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Boy being pushy?
15/F
this is lengthy!!!
This guy really likes me and he used to do bad things. Hes not a virgin and he used to always ask for "pictures" and stuff. That wasnt too long ago. Then, he would ask to hang out, just at the park and we would cuddle and stuff and he actually asked to hold my hand, and now he's asking to kiss me.
I went to his house w/o supervision to tell him that I didn't know how I felt about him and that I didn't wanna lead him on. Because I like how he acts around me and I like him, but I don't want to kiss him. I wouldn't let him kiss me at his house but we cuddled and stuff.
And how he doesn't talk to me or hug me as much as he did. And when he does, he's really hard to read. Like, he'll be "YOURE COMING OVER TODAY!" Then he'll say, "Why don't you text me?" And I say, "Because you don't text back." And he'll say "Because I don't want to talk to you." And he sounds totally serious.
Sorry for the length, but boys are so complicated. I've never kissed a guy, and I don't know what to do, or what he's thinking. He's being kind of shady about this. Help?
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Okay. Boys are complicated but i feel like i know these kind of boys.
The guy likes you, i'm sure. But guys likes to exprience not just guys, teenagers in general.
I mean it's something known, guys can't keep it in their pants.
This guy likes you and if though you haven't been kissed before, well, i think it's time but not more than a kiss.
He's been acting weird because he is mad at you, but guys don't express there feelings the way girls does, he is trying to tell you he is mad at you, well when a girl rejects a guy, that's like offending him, so he is just upset.
So hey if you don't want to kiss him then don't but my point of view is, there isn't anything wrong with kissing a guy you like.
Good Luck
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This guy sounds like a real pain. first of all not to sound harsh but When he said "YOUR COMING OVER TODAY!" you should of told him DON'T YOU TALK TO ME THAT WAY IF YOUR GOING TO BE LIKE THAT THEN I DONT WANT ANY THING TO DO WITH YOU! Know mater what he may do that you think is sweat or whatever DON'T FALL FOR IT. But I have the nice feeling of not dating and I don't because it goes agents my bible trained concisions. But just hope every thing works.
You Know Who To Call.
Mr-Fix-It
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id stay away from him if i were you. guys who are on/off are usually trouble, emotionally and sometimes mentally. he could really hurt you by being the way he is, and he doesnt sound like a good guy to me at all.
about the texting thing, you cant really ever tell when hes serious or not because its texting. A) you cant see his face B) you cant hear his voice.
he just sounds like an ass to me and you should try to find someone who wont be harsh like that.
take care. :)
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