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am i being rejected?


Posted Tuesday August 18 2009, 9:06 pm

im a senior in highschool and this kid and i have been talking for 3 months. Today was our first day of school, and him and i dont really have the same group of friends (which i knew was going to be weird). he was very weird at school, we have no classes together and he only say hi to me like three times and it was like a few minutes conversations, nothing special. then today after school i texted him and its been like three hours and he hasnt responded. should i just be done? what do i do?

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why doesnt he like me anymore ?


Posted Tuesday August 18 2009, 7:06 pm

Hey,
im hoping u can help me out

im 14 yrs old and recently met a group of guys at a under 18s night club
me and 1 of my friends hooked up with 2 of the guys
since then my friend has been meeting up with the guy she kissed, and ive been going with her
he brings along all of the friends who were at the nightclub, and more.
the thing is, the boy i kissed comes 2. i really liked him, but he doesnt seem to be interested in me anymore.
i dont know why this is, cos he was the 1 who made the first move, and he was the 1 who wanted to kiss me.
he doesnt even speak to me, the only thing he has said was hi 1 time.
also, alot of boys in the group of friends have tried it on with m...

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kay.


Posted Tuesday August 18 2009, 4:35 pm

well theres this guy.
3 years older than me probably?

and we talk.
any ideas for conversations?
like massive convos?

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things to say


Posted Tuesday August 18 2009, 4:02 pm

what are some things to say to my boyfriend to make him happy and let him know i care about him...like what do guys like hearing from girls?

oh and i want to tell him i love him but i don't want to scare him ...he said it to me after 4 months but a few months after that we broke up but then got back together...i want it to be cute, like i don't just wanna randomly come out and say it...how should i do itt? thanks :) we've been together for a year (not counting the 3 months we weren't together)

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MAJOR Drama


Posted Tuesday August 18 2009, 10:32 am

Ok, so this is a pretty confusing story, so im going to try to keep it short.

I've been friends with this girl Rachel since third grade. Not best friends, but we talk. I also have another friend, Lucas, and I've been friends with him since 5th grade. I've liked him since 5th grade, but in 9th grade, he started dating Rachel. I'm in 11th grade, and they're still dating. Last weekend, Lucas told me he has feelings for me, but I couldn't tell Rachel because he still loves her. Now Lucas is all I can think about. I recently went through a horrible breakup and he was there for me, which just makes me like him even more. He knows I like him, and I know he likes me, so its kind of hard to ignore the situation. I really want to stay...

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Things to do in long distance relationships.


Posted Tuesday August 18 2009, 3:57 am

By the end of this week I will be in a long distance relationship, thanks to college.
I need some ideas for fun things to do over the phone, or to send each other. I'm hoping if we keep ourselves occupied with games or fun stuff then we won't keep thinking about how we can't be with each other.

Any ideas?

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I dont care (but obviously I still do)


Posted Tuesday August 18 2009, 1:19 am

So my situation is that I kinda don't care anymore...BUT at the same time, unobsessively, on the side, so nobody knows, I kind of a little bit, not really, still do... But not a lot. =)

This boy bothers me. Childish to say but I think it can be true at any age. At 5, 18, or 30 men still bother us.

And he definitely does. If it's intentional I wouldn't know, but why is it that he barely talks to me, or asks to see me, or acts interested...

Yet he INSISTS he is...And wants to kiss me. Well he DID kiss me. But there's more to it. His ego, HUGE! That's probably why. Well I rejected his advances once or twice. But that's normal for a girl to do. And I didn't just flat out reject him either. Just did...

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fed up!


Posted Tuesday August 18 2009, 1:02 am

19/female

i don't even know where to start. i've like this guy for probably 5 years now, he's also one of my best guy friends. he's had a girlfriend for three years now.

well i dont even know what to call her anymore. within the last year they've been on and off like no other. it's rather annoying because he will tell me there not together anymore which obviously makes me happy yet, she's always at his house pretty much every night?

he says there still close friends but its very annoying. he has four other brothers and sisters and so does she, and so sometimes she will bring her little brother and sister to hang out with his little brother and sister, gag.

i always bring it up, lik...

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I Need Advice


Posted Monday August 17 2009, 8:06 pm

Hello'. Everyone i am in need of some helpp. It's this boy that i really have feelings for but everytime we talk we fuss, Well At least ever since the first time we had intercorse. Before that everything between use was fine/ Maybe he got what he wanted and now he isn't intersted in me anymore? What's Next I really wanna be with him! But he also dosen't want any girlfriend and i respect that but i can't seem to figure out why he want's to keep me around if we dont have a Relationship in our future?

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I don't know what to do about this boy - I feel used but is that bad?


Posted Monday August 17 2009, 6:02 pm

Hi, I am an 18year old girl. I was with this guy towards the end of my senior year. We weren’t dating, but we were hooking up. We went to prom together (I know, prom is lame) and continued hooking up/having sex. Then the he told me to go to a party one night, one I was already going to. And at this party he ignored me. I heard he also hooked up with another girl. I went away for the summer and didn’t talk to him for 8 weeks. Now he wants to see me. Even though at first I said no, He somehow pressured me into seeing him - alone. He invited himself over to my house, saying "you never know who you can sleep with in college" and part of me thinks that is right. I want to do it for that reason, but I don't want him thinking he can ...

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What do I do for her


Posted Monday August 17 2009, 3:39 pm

My gf n I went out for a year n a half and kissed another girl who she is now good friends with but at the time she lost trust we fought and I didn't understand why then but now I do. She broke up with me over a text and the same night I got with a girl. We didn't talk at all after that and I figured shed never talk to me again so I just got drunk all day and got with a lot more girls. Two months after we broke up I saw her at a party and troed talking to her again. One weekend I heard she was getting with another guy, which she wasn't but I messed up and showered with this other girl twice at this camping concert and we did a bunch of shit . I didn't have my phone near me all that weekend so I never asked her about it or talked to her and ...

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I hope this makes sense.. I'm just confused about myself


Posted Monday August 17 2009, 3:25 pm

Ok... this may sound strange but I have too much going on in my life right now so I didn't know what to ask.

I think the root of it all is.. no one is like me. I face problems all the time because of my differences to others in every sphere of my life, social, romance, family, work, I'm just not like anyone else I know. It's harming relationships, has terminated some of the most important ones in my life, I'm just past it now.. the only reason I'm asking this is for lack of a better question out of the thousands raging in my head. Every day at my home is another day of torment so I try to stay away from home but my parents try to restrict that, our relationship has unfortunately reached a point beyond repair now. I get hurt b...

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tattoo:D


Posted Monday August 17 2009, 12:39 pm

I just recently posted a question about a gun tattoo on my hip. I have changed my mind. I now want to get "Love is much like a rose, beautiful and calm, but willing to draw blood in its defense"
and with this I want to get a rose with blood dripping from it.
I plan on getting the same rose tattoo my mom has, so that way we can have a tattoo together, but yet its still my tattoo.
Any ideas on how this should look or things you would add or change about it.
I want to get it on my ribs, because I dont want any tattoos on my legs, arms and stuff. I'm trying to keep all my tattoos on my middle body.
Thanks so much!!!

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She reads 1984....


Posted Monday August 17 2009, 5:14 am

Ok so i'm a 15 year old boy and there's this girl that i havent really met....but i see her around A LOT and shes very hyper and goofy around everyone and shes just idk seems special, ya know? and she has this battered up worn book which i think is called 1984...it has a white cover with like a blue eye on it. Every now and then i catch her rereading it. I think its her favorite, so i was wondering whats the book like about? is it some chick book? and like what does it say about her?

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I'm thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend


Posted Monday August 17 2009, 3:52 am

I guess I do not kno how i am feeling rite now about him. I'm 17/f and things just seem a little off between us and little things that hes been doing have been annoyin me, like when he calls me only on his time, like when hes driving somewhere. and then he has to go after like 10 minutes. i just feel like i'm on his time and when i want to talk he really cant and its a weird feeling.

also i have been talking to this other guy, Joey and hes really nice and we've been friends for a while and i sometimes find myself talking to him about these problems with my current boyfriend (his name is David). I just feel like things are different between David and I now. I dont really know what to think. I still like him (David). I hope I g...

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wow wat do i do


Posted Sunday August 16 2009, 11:58 pm

so ive been with my bf for a while n we havent said i love you yet i know he does love me cuz he shows it.. but i want to say it to him well actually i want him to say it first but its taking forever... weve taken eveerything really slow but i just wanna jump the gun this time please help dont worry i know we love each other and im defintely mature to take the step of saying it

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stuck between 2 guys


Posted Sunday August 16 2009, 9:18 pm

Okay well I'm 15 and I've been with my boyfriend now for 6 months and he's perfect for me. But I still have strong feelings for my ex boyfriend. When my ex broke up with me i found the guy im with now and then a week before our 5th month i broke up with my boyfriend for my ex and 3 days Later i got back with my boyfriend. My ex still loves me he said and he wants to see me this Sunday to hang out because he misses me, but i promised my boyfriend that I wouldn't talk to him again. Im suppose to be hanging out with my best friend this weekend and i was thinking that me and my friend go to swimming at the swimming center and I invite my ex along, and i don't tell my boyfriend. Do you think its a good idea to do it? because my ex has hurt me a...

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I wanna get my girlfriend somthing special.


Posted Sunday August 16 2009, 9:18 pm

James/16

I want to get my girlfriend somthing special I don't have that much money and we live far apart.
I want to be able to surprise her but at the same time say I'll always be there for you.
Im at a loss here and don't have a clue of somthing that will say that.

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looseing your virginity!


Posted Sunday August 16 2009, 9:18 pm

my friend is goin out with this lad for about 4 months now and she want to have sex with him and she is still a virgin! but she told him that she wasnt so she wants to know is there a way of hiding the fact that she is?..

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what should i do?


Posted Sunday August 16 2009, 9:16 pm

hey i'm a 15 female...me and this guy like each other alot (he's told me and vise versa)and we slept toether not to long ago...i was hoping to keep it casual but then he kept calling and know i've fallen for him...we've been through alot together and i want to make our being together official that way he'll feel comfortable with us...well being us...in public. we've kept ourselves single for one another but it's like he's too shy to make a move. normally i'm not so shy around guys but i don't wanna mess this up. any advice??? any at all???

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