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get his screenname


Posted Saturday March 7 2009, 6:25 pm

I like my guy friend from school, (he doesn't know, and he might like me but i'm not sure) and we talk everyday and stuff. We already have each other's phone numbers but we haven't really texted a lot, we talk mostly in school. But I do want to get his screenname and I want him to have mine, but I don't just want to randomly be like "Oh what's your screenname?" cause I'm shy about that type of thing. We both have blackberries and can go on AIM with them so I guess I could sortof initiate getting his screenname through that. Any suggestions on how I can sortof get his without being totally obvious about it?

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reunited .


Posted Saturday March 7 2009, 6:23 pm

i cheated on my ex with my current boyfriend, but my boyfriend and i just broke up. and i decided to go back and talk to my ex. he told me he loves me still and that he cares about me, but i want things to back to how they were with me and him. his family hates me, but either way we had a secretive relationship. and i dont know how things are going to turn out with me and him. is it possible that me and him MIGHT get back together? we went out for 4 months, and i took his virginity.

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cheating problem


Posted Saturday March 7 2009, 6:21 pm

i have this new boyfriend, who i've been dating for a month. but recently my ex texted me, and i saved his number in my phone under a girls name. so that i could text constantly while i was with my boyfriend and he wouldnt think it was suspicious. well yesterday we went to the movies and my ex asked me back out, and my current boyfriend read it and dumped me. he said he knew it was a guy, even though i called the girl who's name i used, and i told her to help me out. but he doesnt believe me and he broke up with me and he called me a hoe. he gave me a ring in the beggining and he even took that away. he doesnt really have proof that i cheated on him though.. do you think that he might come back to me? i really need help cause i love him alot and i messed up big time.

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A Girl I really really Like


Posted Saturday March 7 2009, 5:10 pm

Its like this I really like this girl but I'm not in her class or have never talked to her so here's the pitch I get someone to tell her that I like her not to ask her out I'll do that myself but just to see if she likes me back which I think she does You know the slight glance every single day at lunch time and so on and don't worry I'm not just imagining it in my head.I'm not a fool.I was going to ask her out myself but figured why risk getting rejected and embarrassed like that for no reason when I could get someone to see if and that's a Big If she liked me in return so then i would ask her out myself.Finally here's the question what I said above an ok way to go with it and secondly I'm 17 and she's 14 just wondering if that's alright....

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Friend into Girlfriend


Posted Saturday March 7 2009, 4:26 pm

A few months ago my school had its winter formal and i was going to go with a friend of mine but the guy she wanted to go with asked her and i was totally ok with that. Her younger sister wanted to go to the dance so i went with her instead, she's in my grade and goes to a different school in town. That's how I met her, and after that i've hung out with her a few times and went to her schools formal, we went as friends.

To some it up, I really like her but I don't exactly know when or how would be a good way to ask her out. I just need a few suggestions on some different methods.

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is it wrong to feel this way?


Posted Saturday March 7 2009, 2:34 pm

At a recent school function, I met a new group of friends visiting from another school and we all still talk. The other day, I was informed at school by somebody that one of the boys in my new group of friends likes me, and people think I like him too. Now, this boy is nice, has a good sense of humor and we are friends, but I do not see him the same way. My problem is that for whatever reason, I only find myself romantically/sexually attracted to my own Caucasian race and the boy is not Caucasian, so I do not find myself romantically attracted to him. People now think I am racist, which is simply not true! My mother assures me that it’s a matter of personal preference. I can justify that I am not racist, because I have multiple friends th...

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Turning the dial back.


Posted Saturday March 7 2009, 1:31 pm

16/F. I just got together with my boyfriend yesterday. We've been off and on for years, though it seems dumb considering we're so young. Anyway, my last boyfriend and I broke up like a month and a half ago. Current boyfriend and his ex broke up about two weeks ago.

We hung out yesterday and he's so excited about us being together. I am too. The only thing that makes me feel a little uncomfortable is that he wanted to do a ton of kissing and stuff (he wasn't pressuring me into anything). I think he's used to being so far with his ex, that he's just kind of picking that stuff up with me. Is it normal for me to feel weird? That, and I think I'm making myself feel weird somehow. Usually I'm very aggressive with that stuff, but ...

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long distance


Posted Saturday March 7 2009, 12:52 pm

I am 15, he is 17. We met through a friend but not in person. He lives in Arizona, I live on the east coast. We have not been talking long but we like eachother a lot and this summer he is supposed to come up to the east coast to visit family and he said he would come and see me too. Is meeting in person a good idea? I might be able to see him a few times in the summer, but not a lot because its a very long drive from where he would be. How far is too far to go physically if we meet eachother for the first time?

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how do i explain gently to my boyfriend...?


Posted Saturday March 7 2009, 7:22 am

Okay, well for Valentines day my boyfriend bought me this really pretty necklace. It wasn't an expensive expensive type, however it was from a jewellers store, not an accessories store so it's worth a bit of money.

Anyway, he's not one to throw around his money. He comes from a very poor working-class family, and he doesn't make a lot of money himself, so for him this was probably a big thing.

I'm gonna guess the necklace was between 30-50 dollars, and that's what I'm really hoping with what I'm about to ask...

He slept over at my house last night. When we went to bed I took the necklace off and put it on my bedside table. In the morning, I went for my phone to check the time and I flipped everyt...

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boyfriend back stabber?


Posted Saturday March 7 2009, 12:30 am

Ohkay. So. I really need help here. I honestly dont know what to do.

Me and my boyfriend dated for a while before, (11 months) and we barely talked when we weren't together. But then he started talking to me again, and told me he still reaalllyyy liked me. Now we are dating again, and have been for over a month now.

The thing is, that i just figured out like last week that when we were dating before, (at the end, while we didnt talk as much and fought a lot)he told one of my really good friends that he liked her, and when he did he was trying to be all cute about it with her too. I just found this out a little bit ago and we settled all of that. but now im really concerned about something, he has a really good...

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Another guy


Posted Saturday March 7 2009, 12:14 am

14/f

So there's this guy, I don't really like him. I think I will be soon though. The thing is that he acts like he is all bad and stuff. But he's actually really nice. When I first started talking to him was last semester. But he talked to me by teasing me. So he always jokes around with me and makes fun of me in a playful way. I just don't know where to go from here. I just think that if he is so cool and whatever that he would never like me. I'm not like you know, really down in the social status or whatever its just I'm one of the average girls. He talks to me alot though. He'll like call my name or something and say something really stupid. I don't know if I would ever have a chance with him or if he would even like me. Thanks for any help!

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In love with not boyfriend


Posted Friday March 6 2009, 8:51 pm

Hi, I'm 16/f and I've been going out with my boyfriend for a little over a year. I'm not considered “popular” at school or anything, but pretty much everyone in my grade knows Mark and I are going out. And we're like "the cutest couple." I'm a perfectionist (yes, I admit it :-P) and the club I'm in after school (which my boyfriend is also in) is going to Disney World in a couple of weeks. Which should be a really fun vacation for us ...he and I aren't big on PDA so that is not a concern.

But what the concern IS is that I started taking this new class this year, which my boyfriend is not in, and I met this really nice guy who is totally different from my boyfriend... he wears really expensive clothes (I wear, li...

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another country...


Posted Friday March 6 2009, 8:41 pm

my first boyfriend of almost 6 months recently left for a job in another country for a year..he said he wants to stay together and be together when he comes back and we talk online and stuff a lot but i'm having a really hard time dealing with this.. hes only been gone a month.. and i can't eat without getting sick, i'm crying all the time and generally depressed a lot.. i don't know what to do.. if anyone has any advice please write me back.. thanks :)

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Ummm help?


Posted Friday March 6 2009, 8:37 pm

What does it mean when someone goes next to you all the time and follows you around and smiles at you whenever you do something stupid?

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Help!!!!!


Posted Friday March 6 2009, 8:00 pm

What do u do if u really like a guy but u cant make up your mind and u already broke up with them because u didnt really like them but u werent for sure and now you are?


?~?Confused?~?

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gift for boyfriend


Posted Friday March 6 2009, 6:49 pm

i wanted to spend some of the day with my boyfriend at a spa and order him a back massage cause he always tells me how nice it would be and then bring him out for a birthday dinner but i was wondering if thatd be a little too much...i mean i can afford it and all if i save a little but he doesnt work so i don't want him to feel like he has to spend money on me you know? we've only been together for 8 months...do you think its a good idea? or do you have any other suggestions?

he's turning 17.

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guy problems


Posted Friday March 6 2009, 1:25 pm

Why cant i find the right guy?

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I kept telling him no but he wouldn't listen to me.


Posted Friday March 6 2009, 11:36 am

So me and this guy have only been dating for a little while and well me and him started to make-out last night and I told him I wanted to take things slow. I don't like to just jump into things you know? Thats not who I am. But he kept pushing and pushing to have sex and I kept telling him no. Well he just started kissing me again and I thought he understood that I wasn't going to have sex but then before I knew it he was pulling my pants off and started having sex with me even though I told him no. I didn't know what to do. I pretty much just shut down.... I feel completely horrible now. After that happened last night I can't stop thinking about what happened and I don't know what to think or what to do. I feel completely used and ashamed....

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Im Not Over Him.


Posted Friday March 6 2009, 11:12 am

Hi, Im 13 And I Have Found Love... I Had A Boyfriend For 9 Months And We Really Loved Eachover Buh We Split Up For A Reason i Cannot Say, I Still Love Him Buh He Has Moved Way On... I Feel Im Forgotten Even Though We R Still Such Close Mates... Im In A Mess And Need A Way To Get Over Him, Please Help ME fIND a wAY, He Likes This Girl Buh They Arnt Goin Out Even Though They Like Eachother. I Dont Know Y Buh I Would Be So Heartbroken If He Was happy With Someone Else. He Was So Nice Buh Now We Are Just friends And My Heart Is Hurting . HELP! x

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mad about my friend


Posted Friday March 6 2009, 1:40 am

ok so I've liked this guy since last year and well one of my friends had a bf and they broke up. Well she's been talkin 2 the guy I like a lot and well the other day she came up to me and said "this has been buggin me because 7 people have said that the guy I like likes her. It's really annoying cause when ever he walks by us or whatever she's like O my gosh o my gosh and I get so mad. Now I have another friend that Iz really good friends with him and she said she does not think he likes her cause he would of told her and he's just not dating type yet. So my question is how do I avoid her saying oh my gosh he's soo cute and freaking out and stuff . By the way she still text her old bf and she really just needs to pick one. Sometimes I...

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