week try to loose five pounds or something.. and then reward yourself at the end of the week by taking yourself out someplace.. goals are great and they help you stay motavated and keep you on task. and by rewarding yourself.. it makes you keep going.. running would be a good idea as well.. hope that helps a little!
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if i bought something off of forever 21's website, and it didnt fit, would they allow me to send it back and get a new size? (link)
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they should. they did for me! if you can show the proof of purchase they should.. hope that helps!!
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Hi can i send u a pic of a coach purse i am bidding on, im not a pro when it comes to coach purses, I do own 2 that are real, i know for sure, purchased at macy's, & checked zipper says ykk,on it & I seen a really cute carly on ebay, two people that seen i bid emailed me saying its fake, seller swears its real, i asked her to check on zipper if has the ykk, says cant find, bla bla bla,,, So i need your help!!!
can i somehow send you a pic of the purse so you can see & let me know?? would REALLY really Appreciate!! (link)
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i dont think that it is real.. if the seller is saying they cant find it then they are def hiding something. i mean the zipper is in plain sight! hope that helps you!!
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so my grandpa is getting surgery on his neck he didnt wanna talk about it but there is a chance that he could get paralized. that terrifies me. a treat to him like that has made me realize i wouldntnt even be where i am now without him(i lived with my grandparents half of my life) I really want him to know i appreciate everything hes done for me and my brother but i dont know how to i stay over at their house almost everyweekend but theyre usually watching something i dont like so i dont normally sit in the living room with them i mostly just sit in there back room and get on the computer. How can i show him that i really appreciate him? please dont say give him a card or something like that
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first of all i would like to say that.. i hope all goes well with your grandfathers surgury.. to show that you care instead of going on the computer like you usually do i would go in the room and start talking when a commercial or something comes on and go out of your way to show him you care.. maybe by complimenting him.. like nice shirt or good pasta.. or do something together like.. going out to dinner or a movie that you both enjoy.. if you have something in common.. like.. you both like to read? go to your local library together. just show him that you care. do anything!! hope that helps! if you need any other advise you can just comment on my profile..
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How long do you usually have to wait once your orthodontist makes an appointment to get them off. Im wondering because i have an apoinment in 2 days and he should be taking them off soon, but how long do you usually have to wait between the appointment to where they schedule you getting them off, and the appointment to when you do get them off???
Thank you!!!! (link)
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It depends on your teeth.. mine came of within the next month.. hope that helps!!
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so i just started texting this guy in my school, we have been in the same school for 3 years but never really talk and he got my number from my friend. so we texted for 4 days straight, just getting to know each other and then one night we were playing truth and he asked me who i like, and i truthfully i have a lil crush on him .. so i was like no one really , i liek this one guy a bit. and hes like who is the guy and i told him it was me and i was like who do you like . he responded by saying this other girl and he told me he kinda likes me. so we have school tomorow, hes not in my class but i see him in the hallway alot . so my queestion is do i go up and talk to him or just smile .. orr...?? and what do i talk about it if i do talk to him? because we both know that we like each other..so it will be awkward. (link)
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well if you like this guy i think that you should just ask him out and see where it goes. if you just like him a little idon't think it should be a big deal if he says no. if thats too akward than just wave or smile and walk on. you don't have to talk to him if you don't want too. just don't be mean abou tit and completely ignore him. if you feel too akward talking to hime than don't and just stay with the simple hello... if he wants to keep talking too you i would let him make the first move.. hope that helps a little!
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Before I start, let me just say that I realize that I am an adult and have the responsibility of taking care of myself. I know that nobody has to help me in any way, and nobody really does. The thing that bothers me is that I feel like my family treats me unfairly in comparison with the way they treated my older sister at my age.
I am currently a junior in college, and have been responsible for paying my own tuition, books, and fees since my very first semester. I've been paying my own rent, bills, grocery, gas, etc (or my portion, with room mates) since I turned eighteen.
When my sister was in college, she had some scholarships, but not full ride. My parents paid the rest of her tuition and bought her books. She did have a job the entire time, but only part-time, and she used it to pay bills, food, and gas, along with her boyfriend (now husband) who had a full time job. She had no rent because my parents bought her a house to live in. They said they bought it for both of us (we went to the same school), but miraculously her boyfriend moved in, and I got kicked out of the picture. Now they're older and have bought the house from my parents. How lucky for them to come by property so easily.
I recently got married in a court house because my family couldn't seem to find the money to have a wedding for me. My sister got married at the same age that I did, and had a very nice wedding.
I'm wondering if I am being unreasonable to say that these things are unfair. Every time I try to express the way I feel to my family, they tell me I'm being unreasonable, and act like I'm hurting them by pointing out the obvious: I've always gotten the shaft. Of course, I'm always willing to step back and let other people be happy at the expense of my own happiness.
After all, I tell myself, "Most people don't get that kind of help from their families anyway." It just hurts that my family DID give that kind of help, they just gave it to my sister instead of me. (link)
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first off i want to say i am so sorry every girl deserves a wedding!!! every family is like that. do you find yourself yelling when you confront them? you seem like you are very responsible since you are paying for everything yourself. why don't you start out by asking for them to pay for your books and work your way there. if ever not neccisary don't bring your sister into your convo with your parents unless absolutely neccasary because that is sometimes immature. show them your mature side and just ask them to treat you the way you want to be treated. instead of comparing yourself to your sister try saying what you want. say somthing like i feel like i havn't been treated the way i should and state your reasons why. you deserve everything that your sister did. i hope everything works out! good luck!
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This guy asked me out a like a little bit over a month ago, because we both told eachother we liked one another and have been talking for a while. When he asked if i would say yes I said that i would say no. I felt like at the time we should just still get to know eachother more and I was too confused about whether I liked him, it was on and off everyday. So now i want him to ask me out because im positive that i want to now. Thing is we havnt talked all vacation, like over a week because he lost his cell. I dont want to specificly say ask me out but i want to hint that im ready for him to. What are some ways to flirt more or specific small flirty comments and be more [made up word] girlfriendy? (link)
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well, if your that ready to ask him out than i would just do it yourself.
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if someone gives you some flowers and you put them in a vase.. are you supposed to change the water every day? (link)
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no not every day but to keep them alive i would cut a little off the bottom of each flower.
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I wanted to see the movie The Notebook but I can't find it on youtube. I tried it on another site but it was cut off in the middle of it. Is there any place I can find it without downloading it onto the computer? So I can just watch it online? Thanks! (link)
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well usually youtube doesn't work for the whole movie. try fiinding it on TV. Its always on ABC family. Or if you are willing to spend 5 bucks rent it at blockbuster. i am almost 99.9% sure they have it. good luck! i hope you can find it!
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Hay! well i have a reallllly short torso,so jeans with a medium rise go up to my belly button and always look awkward on me!where can i find super low rise jeans,because those are the only kind that seem to fit my body normally? i've tried hollister,but they're too tight around the waist.pacsun doesn't do me too good either,where i used to get my jeans until they changed the style. thanks (link)
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OMG if you're looking for low rise jeans you need to check out abercrombie or abercrombie and fitch for sho. they are expensive but they will totally work. i get my jeans they're. but if you don't like holey jeans than i wouldn't recommend it. but they do have nice low rise navy ones that are sooo cute!
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so the phrase "thats cool" is overrated.
so instead i now say "thats chill"
but now, a bunch of people in my school are saying it.
i need a new phrase!
like, "thats ________" (beast,bomb,etc.)
please and thank youuu. (link)
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you could say thats hot or beastly (taking a ex, friend says that all the time),
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I'm in high school and back in middle school there was this girl who i really wanted to be friends with. i got lucky and in 7th grade she was in my homeroom. we got to be real good friends and hang out. now we're in high school and i haven't really talked to her a lot in years. I really wish we could be friends, but i don't see her much in school. Is there anything I can do? I don't want stupid answers like "talk to her" or "go say hi". (link)
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i think that you should call her up and set up somthing like hang at the movies or just to talk on the phone. if she realizes that you want to be friends agian than i think that (if she still feels the same way about you) will want to try the friendship over.
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okay so i recently had a question about my boyfriend being a no-show 2 nights in a row and not calling me...that was 2 days ago and he hasnt contacted me in any way since...his phones broken but he could use his little brothers who doesnt use it alot...should i text his brother or wait until he texts me? i really wanted to see him this weekend but im tired of always having to be the one to step up, and i'm trying to be mad at him because i want him to know that he hurt me but its soo hard, especially when he won't text or call me...=/ (link)
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if you're mad at the guy than i would just tell him. i mean guys can be totally clueless and he might not get the message. so i would just tell him. i think that you should make the move and call him but not text him. texting is always a wrong way to solve a problem.
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Does straightening your hair give you split ends...
If so, how do I prevent this? Can I prevent this?
Peace.
xx
P.S don't bug me if this is in the wrong category. (link)
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yes straighteners can give you split ends but only if you use it too much. try to only use it twice a week as the maximum.
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I've got two girls after me and I need help deciding. For reference, I'm moving in 4 months which complicates things.
Girl #1, lives in current town. Has very similar personality, but not a similar lifestyle (not a partier and don't have too many activities in common). Easy to talk to and could be "the one." Somewhat dating her now.
Girl #2, lives in town I move to in 4 months, someone I have fun with, she's super gorgeous though so not sure if I have a longterm chance (although she likes me now). Has very similar lifestyle, but different personalities. I've also had a crush on this girl for like 4 months.
Everybody tells me to go with my heart, but I'm so confused on what to do. Both would be a lot of work to keep the relationship going (#1 would require long distance, #2 is a little high maintenance).
I haven't really had a real relationship in forever, so I really want to make one of these work. There are some things that bother me about girl #1 (political views, a little too nerdy) and #2 (a little too wild for me, crazy past and family).
If I start a relationship with #1 just as a spring fling, I know #2 would be hurt. But what happens if I don't do anything with #1, and then move to #2's town and nothing happens? I'll regret that for the rest of my life. (link)
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i dont' think that you should go out with someone just for the heck of it. or becuase you havn't had any relationnships in a while. i acgreee with you're friends and i think that you should follow you're heart. if you end up going out with girl #2 if she's too wild than she might get you into trouble (you know beer, crashing parties, etc.) but i would go with #2 because long distance relationships are soooo hard to keep. and going out with #1 would hurt #2 and it would be harder to say goodbye if you get into a good and ongoing relationship. and if you like someone i think that you should go for it!
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What should if a boy i like says he doesn't like me but other people says he does? (link)
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i disagree with the other answer. if you become best friends wtih a guy and you become BFs with him. what if you break up? your friendship is ruined. boys are shy. if your friends say that he likes you than find out the source. it all depends. say for ex. it came from the guys best friend. i would beleive that. but usually friends aren't always the best source because they just want to spare your feelings.
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ok, so i go to my boyfriend house almost every day. and it smells of smoke in his house. but not enough to make my hair smell bad. but my boyfriend and i smoke, and i usually dont cover my hair over there because my parents usually just think "oh, their house smells like smoke, so we expect her to come home smelling like smoke"
but when my hair is clean and i havent been to my boyfriends house, i cover it up with my jacket.
but lately, even after i wash my hair and condition it, it STILL smells like smoke. not as bad as before, but i can smell barely smell it.
how can i COMPLETELY rid of the smokey smell out of my hair?! i cant quit smoking, and frankly, i dont want to. and if you're going to tell me to, you might as well not answer this question, thanks.
and also dont tell me to cover up my hair when i go to his house because i look retarded when i do. can you just tell me how to get rid of the smell when i shower? thanks.
PS: i use a dandruff shampoo, and some conditioner that silkens my hair so its easier to straighten. :) (link)
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heres a solution! stop smoking! its like soooooo bad for you. one of my family members died from it and it was so sad. do me a favor and don't smoke and it will solve all your problems!
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Everything is just fine with me and my boyfriend except for one thing. His best gal friend which is someone I'm very jealous of sometimes. They talk alot with each other and I know they're just friends but sometimes I feel that he likes being with her than with me. I know he loves me but how can I let him know I dont like this, that he should make some time for me too as much as he makes for her and that maybe she can back off alittle? (link)
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Have they know eachother for long? if they have its perfectly normal. trust me! it happened to me! think about the characteristics of her and you. is she more outgoing and does the girl and your BF have more in common? maybe you could go out on a double date or somthing to get to know her a little better and see what she's like. if it continues just confront your BF and tell him you just want a little alone time with him.
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I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 years, however after our 3rd year we kind of aparted because he was talking to another girl.Inspite of it i gave us a chance and have been trying to work with him, our relationship have been inconsistent since then we don't talk for months and then we talk again and end up fighting because he suspects me of dating other guys when we don't talk. He refuses to hear or consider anything I have to say against his allegation on me, he is on denial.I have strong feelings for this person and I don't know how else to fight for us or on is it even worth it based on the history of its existence? .Any advice/input would be appreciated!
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If you have strong feelings for this guy than stay with him but if it seems that he doesn't like you than i think that he isn't the one. If you ever diside to break up with him i would let him down slowly and explain why. Just like what you said in your question.
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