Hello, My name is Andres Franco and I'm 23 years old. I'm from California and currently attending college. Friends tell me i give good advice, so hope i can help you out from here.
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im a female, senior at highschool, im on the hockey team.. i'm the captain, well- i have a crush on one of my teammates brothers, who is also a senior at the same highschool as me, and he is also the captain... well it used to be the typical crush that you have but can't tell him. but lately we been talking everytime we see eachother..
it's mostly like "hey drake, you're garbage at hockey! paha" then all we do is just make a playful argument on who is better.. we don't really get a chance to have that much contact, physicaLly cuz we just started to talk. last weekend, he came over with a bunch of our other friends.. and we hung out the whole night..
we ended up going to applebees with everyone, i drove, and EVERYTIME we got in the car, he automatically went in shot gun. i think we have a competetive way of flirting, but it doesn't put eachother down.. i really really like him, he is so dreamy!
his birthday is friday.. i wanna do something so he knows i kinda like him, but not something that makes it seem like im coming on too strong..
heres an idea soo it makes it maybe a little bit more easy so you can branch off ideas.
-im thinking about fillin a balloon with helium writing "Happy birthday drake" on it, then tie the string onto a hockey puck, that has (link)
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well first of all since he doesn't have a cell phone or messenger, all of your talking will pretty much have to be in person. For his b-day i think it's a great idea the balloon on the hockey puck i'm sure he'll like it. Try not to rush into things so soon, take it slow keep hanging out with him, spend time together both with your common friends and with each other. As your doing this you can find out if he is seeing someone or interested in someone. If things continue to be fine then take the next step and let him no you are interested by asking him if he is currently seeing someone or interested, he should get a hint with that and maybe who knows he can surprise you by asking you out before you have to make a move.
Andres
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okay well me and this boy used to be bestfriends. like sooo close he wuld come over all the time and talk on the phone with me and everything bestfriends shuld do. and then it became more than that for a while now. we just recently broke up and i have a feeling things wont ever be the same. he keeps trying to make a move on me even though we just broke up. i want to be his bestfriend like we used to be but that cant happen if he thinks we're more than freinds...i dont want to be mean and say i dont like you..but it seems like i have to....what do i do, what do i say? (link)
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it's common for friendships of opposite sex to become a relationship, but the hard part is when they break up and someone wants the friendship back, which is your case. I believe that every relationship after a break up should spend some time apart and can be friends afterward. In your case there was a friendship before the relationship, so that shouldn't be hard, but you do need to give each other some time away from each other. The time really depends on you guys, some people take more time than others. Be honest with him and tell him how much you care for him as her friend and let him know you'll be there when he is ready.
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okay so my best friend and i have sorta split up ever since her old bestfriend has been coming back into her life again. it really hurts and i dont know what to do anymore. for the past month we have fought alot and its so stressful for me. im just not sure whether i should let it go. work it out. or just move on. please help me! (link)
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It's normal to be jealous when you feel someone is stealing your friend from you. In fact we sometimes get more jealous with are friends than with are girl/boy friends. What i advice you to do is talk to your friend let her know how you're feeling, i'm sure she will understand. If you know the other friend try going out the three of you to see how it fells. If your not comfortable then at least you tried. The question if you dont know if you should let it go, work it out, or just move on. It really depends on you, just remember true friends are hard to find, but once you find them you always work things out. I hope i helped in some way
Andres
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It's kinda long,so read only if you're patient.
After a little while me and my bf are back together.I have really strong feelings for him but I can't handle our relationship so well now.He used to be so good to me,spent all of his free time by my side,he swore to love me with all his heart,we were so happy together.I felt as if I could give up my life for him...Then he dumped me because of his emotional problems.He told me he just used me all the time(8 months)and stuff like that and he was totally out of his mind,I don't know what exactly caused that crisis...I can't put into words how much I suffered when he did so.Even though I still loved him,there was also this feeling of hate inside my heart.I slowly started getting over him,and losing hope I'd ever have him back.
Then,all of a sudden,he begged me to come back to him and after considering it carefully,I did.I met him a few days ago.He's completely changed.It's like I don't know him anymore.Well,our date was kinda great.Even though he says he still loves me,I find it so hard to believe after what just happened.Today,when I messaged him and asked him to meet,he freaked out on me.He was really rude and not understanding.He told me that I'm too clingy and that I don't let him live his life.I freaked out even more and I was like wtf are you talking about?Does anyone have any idea why he is acting so weird?I've done nothing wrong to him,so I really don't understand him.Please advise and thanks in advance. (link)
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To me it looks like this guy has commitment issues. It's usually a sign when the person tells you something, but ends up doing something totally diffrent. He can say he has changed all he wants, but the trued is he will always come back being the guy who dumbed you a while ago. It's possible he's taking advantage of your feelings towards him and sees you as someone he can always come back to when ever he wants. I suggest you tell him upfront what it is you want from the relationship and if he's not willing to give it to you end things in that moment, so you save yourself time and risk hurting yourself again. Hope I helped you in some way.
Andres
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