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Tired all the time and depressed
Posted Thursday September 8 2011, 4:23 pm
No, not clinically depressed, I am not suicidal or anything to that extreme. It's just lately I feel like I don't matter, like whatever I do whether it is great or not ... it doesn't matter. I am a junior in high school. I am taking three college courses this year and it's getting stressful. My boyfriend me get a limited time to talk ( long and stupid story) and we aren't even talking the time allowed. It feels like our schedules are opposites. I went home and crashed yesterday, I slept from 6-8 and then went back to bed at 9 and woke up at 6. I was so tired when I woke up... you would think that much sleep would put me in a good mood. .. right?
Also I feel irritated and all the small things that shouldn't bother me, like how a frie...
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Hymen broken
Posted Thursday September 8 2011, 1:29 pm
I've been thinking about this a lot lately, and I saw a question on your page related to it.
When I was 16, I was dating a guy. We never had sex, but we liked to make out and he fingered me a lot. One night, he broke my hymen by doing this. It was a shock of pain straight up through my vagina, and he said he saw blood.
Does that mean I lost my virginity to him? We broke up later on, and the next guy I dated when I was 17 is the guy that I first had sex with, and I've always considered him to be the one I lost my virginity to. I told him the whole story about having my hymen broken, but that I had never had sex.
Did I lose my virginity by having my hymen breaking through fingering, or did I lose...
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First hj attempt went horribly..
Posted Tuesday September 6 2011, 2:28 pm
21 female
Last night me and my boyfriend started making out, which lead to us both being really horny. I took my shirt off and he started rubbing my boobs and licking my nipples. Then he pulled down his pants and I started touching his penis.
The thing is I've never given a hand or blow job before! So when i tried giving him a little hand job, it basically turned out horrible. My hands were clammy/sticky so my hand wasn't sliding right and it just seemed awful. Then I started feeling something come out of his penis and I thought it was cum, and it went on my leg. I freaked out a little bit because I made it clear I didn't want him to do that on me but then he said noooo it's not that I wouldn't do that to you. ...
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Orgasum
Posted Tuesday September 6 2011, 12:09 am
I had and sexual experience with a women and like
making her orgasum but I.m very much attractive to men. when I see another women having sex with another women I get really turned on. I went down on a women but she never went down on me. should I experience this?
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Having suicidal thoughts...again.
Posted Sunday September 4 2011, 10:33 pm
Are there any painless ways to commit suicide? I have given up on life and pretty much want it to end since nothing seems to go right anymore. If you want some back story then I will be breif. I am 22 and have attempted suicide two times and they were obviously failed attempts. The first time I shot myself in the chest and survived, the second was overdosing but again failed. I have tried changing my life around but to no success. I have no parents to turn to and I have no siblings. My friendlist is zero and well...I think this can only be fate I suppose. Can anyone recommend a simple method?
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My friend needs help.
Posted Sunday September 4 2011, 12:19 am
I have a really close friend who I've known for two years. Shes like a sister to me. I'm involved in a lot of the same activities as her, and we have a ton in common. Shes adorable, one of the funniest people I know, and just generally seems to be happily enjoying life.
About a year ago, she started cutting herself. I didn't know about it till she started cutting her legs. I confronted her about it one night and she broke down and told me. She thinks the world is so horrible and corrupt and that life has no meaning, and that shes an awful, disgusting person who would be better off dead.
Her cuts are riduculously bad. She doesn't just cut her wrists. She has huge cuts on her legs (giant scabs)and long cuts around her thighs. Sh...
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Giving him the time he needs before having sex?
Posted Friday September 2 2011, 7:14 pm
20/f Tony 18
Me and Tony recently started dating. We were "talking" for a long time before that though and I've known him for about 8 years. The thing is that Tony's a virgin and I'm not. I've only had sex with one guy. Tony said he just wants to wait until he finds the right girl, he's not waiting until marriage. I respect that and it's not like i'm going to dump him because of this.
The thing is, do I just wait for him to come to me when it comes to sex? I'm not going to pressure him into ANYTHING but i'm know he's going to be nervous when and if the time comes to talk about it or even just do it. I don't know how to act with this!
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Dirty talk?
Posted Wednesday August 31 2011, 8:11 pm
23/f, my partner is the same age. I don't usually ask questions in this category...this is a little odd for me...>.>
Tell me something - why is it that guys like "dirty talk" so much?
I'm not inexperienced, here. I've had a few partners, and in the past I just kind of got around it or refused to do the "dirty talk" thing. My new guy's into it, and I want to give it a shot. The problem is it's just so...cliche. It makes me laugh, which totally ruins the moment. I'm an actress - maybe it would help if I thought of it as a kind of role playing?
Even so, though, I never know what to say. "I love the way your **** feels in my *****"? "I love when you do that"? &...
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Do I take plan b once or twice?
Posted Friday August 26 2011, 5:04 pm
I had sex wednesday night and i plan on it again sat night, both with a condom. I wanna take plan b just incase cause i don't wanna take any risks of pregnancy. Could i just take one sunday morning? or do I have to take 2 since I had sex twice?
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How do I tell him I've never given a HJ/BJ
Posted Friday August 26 2011, 4:47 pm
21 female. Nick -19
I recently just got into my first real relationship with Nick who is the sweetest guy. He is still a virgin but has done other sexual things.
I know we're going to wait to become sexual, but there is just one thing that's bothering me. I'm not a virgin, I've had sex once. I've been fingered. But I've never given a hand or blow job. I'm a little embarrassed because I'm 21 and have never done this.
I kind of want to try it (when the right time comes) but I know i'll be embarrassed to tell Nick I've never done it. He's completely head over heels for me and I know he would do anything for me so I don't think he would care, but I still feel a little embarrassed. When the time comes...
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turnin guys on?
Posted Friday August 26 2011, 3:51 am
13/F
how do i turn a guy on in school, like what do i do....talk.....say.....do.....walk.....act?
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Pain after sex
Posted Friday August 26 2011, 1:04 am
I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 years. And we have a daughter together, along with a son who is on the way. We got together in December of 2007 but didn't have sex until the 26th. And it hasn't been painful from then till 2008ish. But since we've had our daughter we would have sex and as soon as I would orgasm it would start getting uncomfortable to continue, although I would always let him finish. After the sex was done, I would go to the bathroom and pee, and it would burn. We've tried lube and it would help a little, but it burns still. I haven't seen anyone about it, but I would imagine since I'm pregnant again, if they saw anything unusual or an std or something that I would be told because they test for that stuff when you'r...
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Losing My Virginity?
Posted Friday August 26 2011, 12:12 am
Im 15 and a female and I have been worried about losing my virignity. I dont plan on it any time soon but its always been at the back of my mind. My first concern is "popping my cherry".
I know i bleed when this happens, but how much do you bleed? How long? and Why do you bleed? Does it hurt? I would feel embarrased if i bleed all over the guys sheets.
Second is the pain:
does it hurt that bad? did you cry when you lost it? How bad is the pain? and how can i make it less painful? I dont want to cry when he enters me.
Thx for advice
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should i even bother?
Posted Thursday August 25 2011, 2:30 pm
i'm like a freak about protected sex and me and my boyfriend had sex with a condom the other night and he pulled out and the condom wasn't ripped or anything should i bother with plan b or am i fine? and what are some early symptoms like how soon would i be able to tell if i was pregnant.
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How do I say no
Posted Tuesday August 23 2011, 11:04 pm
So my ex boyfriend and I hook up alot and we always wants me to give him a blow job but I really don't want too! I keep saying no but he just says please and keeps pleasing and when I say no he says fine then I'm fucking you. And I say no but he trys too! And it's not like I can just stop seeing him because my best friends brother is his bestfriend and I am always at her house and then she and her brother walk away and he picks me up and carries me away into the woods and I just don't know what to do I tell my friend not to leave but she just laughs and does it anyway so I don't know what to do. I mean I would blow him but i have a bad past with that. So I need advice ! Please help! I'm really scared of him I feel kind of raped after he tou...
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Douching my anus before anal sex?
Posted Sunday August 21 2011, 1:42 am
My boyfriend and I are thiiiinking about having anal sex. it's not a for sure thing yet and we aren't rushing each other. But when the time comes I want to be prepared. I have read about enema bags and all this other stuff I cant get. Is there any way to douche my anus with something I can get around the house?
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kinky sex ideas
Posted Saturday August 20 2011, 12:35 pm
i need ome really good kinky sex ideas. Any ides would help. Thanks:-)
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Ex-girlfriend threatening suicide!!! [URGENT]
Posted Friday August 19 2011, 11:29 pm
Hello, hopefully I can get a fast reply - it is needed. I've recently broke up with my girlfriend, the only thing is, this is a long distance relationship, she lives VERY far away from me... anyway, I dumped her because she has become far too obsessive, I can't talk to any girls in real life or online, if I do then that means I am automatically cheating on her... she is emotionally blackmailing me because I no longer want her... I can't get in touch with her family so yeah. :/ /Please help?
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Anal sex pregnancy
Posted Friday August 19 2011, 3:19 am
Dumbell :(
My bf fucked me in my ass and he also came in my ass. It did not drip down to my vagina. Can i be pregnant? Im really nervous!
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How to Ride On Top
Posted Wednesday August 17 2011, 10:02 pm
-Female
Me and my intimate other have had sex twice and he was first and only so far. The last time we made love he wanted me to go on top and I wanted to but I was nervous because I did not know how to move my body and did'nt know if he would like it. I did alright and we had a rythm for about 2 minutes but I lost it and then we both just kinda laughed and did something else. But I want to know how to pleasure him by riding on top but make me feel great at the same time(which I know how it works just dont know how to do it. If I lean back it will hit my g-spot more efficiently). So any tips what men like and how to make him feel good and give him a good show?
Thanks :)
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