Question Posted Saturday February 21 2009, 4:06 pm
I went to my formal party last night and this guy asked me to dance with him so I said ok, since I was sitting out most of the night so I was grinding with the guy and my crush was right there! he knows I like him but I dunno if he likes me back, like he told me he has a g/f, but he stares at me a lot, we don't really know eachother, we had classes together and we spoke on msn a few times but I don't want him to think anything of me because of the way I was dancing with guy, and I saw his friends looking at me a couple of times during the night and he looked my way a few times too. but I just wanted to have some fun before the night ended and I hope he doesn't think I like that guy, I wanted to dance with my crush sooo badly but he was dancing with his boys for the whole night and he didn't dance with any girls...am I overreacting?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? Besmart answered Sunday February 22 2009, 2:04 am: Yes, you are overreacting. You have no need to explain yourself. If he really does like you he will approach you and try to find excuses to talk to you. I wouldn't worry about it much since you don't really know him that well. I mean he might turn out to be not your type anyways. Just let it happen and there is nothing wrong with dancing with other guys. Grinding is kinda bad sometimes especially if it is quite provocative lol. Remember, respect yourself and be a lady. Don't feel like you have to do anything like grinding or even have sex because you want a guy to like you. NOT good (and it never works, usually does the opposite). [ Besmart's advice column | Ask Besmart A Question ]
jen381 answered Saturday February 21 2009, 8:42 pm: You were just trying to have fun. Remember guys want what other guys have. So therefore, you may have made him jealous. Which, made him notice you more. Maybe try to talk to him casually sometime, get to know him. Maybe tell him the kid was just a friend. [ jen381's advice column | Ask jen381 A Question ]
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