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My relationship is going down the hill.
I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 years, however after our 3rd year we kind of aparted because he was talking to another girl.Inspite of it i gave us a chance and have been trying to work with him, our relationship have been inconsistent since then we don't talk for months and then we talk again and end up fighting because he suspects me of dating other guys when we don't talk. He refuses to hear or consider anything I have to say against his allegation on me, he is on denial.I have strong feelings for this person and I don't know how else to fight for us or on is it even worth it based on the history of its existence? .Any advice/input would be appreciated!
Thanks
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If you have strong feelings for this guy than stay with him but if it seems that he doesn't like you than i think that he isn't the one. If you ever diside to break up with him i would let him down slowly and explain why. Just like what you said in your question.
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If you don't talk for months at a time then I think your relationship is probably doomed. I hate to say that but you can't maintain a good relationship if you don't see each other.
If your relationship is long distance or just an internet thing, expecting each other to never talk to the opposite sex or even to date others is unrealistic.
Since he refuses to listen to you, accuses you and suspects you all the time, A lot of it could be guilt because he is doing the same thing. I suggest that you find someone close to home and just be friends with this guy until you can be close enough to maintain a relationship.
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