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I dont care (but obviously I still do)
So my situation is that I kinda don't care anymore...BUT at the same time, unobsessively, on the side, so nobody knows, I kind of a little bit, not really, still do... But not a lot. =)
This boy bothers me. Childish to say but I think it can be true at any age. At 5, 18, or 30 men still bother us.
And he definitely does. If it's intentional I wouldn't know, but why is it that he barely talks to me, or asks to see me, or acts interested...
Yet he INSISTS he is...And wants to kiss me. Well he DID kiss me. But there's more to it. His ego, HUGE! That's probably why. Well I rejected his advances once or twice. But that's normal for a girl to do. And I didn't just flat out reject him either. Just didn't kiss him right away. Big deal!
He still shows interest. Every 3 days...like clockwork. Why? I wish I could tell you.
With people we hang out...I finally kissed him last week at a party at my house. That did nothing to change his mannerism.
And every time we saw each other one on one (twice in total) he wanted to play some game where I ended up in my underwear or kissing him (although I didn't) or seducing him. To be fair one of the "games" was my idea because well...I'm fun...and it involved him embarrassing himself so it was well worth it.
But now, he finally asks to see me again, just us. And he wants to play another dirty game... yippe!
Not worth it for me because I actually want to get somewhere, get to know him...progress. I told him I didn't want to play and he tells me "Its okay if you're not comfortable you don't have to play" I told him (a few hours late) that it wasn't about that....
Now he wont answer for a day because I didn't answer him right away. I know because he's like clockwork. I know when to expect a text and when not to. Very predictable...
So advice? I guess I'd like to know how to move forward in this situation. I would be more forward but he doesn't like that. Likes to call the shots, which hes calling VERY slow.
So I kinda don't care anymore, but still it bothers me so I guess I do...
ADVICE?????
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Most likely he's one of those jerks who just wants to get in your pants but if you think otherwise then talk to him about it...tell him how you feel explain that you want more from him than dirty games. If he doesnt want more than hes not worth your time and you should tell him that. I hope it all works out but if it doesnt just remember that it wasnt meant to be.
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I think you should tell him that you want more of a serious relationship with him. Or your never going to get anywhere. By what your telling me about him it doesn't seem like he wants the same type of relationship that you do. So to get things going tell him what you want. If its to get to know him better or get serious. Gl
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