Erm well, there's this guy i like, obviously. He's a school friend and we have started to talk like all the time, he even texts me at 1am sometimes just to 'have a chat' anyway i noticed that when he first started texting me he always ended his messages with one 'x'as like a kiss, and over the weeks one kiss has become 3 and often ended with a casual 'luv ya', but i don't know if its just because we have gotten closer or because he actually likes me, i'm really quite confused...
lol.
talk to him about it, though.
just like, be like
"i need advice. i like this guy, and i think he likes me, but i don't know. what should i do. should i tell him i like him?"
and see where it goes, like
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Darby answered Saturday July 18 2009, 11:55 pm: It seems to me that he probably likes you. Typically, a guy wouldn't spend the energy and time talking to a girl that often if he just wanted to be friends. The fact that he texts you late at night 'just to chat' and ends conversations with 'luv ya' shows that he's probably interested in you on a different level.
The best thing you can do is hint around about it. You don't have to directly ask him if he likes you (which isn't a bad option, but I understand if you don't want to do that). Mention something about how he adds more x's at the end of his messages now. Ask him if he has any crushes (I'm guessing he doesn't have a gf).
By asking that, you'll be opening up the conversation of relationships. If he does have a crush on you, it would be a great opportunity for him to say that he does have a crush on someone, and hint around that he has a crush on you. People usually don't just outright say when they have a crush on someone at first; although it would make things a lot easier.
Playing 20 questions is also a quick way to figure out if a guy likes you, because it typically comes up somewhere within the 20 questions. The next time you're texting, you should just ask if he has a crush, or see if he wants to play 20 questions and see where that leads you.
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