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How do I say no
So my ex boyfriend and I hook up alot and we always wants me to give him a blow job but I really don't want too! I keep saying no but he just says please and keeps pleasing and when I say no he says fine then I'm fucking you. And I say no but he trys too! And it's not like I can just stop seeing him because my best friends brother is his bestfriend and I am always at her house and then she and her brother walk away and he picks me up and carries me away into the woods and I just don't know what to do I tell my friend not to leave but she just laughs and does it anyway so I don't know what to do. I mean I would blow him but i have a bad past with that. So I need advice ! Please help! I'm really scared of him I feel kind of raped after he touches my boobs and fingers me he always makes me touch his penis and I don't like it. So please someone give memadvice what to say walking away doesn't help he just carries me back. So help thanks
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You are not "kind of being raped" you are being raped. Any time you are forced to perform a sexual act against your will, this means you have said NO, then you are being raped. Call the police and report this.
It matters not how old you are or how old he is. In fact the younger you are the more important it is that you report his behavior to the police. Other than forcing himself on you sexually he has not done you any physical harm, at least you haven't said so. What about the next girl who may fight harder than you.
I understand he is your best friends brother. She is complicit in his raping of you if she is knowledgeable of his actions, which it seems she is and does nothing to stop it. To my way of thinking she is not much of a friend to let this happen to you.
If you are truly being forced to have sex with him against your will, then you must tell your parents and inform the police.
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I agree with Zane what he is doing is completly WRONG! No means no simple as that. and if he doesn't listen or continues anyway even with you saying no then something is definetly wrong!
Also talk to your friend,. Explain the situation. She will be more willing to not leave you alone with him if she knows what's going on.
She probably assumes that your like please don't leave me alone because im nervous to be around him cuz i secretly like him.
If that doesn't work talk to her brother let him know what's going on and ask that he not bring him around you.
They will be undersstanding of what's going on and Should respect u enought to do so.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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If you are being forced to perform sexual acts and have sexual intercourse under your consent then you were raped, You were taken advantage of. You need to report this guy and not let him off the hook. People who don't know the meaning of the word "NO" need to be learned some sort of consequence. This is were you tell an adult you trust and you tell them everything you've told us above.
Second: If there is any possible way to avoid the creep, Then I'd stay clear. This guy has some major issues he needs to sort out and by that I mean his ass needs some time in a jail cell.
My best advise: Report him immediately, What he is doing is 100% wrong.
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