Ok so.. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months. We're in love and stuff, so far everything is going good.. sometimes we fight because i get jealous or mad. because of girls.. (im kinda insecure) and have little trust, even though he tells me that he only wants me etc.
But yeaaa i love him to death, i would do anything for him. I literally wanna be with him forver :]
I need to know how to trust him & not be jealous.. And how to make this last forver!
For the jealous you need to come to terms with the fact that he is with you and that means something the other girls mean nothing.
Boys at times are careless so I don't blame you for getting mad...I get mad a lot at my boyfriend. Its totally normal.
There really is no way or steps to keep him "forever". You may imagine your future with him or you want him in your life...but its never really a guarantee things happen for a reason. Not to say you guys will break but maybe something else will come up. Don't let him get in the middle of you career moves and plans for your future. Never let a guys stop you from goals or what have you.
Jackieee answered Saturday April 4 2009, 2:53 pm: I know exactly how you feel. My boyfriend of almost 8 months is a really great kid. He's in all honors classes, while I'm not in all honors. Now, in his classes, the majority are girls and it makes me nervous just to know that he's surrounded by girls. And last week, he was talking and playing like tic-tac-toe and hangman with one of his very good girl-friends. I know they're only friends, but I just so jealous. But then up until recently, I noticed that I have a very close guy-friend as well (a few actually) and we're very close and playful. So I just thought to myself, he has his girl-friends and I have my guy-friends. I know I'll never be together with my guy-friend and the same goes with him.
I know how hard it is not to be jealous. It's extremely aggravating and agitating. Almost like an itch that won't go away. But it's one of the things you have to deal with.
I can't tell you how to make your relationship last forever, but I can tell you, if you try hard, and he tries hard as well, you guys can last awhile or forever. Jealousy is only one of the many emotions in a relationship, so when you feel jealous, maybe you should try walking in his shoes and see how it feels when you talk with your close guy-friends.
Yahaira16 answered Saturday April 4 2009, 10:08 am: Jus don't worry about them other girls all that matters is that you got him 4EVA and they dont so if you see a `gurl talkin to your man or wateva dont worry alwayz think he loves me and she aint gonna have him..and if your relationship is been goin really good so far then there is nothin to worry about. [ Yahaira16's advice column | Ask Yahaira16 A Question ]
sia answered Saturday April 4 2009, 12:26 am: thats a really hard question your asking..but i guess you just have to stop over analysing.your like me always thinking of what COULD happen.He hasnt cheated and loves you you have to believe that until hes doen soemthing wrong.just ignore it or dont show your jealous. hes yours remember so just cherish the fact that the other girls dont have him and you do.surprising him now and then would b good.taking him to a nice place just you 2 and just watching the sunrise. taking him out to dinner and just b yourself you cant change the future if your ment to be with him for ever you will be.just dont argue as much unless its worth arguing about. so just think is this worth the arguement?is it worth loosing him?if not then let it go and dont argue.hope it helped xoxox [ sia's advice column | Ask sia A Question ]
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