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I don't know what to do about this boy - I feel used but is that bad?
Hi, I am an 18year old girl. I was with this guy towards the end of my senior year. We weren’t dating, but we were hooking up. We went to prom together (I know, prom is lame) and continued hooking up/having sex. Then the he told me to go to a party one night, one I was already going to. And at this party he ignored me. I heard he also hooked up with another girl. I went away for the summer and didn’t talk to him for 8 weeks. Now he wants to see me. Even though at first I said no, He somehow pressured me into seeing him - alone. He invited himself over to my house, saying "you never know who you can sleep with in college" and part of me thinks that is right. I want to do it for that reason, but I don't want him thinking he can get me so easily. I don't really think I mind being used, as long as I'm using him to. I think I may be attracted to the asshole in him. Should I tell him straight off and not see him at all? Do we hang out as friends? Do I suck it up and sleep with him?
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Stay away form him. He's using you for sex, and you don't deserve that. He's a sleeze.
--Jack
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your here because deep down you know that theres somthing wrong, you wouldnt be asking us if its right or wrong because you know yourself allready that its a waste of time he obviously is only playing you along for the shallow benefit of himself.. put him in his place and you take control dont go back to him.
he also sounds a little controlling if he pressured you into seeing him again at some point.
but for the "you never know who you can sleep with in college" part im not sure what context he used that in... was it a happy/over confident statement like "Oh man you never know who's gonna bang you next its great!" or as a hopefull statement?
im not sure but hopefully i helped a bit anyway
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you should straight up tell him to get lost because guys like that only want sex nothing else so all your going to get is pain because hes just using you once hes done he'll move on and leave you hanging so its better to just move on now and save yourself alot of heartbreak there are way better guys out there so dont find yourself being pressured to stick with this guy even if he tries to presuade you in any way. Good luck :)
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