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What do I do about him?
It's kinda long,so read only if you're patient.
After a little while me and my bf are back together.I have really strong feelings for him but I can't handle our relationship so well now.He used to be so good to me,spent all of his free time by my side,he swore to love me with all his heart,we were so happy together.I felt as if I could give up my life for him...Then he dumped me because of his emotional problems.He told me he just used me all the time(8 months)and stuff like that and he was totally out of his mind,I don't know what exactly caused that crisis...I can't put into words how much I suffered when he did so.Even though I still loved him,there was also this feeling of hate inside my heart.I slowly started getting over him,and losing hope I'd ever have him back.
Then,all of a sudden,he begged me to come back to him and after considering it carefully,I did.I met him a few days ago.He's completely changed.It's like I don't know him anymore.Well,our date was kinda great.Even though he says he still loves me,I find it so hard to believe after what just happened.Today,when I messaged him and asked him to meet,he freaked out on me.He was really rude and not understanding.He told me that I'm too clingy and that I don't let him live his life.I freaked out even more and I was like wtf are you talking about?Does anyone have any idea why he is acting so weird?I've done nothing wrong to him,so I really don't understand him.Please advise and thanks in advance.
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To me it looks like this guy has commitment issues. It's usually a sign when the person tells you something, but ends up doing something totally diffrent. He can say he has changed all he wants, but the trued is he will always come back being the guy who dumbed you a while ago. It's possible he's taking advantage of your feelings towards him and sees you as someone he can always come back to when ever he wants. I suggest you tell him upfront what it is you want from the relationship and if he's not willing to give it to you end things in that moment, so you save yourself time and risk hurting yourself again. Hope I helped you in some way.
Andres
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I'll make this quick.
You deserve someone better. There are plenty of guys out there who won't be a complete jerk to you like this guy has been.
I think the only reason he was begging you to get back with him is because he just likes the idea of having a girlfriend. He doesn't sound like he really cares for you.
Find someone who will treat you with respect.
--Jack
(17/m)
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