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why is admitting it so hard?
Tomorrow I'm planning to admit to the guy i like (who also happens to be my friend) that I like him and I'm so nervous. I keep trying to decide the way I'm going to tell him and I can't think of it without freaking out about it. I'm just so scared that he's going to be totally weirded out and avoid me. And if he doesn't like me back its fine and I hope we'll still be friends but I'm just so scared that everything's going to get messed up, since it usually has happened to me in the past when guys have found out I liked them (the difference is i never was the one who told them). But why is it so hard to admit to someone that you like them? I mean I know it's not the end of the world and there are scarier things. I just want to get it out already and tell him but I feel like I'm going to explode I'm so nervous. Why is this type of thing so nerveracking for a lot of people like me?
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If you do really like him, tell him! :)
If he doesn't like you back, you can't really blame him for that; you can't force someone to like you.. But he can just play it cool and act like it's no big deal, because it's not. It's a compliment. So instead of being nervous, just tell him how you feel, and act like nothing ever happened. It shouldn't change your friendship.
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Most of the time it's hard for people to open up and tell their true feelings. Much less tell them in person. I understand and its not werid. You just need too tell him that you like him and that if he doesn't feel the same then say that you don't want it to be werid between you guys and you don't want him to avoid you. You just want to go back to being friends if he doesn't feel the same. You just needed too get that off your chest and then wait and see what he says. Theres nothing to be nervous about trust me your going to like a lot of other people in your life.
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