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dreamm? what does it mean??
Last night I had a dream, and I'm confused [16/f] ... -I was in school and I see this guy I like, who liked me, but then went with his ex girlfriend, we haven't talked for 4 weeks. and he was with his girlfriend and my other guy friend and I followed them into the gym, he kind of motioned me to follow them and said "c'mon". [the gym in my school also turns into a lunch-room. we have 2 lunchrooms] when we get into the lunchroom/gym, the bleachers are down and we sit in the middle. His girlfriend sits down and i sit across from her but 2 steps lower, on a dfifferent level. The guy i like sits infront of me on the level above mine, acrossfrom his girlfriend who is kinda far away from him. then my guy friend sits next to the guy i like girlfriend. So we are just sititg there and I think the guy that I liek was talking to me, and then i turn and i see 3 of my friends that I usually sit with on another set of bleachers next to me [wide stairs are seperating us] one of them is my bff and i text her and im like, "ask ---- [my other friends name] to come sit with me." [she wasn't sitting with them either. i out my cell away right after i sent the text and then the guy I like moved away from me and next to his girlfriend. I felt really awkward and didn't know if I should move up next to him, until his girlfriend, my guy friend, and the guy I like got up and the guy i like motioned for me to follow him again. so we are all walking in a straight line and I'm right behind the guy I like. we get to the other side of the gym and we are standing under this bleacher thing [all of us] and watching the basketball game. i was saying "this is so gay how they're making us play basketball" and the guy i like said, "yeah I know." and we started laughing. then i saw this popular guy who i don't talk to or like at all in real life and he picks me up and starts hugging me and lifting me up into the air and I'm laughing and the guy I like is watching me the entire time. but then the popular guy puts me down and he kisses my cheek. then i go back over to the guy i like and i say, "shouldn't you be with your girlfriend?" and he looked back at her talking with my guy friend and some other girl, her friend i think. and he looks back at me and says, "nah, she's not gonna notice." I liked it when he said that because he would have rather been with me. and then we go back to watching the game and some girl makes a basket ... that's all I remember though. so could someone help me out here? haha thanks so much. (sorry it was long but I appreciate those who take the time to answer this question for me and read it)
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Dreams are just our unconscious mind's way of dealing with the thoughts and feelings that we don't have time for while we're awake. Usually they mean nothing and just show what's worrying us or on our mind a lot. Yours seems to show your fear of being rejected by your friends/the guy (by them not sitting next to you/moving away) and that you like this guy but also liked the 'popular guy' so maybe you wanna make the first guy jealous or maybe you just want some fun?
In your dream his girlfriend was sat higher than you which usually means that you see them as being 'above' you in power (which makes sense if she's the guy u likes gf)
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Well, you see dreams always mean something but not like the future and etc..
It seems like you think o f the guy you like ALOT.
Usually when you think of a guy alot or someone, you dream about him/her or the thing your thinking about. It's pretty normal.
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Well I'm no expert, but this is what I got from your dream...
A gym is a place of competition. It seems like you feel in competition with his girlfriend.
The placement of each person on the bleachers is also significant. Bleachers are like steps and you put him and her above you. You even put yourself behind him when you were walking in line. Throughout the dream you are also following them where ever they go. It seems like you don't feel as important as them and you don't feel in control of the situation.
Also, it seems like you felt uncomfortable with the situation in the dream so you were looking to your friends for support (looking over at them, texting them).
The fact that you didn't want to play basketball, but were being forced to would seem to suggest that you are being put in a position you don't like. Since this guy chose his ex over you he is essentially "forcing you to play the game."
Then the popular guy comes over and shows you attention. He is your way of making this guy feel the same jealousy that you have felt.
Then at the end, you get what you want... he picks you over the ex. At that moment, a girl makes a basket. That seems like a symbol of you achieving your goal... getting the guy.
I would say the whole thing is really about competition and your unresolved feelings in this tough situation.
Hope this helped!
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