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I'm thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend


Question Posted Monday August 17 2009, 3:52 am

I guess I do not kno how i am feeling rite now about him. I'm 17/f and things just seem a little off between us and little things that hes been doing have been annoyin me, like when he calls me only on his time, like when hes driving somewhere. and then he has to go after like 10 minutes. i just feel like i'm on his time and when i want to talk he really cant and its a weird feeling.

also i have been talking to this other guy, Joey and hes really nice and we've been friends for a while and i sometimes find myself talking to him about these problems with my current boyfriend (his name is David). I just feel like things are different between David and I now. I dont really know what to think. I still like him (David). I hope I gave enough information. I've also been in California for the past couple of weeks cause I've been visting my grandma and grandpa.


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Grazia answered Monday August 17 2009, 3:08 pm:
Firstly it seems like you've got to find out how you feel about David. Do you want to continue your relationship or not? Or does it depend? And on what? Only you can answer these..

Most likely once you figure these out you'll need to talk to David. And not just another talk that's brushed under the rug or avoided by him, you need to make him realise it is serious. You didn't mention how long you were together with your boyfriend.. that could affect things.
There's no one who could know what's best for you and your boyfriend because no one else is in your relationship or recognises the dynamics of it.

Talk to David, tell him exactly how you feel without sparing the details, notice his reaction, and make a decision. I know it may sound harsh but it's the only way for you to realise what you want =/.

I don't know whether the fact that you mentioned Joey points towards you being torn between the two of them, if you feel like this then you urgently should talk to David so you can start figuring the answers out yourself.

Get back to me if you need more help =]

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