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hes not over her


Question Posted Thursday February 19 2009, 8:33 pm

okay. im 15/f hes 15/m
so he nad his girl friends of a year just broke up almost a month ago. and he lied to her about hanging out with other girls okay. so theres some back history now heres my story.

im rachel and his names adam. i have like him sense i saw him in 7th grade he played base ball on my best friends team. well me and adam dated for a month and brooke up and we lost tuch untill we got to highschool now i see him evry day and everywhere. i like it.hes freinds with my friend becca so we all went to the movies (this is after him and his gf broke up)so becca had her guy zach and i had adam. it was really fun we saw taken. okay but we held hands and snuggled together the whole time. it was very nice. he was so comforting. and after we went back to beccas and hung out and ate some pizza. well we keept looking at eachother and smileing it was cute. okay so after they left he texted me and was like i liked snuggeling with you did you like it? and i said yes i did.but i sorta wanted to kiss you but i didnt know if you wanted me to. and hes like shit girl i wanted to lol. okay so its been a couple days now. and we hug but hes not over his ex gf and i dont want to be just a rebound. he says he likes me but hes all ways with her. like when i see him i see her. it uppsets me that he wont get over her but they were together for so long. im nto sure if i should stick around and wait for him or if i should just let him go. i like him alot i mean he makes me smile alot. like really big smiles but idk if he feels the same way. what should i do?


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Additional info, added Monday February 23 2009, 10:53 pm:
more stuff about me and adam:)

me and adam have been flirting for about 2 weeks now. and we talk about sexual things some times and he knows ill give him head and stuff. i asked him if that the only reason he "LIKES" me he said no i like you bc your smart hapy and have the cutest smile i have ever seen. okay so today he promised me the bigest hug ever beacuse we didnt get to hang out this weeknd. well i didnt get my hug instead i got a look like hey your cute. do i get home and text him saying oh man i didnt get my hug that means i get two tomro right? well he never texted back and that was like 3 hours agoo! so i got on myspace to see if he was on. well he deleted me from his myspace. and now im really confused on everything! does he like me or is he playing with my heart?
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footballchick2 answered Friday February 20 2009, 1:22 pm:
aww thats so cute! sorry haha. i'll help you out. it makes sense that he's not over his ex girlfriend, considering they were so close. but he DOES have feelings for you. get to know him more and see if he likes you as much as you like him. i think you need to talk to adam and tell him that youre into him, but you need understand that he still feels for his ex. let him know that you accept it even though you like him and are willing to give him some time to get over it, but still hang out with you and get to know YOU. don't hang around too long though, because then it'll hurt you. but trust me, he'll come around. good luck!

ps. flirt! make HIM want you and forget his ex!

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