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pregnancy


Posted Sunday July 19 2009, 2:46 am

ok well for some reason im extremely worried about getting pregnant. and i always think i am or i could be i let it interfere with alot of other things in my life...i even told my fiance that we shouldnt have sex until i get on birth control or wait til we get married but sonehow we always get in the moment and i cant help myself...i mean we dont use condom b/c i dont really like them even though i know we should and he pulls out everytime....but idk what to do to get over this...or to get it off my mind besides not having sex or using a condom...is it rare to get pregnant if he pulls out??? any advice??

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sigh, famous boyfriend.


Posted Sunday July 19 2009, 1:24 am

18/f.

my boyfriend is a somewhat famous singer, & we have been dating for a while now. i'm on tour with him right now & i keep getting really jealous, because all these girls throw themselves at him & he like kisses their hands & cheeks, and i know he doesn't actually like them, but you never.. some of the girls are so pretty, & you never what could happen, when my back is turned. Also, i kind of did something really bad. well i was really jealous because he kissed this girl on the cheek & then she grabbed his dick & i was like freaking out on the side of the stage. & so, i got really mad and i stormed off & his best friend was back in the tour bus, so.. me & h is best friend kind of ha...

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In love with best friend


Posted Saturday July 18 2009, 10:45 pm

14 year old Male
So ok. There's this girl that I like a lot. I think I'm in love with her. She's all I ever think about; I even dream about her. She's like my best friend. We tell each other EVERYTHING. I've known her for three years now (we went to the same middle school, and now the same high school), and it was practically love at first sight. Oh and the other day she said i could be her savior. :)
Each time that I was about to tell her how i felt, I'd get a case of the nerves and decide not to. Each time this happened (twice), she ended up being taken within the next week.
As of now she's taken, and I like her, and so does another guy, and I don't know what to do. I told her once but didn't really ask her out an...

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mystery


Posted Saturday July 18 2009, 7:32 pm

What is the best attitude to take with a conceited player that will drive him crazy!??? i was thinking to just ignore him and pay attention to everyone else and he would hate it...but what are some other opinions on here? What do u guys think?

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Does he like me?


Posted Saturday July 18 2009, 6:31 pm

Erm well, there's this guy i like, obviously. He's a school friend and we have started to talk like all the time, he even texts me at 1am sometimes just to 'have a chat' anyway i noticed that when he first started texting me he always ended his messages with one 'x'as like a kiss, and over the weeks one kiss has become 3 and often ended with a casual 'luv ya', but i don't know if its just because we have gotten closer or because he actually likes me, i'm really quite confused...

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My "Friend" isn't doing to well...


Posted Saturday July 18 2009, 6:19 pm

Hi! 13 1/2f - Jimmy 15 1/2m

Well, my friend and I.. Jimmy, we like each other A LOT. He told me he loved me, and i love him to. :) We met at the public pool in our town. My friend and i wouldn't stop staring. He wouldn't either! WE talked and flirted, the week after after we started to get to know each other he told me he liked me. I said i liked him to. <3 We started to get..REAL flirty with each other. lol -blush- we talked dirty to each other on the phone and so on. When we went swimming again we had SO much fun together!! It was great.. he touched me "down there though". It didn't last long though. Soo i thought he really liked me..well he does, but i asked him out and he said
"I want to, i re...

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uggh


Posted Saturday July 18 2009, 1:13 pm

ok. i dont know if any one can help me but i feel like in stuck in the middle of things. i met these two guys bret and connor. i met them both at a camp counselor job. heres their descriptions:

BRET: kinda a badass. loves screamo and has a mowhawk. brown hair and eyes with freckls. gets in fight alot. likes me. really cute. i think he does drugs. hes really gentle and knows how to treat a girl.

CONNOR: really sweet. like classic rock. mediam length hair. dirty blonde and blue eyes.knows how to get what he wants. been flirting with me alot. pushes me on a swing. has glasses but they lo0ok good. hilariouse. always knows how to make people laugh. and hes really gentle and knows how to treat a girl.

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I need help finding my boyfriend a nickname that fits him


Posted Saturday July 18 2009, 9:08 am

I need the best sexy actractive nickename that fits my boyfriend, my boyfriend is a hood boy he's serious but then again he can be real mushy and I really need help trying to figer out a nickname for him so can you help me find one i am a 14 year old female and my boyfriend is a 15 year old male

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Surprise birthday party


Posted Saturday July 18 2009, 3:50 am

I am throwing my boyfriend a small surprise birthday party on Monday. He is turning 19 and I wanted to do this, but I don't want it to cost much. I am taking him to Disneyland next week sometime so I don't want to invest too much money in this (I am an 18 year old college student if u get my drift...kinda broke here haha) so if u have ANY (Anthony can help!) ideas of inexpensive ways to decorate etc, that'd me great. I'm only wanting to spend like 20-30 bucks =\
Thank you!! =]

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keep our relationship fresh


Posted Saturday July 18 2009, 1:11 am

me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 7 months. hes 17 and im 16 i was wondering how can i keep our text convos more interesting and lively instead of often asking "whats up?" or "what are you doing now?" please help me. thanks

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braces


Posted Friday July 17 2009, 8:48 pm

can you french kiss with braces? i met this guy i really like and i think were ready to take it to the mext step.

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trust..


Posted Friday July 17 2009, 8:40 pm

my boyfriend broke up with me because he feels like i don't trust him cause i don't know how to like express what i'm thinking i guess ...i don't really know how to put what i'm thinking into words cause i only trust him and my dad so i don't really know how to open up =/ i do trust him so much though and i told him that...what are some ways i can prove it to him? or maybe something i can give him thats reallyy important to me...but then again would it be weird? cause technically we're not together anymore =/

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trust...


Posted Friday July 17 2009, 8:37 pm

my boyfriend broke up with me because he feels like i don't trust him cause i don't know how to like express what i'm thinking i guess ...i don't really know how to put what i'm thinking into words cause i only trust him and my dad so i don't really know how to open up =/ i do trust him so much though and i told him that...what are some ways i can prove it to him?

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reunited


Posted Friday July 17 2009, 8:31 pm

ok well i havent seen my boyfriend in over 2 months and i am going to see him on thursday what do u think i should bring...referring to the bedroom and such...any suggestions would be great

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I have to pick between two girls, and I can't decide


Posted Friday July 17 2009, 6:33 pm

So it's kind of a complicated/long scenario. I was friends with girl #1 for a few months, and had one of the biggest crushes on her ever. We lived apart at the time, so I never told her. She ended up getting engaged which broke my heart. Anyway, the engagement didn't work out, and now she's single again. She's not exactly my type, and to be honest I'm not sure if I can see myself with her forever, but I still really enjoy hanging out with her, I'm the most comfortable around her, and I'm super attracted to her.

Girl #2, I met back in March, we talked off and on but she also went after another guy. That lasted like 3 weeks, and actually the entire time we still talked. The past two weeks, we've been talking nonstop though, lik...

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I think I want to leave my fiance...


Posted Friday July 17 2009, 5:53 pm

I'm 21 and my fiance is 28. I am 7 months pregnant. We have been together for almost 2 years. Our relationship to me has hit rock bottom but only for one reason....his ex wife and other son. Ever since the day me and my fiance have started dating i have had to deal with endless amounts of bullshit from his ex. Phone calls 2-3 o clock am calling saying what a crackhead I am how I'm such a whore. This went on for basically the first full year. Sometimes she would call pretending to be other women (she was never smart enough to block her number or atleast call from another number). Anywho I'm at the point where I don't feel like i should have to put up with this woman for the rest of my life honestly after 2 years she still hasn't let up when ...

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he wants something serious


Posted Friday July 17 2009, 4:52 pm

I met this guy last semester and I developed a crush on him, but I thought he saw me as just a friend. We accidentally ran into eachother a few weeks ago, and got to talking and we both admitted to liking eachother the whole semester. We started "dating" and I found out he's looking for something serious and has become overly eager and wants to call/text all the time. I don't want a serious relationship but I like him and want to hang out. I told him that and he seemed to accept it but continues to act like I'm his girlfriend. How can I draw the line and get him to realize that he needs to backoff and relax? I admitted I'm a sort of a commitmentphobe, but he thinks he's seriously going to change my mind! (21/F)

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kissing a girl who has braces


Posted Friday July 17 2009, 3:59 pm

Do people with braces on their teeth normally kiss? If so, is there any difference from those who don't have braces? Especially French kissing.

My ex girl and I are likely to make up in a few days from now. She recently got braces, and I wonder if it will be normal for us to be kissing, now that she has braces :-)

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perfect guy,one problem.


Posted Friday July 17 2009, 11:51 am

Hey,
okay so theres this guy *Jake,and I actually really really like him,I get butterflies around him and when we talk and stuff,hes so kind and sweet to me and I know he likes me too we text non stop sometimes until the early hours of the morning and he always asks me am I getting tired etc. hes just not like all the other guys i usually end up attracting or going out with.
we were in holland last week and we kissed,he was one of the best kisses ive ever had,and he didnt try anything else and he respects me.
he was even worried i would regret kissing him lol i got a bit drunk one of the nights over there and he looked after me didnt try take advantage or anything.
so on to the problem,he lives in a different cou...

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My Problem HELP!


Posted Friday July 17 2009, 6:36 am

THe other night I got in a fight with my dad about our past and I started writting and this is exactly what came out on paper: "I look for love that is my purpose in life, to search for something I may never find or feel. Not once in my life have I felt that I was truely loved by any one person. I tend to do anything and everything I can to feel loved, rithout love I will always be unhappy. If I die without finding true love I will have had no purpose in life! I need fullfilment, to feel complete. I honestly blame my mother and father for my problem! They were never around to give me the love I needed as a child, and now I search for a different kind of love the hardest kind to find, True Love! I get myself into so much trouble and hea...

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