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How do I tell him I've never given a HJ/BJ
21 female. Nick -19
I recently just got into my first real relationship with Nick who is the sweetest guy. He is still a virgin but has done other sexual things.
I know we're going to wait to become sexual, but there is just one thing that's bothering me. I'm not a virgin, I've had sex once. I've been fingered. But I've never given a hand or blow job. I'm a little embarrassed because I'm 21 and have never done this.
I kind of want to try it (when the right time comes) but I know i'll be embarrassed to tell Nick I've never done it. He's completely head over heels for me and I know he would do anything for me so I don't think he would care, but I still feel a little embarrassed. When the time comes do I tell him I've never given one? How do i bring it up? What if we're in the moment, I don't want to ruin it by saying "I don't know how to do this"
Anything will help, thank you!!
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You shouldn't be embarrassed, there's nothing wrong with that! There's really no reason to tell him it if you don't feel comfortable letting him know. And don't worry that you haven't done it, because it's not about experience, it's about figuring out what works for him and how he likes it best.
You won't ruin it by saying you don't know how to do it, I'm sure he'll be more than willing to help you out. Just start slowly and don't think too much about how you're meant to do it. He'll most likely move you around or tell you to do something that he likes better. Just be gentle until he asks you to do it harder, so you don't hurt him.
If you do want to tell him, then you have nothing to worry about. Yes it will be a little embarrassing, but he won't be upset at all. Just tell him to give you some guidance when you're doing it.
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