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How to make a relationship last foreverr?? :]


Posted Friday April 3 2009, 11:15 pm

Ok so.. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months. We're in love and stuff, so far everything is going good.. sometimes we fight because i get jealous or mad. because of girls.. (im kinda insecure) and have little trust, even though he tells me that he only wants me etc.

But yeaaa i love him to death, i would do anything for him. I literally wanna be with him forver :]

I need to know how to trust him & not be jealous.. And how to make this last forver!

Please && Thank you<3

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admitting it freaked him out


Posted Friday April 3 2009, 6:28 pm

I told my guy friend from school, who i like, that i liked him today in one of our classes, which was really hard for me to do. He sits behind me but I decided to just text him during class. I told him I had to tell him something but i didn't want him to be weirded out and he sortof seemed confused. So I told him, and said that it was hard for me to say and that i understand if he doesnt feel the same way and that I hope we could still be friends in that case and that I'm sorry if I freak him out. He didn't answer. The bell rang, and since it was double period science we had the break and usually he stays but this time he totally dashed out the door to go talk to our other friend, but i don't think he told her about it. When he came b...

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Girlfriend suddenly missing


Posted Friday April 3 2009, 6:10 pm

It's always difficult to keep long distance relationships going, but even moreso when that person suddenly vanishes.
My girlfriend, 20 years old, lives in Ohio with her mother who can be most accurately described as "Skewed". She has a tendency to think irrationally and it more often then not end with my girlfriend breaking down and/or getting hurt.
Since we began dating one month ago there's always been a way to contact her. Whether it through a home phone, cell phone, or online. She is close friend with on of my long-time friends, and before we met the two of them would talk everyday.
The last time I spoke to her (on the phone) was last Saturday, six days ago. I recieved a short text from her on Monday, four...

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SHould I be Jealous of His Old Crushes?!


Posted Friday April 3 2009, 12:50 pm

I'm an 18yo FemalE . my bf has an old friend who Lives down the block from his house. Shes a girl, and he used to Have a huGe crush oN her but After HS tHey Stopped Talking. I've seen Her arOund when I go Visit him, and I Don'T know her, BuT I diSlike Her, BeCause I Know My bf Was crAzy About her b4. Shud I be Worried or HaTe her If I doNt know her?? GirLs can be Snakes! Help PLEASE!!!

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what should i do?


Posted Friday April 3 2009, 12:39 pm

So I've known my friend Chris for almost 5 years now and we've become pretty much best friends. But I've been in love with him since I met him.. And I know he feels the same, but he won't do anything about it. Like we'll be driving in his car to get our friends, and he'll just reach over and grab my hand like it's no big deal but as soon as our friends get in the car, he lets go. Do you think he could be embarrassed of me or something? Because when we're alone, he's lovey dovey and huggy and acts like he wants to be with me but then around friends and at school most of the time he's totally different. Should I pursue something with him or let it go cuz it'll never happen? Please help me! :/

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choosing between my boyfriend and my ex


Posted Friday April 3 2009, 10:46 am

ok...
so i've been dating my boyfriend for about 8 months now. he's been great, up until about two weeks ago when he got drunk and cheated on me. i broke up with him, but we got back together a week later because he promised he would do anything to have me back. Now, I believe that he's sorry, but it was kind of a relief to not be with him. don't get me wrong, i love him. he's awesome.

but i have a big problem.
my ex, who i dated for two years, has been calling me. he has wanted me back since we broke up in August. basically since i got with my current bf. i love talking to him... but he will call or text one day, and then i won't hear from him for a week or so...and so then i kind of start to heal the pain a bi...

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How to stop being jealous; how to trust my boyfriend?


Posted Thursday April 2 2009, 11:34 pm

I hate it when he looks or talks to a girl. it bothers me! ugh i hate it so much.
all of the stupid girls in school like him.. i feel like hes never gonna be mine 100%. we've been going out for almost 8 months and im not happy at all, i mean like im happy with him.. we're both in love and stuff but i feel like my head is gonna blow up.. everyday i start thinking crap.. and i fill my head with stupid dumb thoughts about him being with another girl and stuff.. he tells me that he only wants me and that he loves me and yeahh im just scared :[

what if i stop being jealous & i finally trust him 100% and then boom.. he cheats on me? i will feel like garbage, like nothing. that would destroy me. i dont know what i would d...

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Me and my friends girlfriend


Posted Thursday April 2 2009, 11:01 pm

Well to start off i'd like to start off by saying my subject sounds like the name of a film or something doesn't it =/ l0l

Well heres my problem...

My friend and his girlfriend have been going out for around 2 years now, but for about a year me and his girlfriend have been texting and talking to each other on msn. As soon as i saw her i really liked her and after spending time with them both i realized i really liked her !
Also after a while i found out she liked me as soon as she saw me too.
Anyway we found out we liked each other by joking about liking each other, and then we thought we would just tell the truth and admit we do find each other attractive and like each other.
And after tal...

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mixed singles


Posted Thursday April 2 2009, 10:14 pm

so basically i met this guy at the beginning of the school year.at first we didnt talk even when he dated my "friend" for a little bit.then after they finally broke up he asked me if id like to be his friend.so i said yes ever since we have become closer and closer.as you probably figured i grew to like him.he sometimes acts like he likes me but at times he dont.he told my friend he wasnt intrested me but told my other friend he would think about going out with me.but he still flirts with me.he doesnt act like just a friend sometime.so i just kinda wanna see what he might mean by all this.thank you.

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why is admitting it so hard?


Posted Thursday April 2 2009, 6:09 pm

Tomorrow I'm planning to admit to the guy i like (who also happens to be my friend) that I like him and I'm so nervous. I keep trying to decide the way I'm going to tell him and I can't think of it without freaking out about it. I'm just so scared that he's going to be totally weirded out and avoid me. And if he doesn't like me back its fine and I hope we'll still be friends but I'm just so scared that everything's going to get messed up, since it usually has happened to me in the past when guys have found out I liked them (the difference is i never was the one who told them). But why is it so hard to admit to someone that you like them? I mean I know it's not the end of the world and there are scarier things. I just want to get it ou...

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Posted Thursday April 2 2009, 5:32 pm

this guy i dont know well at all who goes to a catholic all boys school asked me to his senior prom. im a junior. i thought it sounded fun and he was pretty cute so i said yes. we ended up making out and he turned out to be a terrible kisser. he gave me a beard of his spit!!! well i wanted to break things off but didnt. he ended up breaking things off monday after school because some girl he really likes wants to go with him. hes appologized a million times and claims to like me and says he wants to hang out with me again really badly and hes going to make it up to me. ive been really short with him. is it normal though for me to feel really insecure and upset after this though even though i didnt really want to go with him?

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new cutiee guy :]


Posted Thursday April 2 2009, 3:59 pm

hii so there is this new guy who came about 3 months ago, so not too new anymore haha :]
and well i really really fancy him, like he's so cute and nice. but he also seems a lil shy tho :/
so like when he was new, his mum told my mum (they got to know eachother at parentsnight) that he really likes this girl who looks like blabla(discription) and that was pretty much me haha (: and my mum was like omygosh thats my daughter blabla and then told me. i was really happy and i know that he meant me because like i'm the only one with long hair down to my waist x]
so like in school i try smiling at him and stuff but he never really looks at me? but my friends tell me that he looks at me ALL the time when im not looking. and we'...

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20 yo female needs advice concerning her husbands female friend


Posted Thursday April 2 2009, 2:42 pm

My problem is this, There is this woman that my husband went to high school with. They were supposedly really good friends, but nothing more. My guess is because she is over 6 feet tall, and my husband is less than 5 foot 5 inches, but I really don’t know. After my husband and I were dating for about 2 years, I found him and this woman sleeping in the same bed, and she was topless. She gave a half hearted excuse about how she was just drunk and it hurts for her to sleep with a shirt on because she has fake boobs. I don’t know if anything happened that night or not, and it’s because of that, and the love I had for my husband that I let it go. He lied to me about going to hang out with this girl sometime after that, and also took her al...

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every time i see her... EVERY TIME!!!


Posted Thursday April 2 2009, 1:30 pm

God damn it im such an idiot... i hate how mind's work, my best girl mate (who's extremely beautifull in my eyes) and has the best personality. every time i see her w have such a good time and then she gos and she's all i can think about... its been like this for years but i dont think iv ever realised it. we'v liked eachother before and i'v even gone as far as loving her maybe twice out of the 7 or more years i'v known her. we'v never gone out but she did kiss me once when i loved her and it made me so happy beyond belief, the only thing is shes allways with somone... the time she kissed me she had this absoloute arse of a BF who mistreated her loads (they are no longer going out thanks god). and now again today i saw her she was with her ...

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I don't know what to do. . .


Posted Thursday April 2 2009, 12:58 pm

Alright, so im 15/f and I really like this guy, Lets rephrase that. I love him. I have loved/liked him for a little over a year. But he lives in Massachusetts.): and he liked me alot at 1st then stopped, and now claims to like me again, and says he loves me, he was so happy on the phone last night and even texted me good morning, witch he never does... What do i do??
thanks in advance.


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Everyone


Posted Thursday April 2 2009, 12:19 pm

So has anyone else noticed that on all of the relationship questions on here everyone makes it sound like their relationship is perfect??? I do it to but i wonder if everyone feels the same or if they are just lying so everything sounds like its great when its really not if that makes any sense...

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...... Please Help Mee If You Cann.


Posted Thursday April 2 2009, 12:14 pm

Okayy... Theres Two Guys.
Lets Call them A And B.

A Is My Ex... B Is My Best Friend.
Im Still In Lovee With A But B REALLY Loves Mee. We Went Out For Like 24 Hours And Went Out To Watch A movie Togetherr. He Was Sweet And Sed How Preety I Looked Ectt. But It Felt Weird. I Mean Cumon I Was ON A Date With My Best Friend :S.
A Has Moved On But I Lovee Himm...
I Lovee B To Bits But I Dont Think I Could Lovee Him Enough. And I Feel I Dont Deserve Himm..
Helpp!!!!

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): I Love Himm Sooo Muchh Help Mee!


Posted Thursday April 2 2009, 12:02 pm

Hi. Im 13 And Yes You Could Say Thats Young Buh I Found Lovee. Me And This Guy Were Together For 9 Months. But One Of My Best Friends Liked/Loved Him. I Tried To Ignore Herr And Be Happy But On Friday 13th Feb. She Asked Mee To Dump Him And Yes The Next Day Was Valentines Dayy. I Cried Buckets! My Heart Was Broken. So Me And Him Told Eacother We Will Always Love Eachother. NNow 1 Month On And Him And My Best Mate Are Together. In School I See Them Happy Ectt...Not Long Agoo Me And Him Sat Down And Talked. He Sed That I Will Always Be iN His Heart. And As Im Leaving My School To Go To A New One He Said Hes Ganna Miss Mee. I Miss Himmm Sooo Muchh I Lovee Him... Help Mee Get Over Him. :( x

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So messed up...


Posted Wednesday April 1 2009, 9:46 pm

I am 13 and female, and Im a little lost here... So there are these three boys, let's call them boy X, boy Y and boy Z. (Bky X may sound familiar to a few of you who have read my previous questions.)

Here it goes. See, I have had a crush on X for a looooong time (like 2 years!) and I am really close to him. I like him a lot and he understands me and, gosh, he is just perfect. However, even though he though he likes me too, he cannot date until he is 16 (as I said, I am 13, but he is 14 and thats like ANOTHER 2 years). Now, I just think I can wait that long, nor does he expect me to but I REALLY like him!!

Okay some of you have told me to just forget about X (yeah right, like I haven't tried and failed at THAT...

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Is he not into me no more?


Posted Wednesday April 1 2009, 9:39 pm

Lets say my BFs name is Blake.Well blake ....i dont think hes into me no more.He always talks about other girls,he always treats my like crap when his friends are around and, he just doesnt seem to care about me when im sad. I DONT want to break up with him ..I love him half to death but what should I tell him.

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