this guy i dont know well at all who goes to a catholic all boys school asked me to his senior prom. im a junior. i thought it sounded fun and he was pretty cute so i said yes. we ended up making out and he turned out to be a terrible kisser. he gave me a beard of his spit!!! well i wanted to break things off but didnt. he ended up breaking things off monday after school because some girl he really likes wants to go with him. hes appologized a million times and claims to like me and says he wants to hang out with me again really badly and hes going to make it up to me. ive been really short with him. is it normal though for me to feel really insecure and upset after this though even though i didnt really want to go with him?
Additional info, added Thursday April 2 2009, 9:38 pm: maybe i didnt phrase this right he invited me, then uninvited me when he found out a girl he liked better could and wanted to go with him. i never went to the prom. the kissing took place after he asked me. not at the prom. prom hasnt even happened yet. . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? christina answered Friday April 3 2009, 5:25 am: What your feeling is normal. Everyone feels bad from rejection. Anger, guilt - it's all a part of it. I don't think you have anything to worry about. If I were you, I'd just feel bad for the girl. She has to have his sloppy kissing.
canada2011 answered Thursday April 2 2009, 9:18 pm: Yes everyone at some point no matter how beauitful or ugly is going to experince rejection. (I hope i'm on the right track this time, if not i give up lol) anyway sure everyone after rejection is going to feel insecure and down on themselves. Until someone else comes along and boost you self- esteem again. It's really not your fault, he just happened to find out about that girl at the wrong time for you anyway. You need too look at it as though you didn't have too hurt his feelings by leading him on when you would of eventually had too tell him your true feelings. So yeah I understand why you feel insecure and upset. It's normal. [ canada2011's advice column | Ask canada2011 A Question ]
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