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why doesnt he like me anymore ?
Hey,
im hoping u can help me out
im 14 yrs old and recently met a group of guys at a under 18s night club
me and 1 of my friends hooked up with 2 of the guys
since then my friend has been meeting up with the guy she kissed, and ive been going with her
he brings along all of the friends who were at the nightclub, and more.
the thing is, the boy i kissed comes 2. i really liked him, but he doesnt seem to be interested in me anymore.
i dont know why this is, cos he was the 1 who made the first move, and he was the 1 who wanted to kiss me.
he doesnt even speak to me, the only thing he has said was hi 1 time.
also, alot of boys in the group of friends have tried it on with me, eg touching and trying to kiss me.
i let them touch me and hold my hand and stuff, but not kiss me on the lips, cos i really like the guy i kissed first.
but when he saw me cuddling 1 of his friends he looked upset and jelous, i dont get it !? why do u think this it ?
also. i really like his friend, i think i like him better than the guy i kissed, he tried to kiss me but i said no, cos i wasnt sure if i liked him then, now im sure i do, but i dont think he will try it on with my again, as i missed my chance. the next time i saw him he asked to hold my hand, but i didnt let him, i dont know why and i sooo regret it cos i reaallllllly like him !?!
i really dont know what to do, should i just forget about them all together ?
cos everytime i try to i cant, i think about them all the time, and everytime i see them its even harder.
i just wish they werent like other guys, and who cared about me.
p.s. the guy was my first kiss so its even harder to get over him. PLEASE HELP !
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So the guy u kissed at the club that night might have just been looking for a hook-up and doesnt really like you in the way you like him but the other guy seems to really like you and you like him so go for it. Next time you see him you make the first move then he will know that it is ok with you.
If you still really want the guy that you kissed that night then try talking to him. Flirt and see if he flirts back...just be careful that hes not just playing with your head.
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Honestly, I think you're kind of young for that..but, they just seem interested in kissing/touching/etc.
You're attached to the guy who gave you your first kiss? That's normal! It happens all the time. However, if he really did like you..he'd make an effort to talk to you and get to know you. Just because a guy does stuff with you and seems interested..doesn't mean he is.
It's your choice. I would recommend forgetting about them because I'm pretty sure they don't want a relationship. How do you know your the only one they're doing stuff with? You met these guys at a club..I think they're interested in other stuff..especially when guy's are between the ages of 13-29.
I know it may be hard to get over. If you want to, try figuring out which one you like more. And then go and ask them to hang out sometime! It's as simple as that.
Good luck :)
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