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My "Friend" isn't doing to well...
Hi! 13 1/2f - Jimmy 15 1/2m
Well, my friend and I.. Jimmy, we like each other A LOT. He told me he loved me, and i love him to. :) We met at the public pool in our town. My friend and i wouldn't stop staring. He wouldn't either! WE talked and flirted, the week after after we started to get to know each other he told me he liked me. I said i liked him to. <3 We started to get..REAL flirty with each other. lol -blush- we talked dirty to each other on the phone and so on. When we went swimming again we had SO much fun together!! It was great.. he touched me "down there though". It didn't last long though. Soo i thought he really liked me..well he does, but i asked him out and he said
"I want to, i really do but i just cant date people right now, im sorry i really do im not playin with your heart". So, i was sad we couldn't date. He can't because a lot of people HATE him I'm serious and i don't know why, i know him and he's the kindest guy ever. Someone called him and told him to kill himself. No one knows who called him. He told me that he won't be dating me or anyone else for a long time. :/ That hurts.Also, just yesterday he told me that his dad just had a heart attack and if i could pray for him. Evey things going down hill for him! Wouldn't he want me more now than ever?? What should i do? Wait for him?? Or date someone else? Please help and don't be harsh
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well first off, you're very young to be doing all this intimate stuff.
but besides the point, sometimes guys do this purposfully to get in your pants.
if that's not the case just be sure to talk to him when he needs talked to and not when he doesnt.
i'm just tryin to state the truthh.
hope everything works out fine(:
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It seems to me that there's a lot you don't know about him. I'm sure he's kind and everything, but I'm sure he knows why a ton of people hate him. You need to figure that information out, because it could be harmful to you. He must have done something to make a lot of people mad. People don't just randomly hate one person for no reason, usually. Especially not to the extent that people are calling him and telling him to kill himself.
You should also find out why he doesn't want to date. These are important questions that you need answers to. If he's a nice guy, he'll understand your concerns and answer clearly and directly. He didn't really give you a reason for not dating you, just 'I can't', which worries me. It could be any number of things. I'm not saying he's a bad guy, but it's definitely something you should look into before pursuing anything further with him.
As for his father, that is sad and you should pray for him (if you're religious), as he asked. In the meantime, let him know that you're there for him any time. Let him know that he can call you if he needs someone to talk to, and that his he and his father are in your prayers.
Good luck,
Darby(:
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