im a senior in highschool and this kid and i have been talking for 3 months. Today was our first day of school, and him and i dont really have the same group of friends (which i knew was going to be weird). he was very weird at school, we have no classes together and he only say hi to me like three times and it was like a few minutes conversations, nothing special. then today after school i texted him and its been like three hours and he hasnt responded. should i just be done? what do i do?
jm93 answered Tuesday August 18 2009, 10:09 pm: Don't panic. There are so many reasons why guys don't answer texts. He could have been busy, didn't get the text (cell phone services sometimes suck and the texts don't get to the other person), or he could just not feel like answering.
I say, talk to him in school. Have a casual conversation and then ask him why he never answered! That's only if he doesn't answer you though.
JustJessOx answered Tuesday August 18 2009, 9:36 pm: Hey there,
okay it seems to me like this guy is confused about or either afraid to admit his feelings for you.
alot of guys are like that when they really like a girl,they are afraid of what their friends will think,and they often act weird or different around us in front of them or else theyd blow us off out of fear of what others think etc.
stupid I know.
what I would advice you to do is to just text him again,or pull him a side and be like seriously whats up?how come you don't talk to me barely anymore and blow me off etc,just ask straight out that way you can figure out whether your wasting your time on him or not.
I hope I helped in anyway or gave some insight!
hope it works out too good luck
much <3
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