hii so there is this new guy who came about 3 months ago, so not too new anymore haha :]
and well i really really fancy him, like he's so cute and nice. but he also seems a lil shy tho :/
so like when he was new, his mum told my mum (they got to know eachother at parentsnight) that he really likes this girl who looks like blabla(discription) and that was pretty much me haha (: and my mum was like omygosh thats my daughter blabla and then told me. i was really happy and i know that he meant me because like i'm the only one with long hair down to my waist x]
so like in school i try smiling at him and stuff but he never really looks at me? but my friends tell me that he looks at me ALL the time when im not looking. and we've talked like a few times before but he never really shows his feelings and acts all 'cool'. but then he gets really jealous sometimes when i talk to anothe rguy. i mean i talked to this guy yesterday and he was watching, staring at him like he wants to punch him in the face :/ he's really shy when it comes to liking someone though but the issue is, so am i. and i want to say hi to him sometime in the hallway or something but i never really find the right situation and i dont have the guts ://
argh, i know this is a typical problem but please help meee :]
anonymousme answered Thursday April 2 2009, 9:12 pm: Well, if you're shy also, then you should know that shy people will not look at the people they like, if they can help it. I'm shy, so I know.
The only reason anyone is shy about their feelings is insecurity, or fear of rejection.
If you know that he likes you, then you have no reason to fear rejection when you talk to him.
If you talk to him, he will feel that you are not repelled by him, and then get more comfortable.
The reason why he won't make a move is he doesn't know that you like him back.
But you have an advantage. You know his feelings & yours, so you have complete oversight of the whole situation.
The ball is in your court.
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