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Me and my friends girlfriend
Well to start off i'd like to start off by saying my subject sounds like the name of a film or something doesn't it =/ l0l
Well heres my problem...
My friend and his girlfriend have been going out for around 2 years now, but for about a year me and his girlfriend have been texting and talking to each other on msn. As soon as i saw her i really liked her and after spending time with them both i realized i really liked her !
Also after a while i found out she liked me as soon as she saw me too.
Anyway we found out we liked each other by joking about liking each other, and then we thought we would just tell the truth and admit we do find each other attractive and like each other.
And after talking to her quite often on msn and stuff we decided to go owt together for the day in leeds. It did seem kinda wierd n i did feel awful about going behind my friends back so i told her how i felt about that.
But recently we have and so have alot of other people, found out he has cheated on her with a few girls ( 3 that we r aware of). They are still together but i dont understand why l0l. He now knows about us two liking each other. He now likes another girl. But yet they are still together.
I am still friends with him but dont see him often at all. i see him about 5 times a year or less because he works ALOT, or is spending time with his girlfriend which isnt a lot at all l0l.
What should i do ?
Should i speak to her about finishing with him and being in a relationship with me or should i just leave it, keep talking to her but wait untill they finish and then make a move ?
or should i wait untill they finish, still talk to her but dont go into a relationship straight away ? WHAT SHOULD I DO ? its been like living in a episode of hollyoaks or something being in the situation l0l =/
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If I were you, be honest. To both of them.
I understand you like her, probably a lot.
But you don't want to be "that asshole" ruining their relationship. Just let them be, time will fly. For now, you can find someone else. If not, just wait. It's worth the waiting if she is worth it.
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It really does sound like a movie.
But anyway, definitely. She should be done with him not only because she doesn't like him as much as she likes you, but because he's cheating on her.
The strange thing about reading this...is that the same exact thing happened to me, only I was the girlfriend.
And this guy, he seemed so great.
Then I got to know his friend, who informed me of all the things that the other guy did behind my back.
Then I started liking his friend...but it never got past that.
We stopped talking abruptly so yeah.
But it would've been great had he and I kept talking.
Having said that, tell her to get rid of him and go out with you, because if not, you might be like me, regretting not taking action.
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