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He says he wants me back, what to do?
Posted Thursday November 5 2009, 9:55 pm
Just to warn you guys, this is gonna be long.
15/f
On tuesday me and my boyfriend broke up. On tuesday night we were emailing eachother and he told me that i wasn't listening to him and that the point of the convorsation was not to break up, but to tell me he didn't think we were in love yet. I know this is not true because the first thing he said was 'i know this might come as a suprise to you, but i don't see us going far in a relationship'. Sounds like a breakup to me. He told me i was the most amazing thing and that he wanted another chance. i told him i didn't know and that i'd talk to him at school on wednesday. Meanwhile i was emailing a few of his friends and they told me that he broke up with me because he wanted to a...
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mom knows now
Posted Thursday November 5 2009, 9:13 pm
Well me and my mom had a talk about boys the other day and she knows the boy that I liked , and I told her that we have bee dating for 11 months , she wasn't mad she just told me not to have sex and she to me to try and stay focus on my school work. Which I have been doing , I just got my report card and I got good grade . But I was wondering if I should tell my father or should I not tell him ? I mean I talk 2 my dad nut we don't have that close realtionship like me and my mother do . So what do you think . Should I wait a little bite to tell him or should I just tell him now .
And please can you explain why or why not I should or shouldn't tell him thanks
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am I doing good now
Posted Thursday November 5 2009, 9:08 pm
Okay well me and my boyfriend just made 11 months yesterday , and I been doing so good I haven't cheated on him or done anything bad , because Im really in love with him . And like I became nicer and sweeter and more understanding with him , I mean I still gotta work on my anger a lil bit , and I have to try to look past the things he does that just gets me mad , like when we talk on da phone I hate to hear people eating in my ear that really bothers me , and I hate to hear people smack there gum . And he does that and my mom says im going to find that cute , but I dnt , but im trying to work on that , like im being really serious with this realationship now . Do you think he notices .
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My two guy friends hate eachother!
Posted Thursday November 5 2009, 8:19 pm
Guy 1: Hates guy 2, I think he likes me and I like him and we have a lot in common.
Guy 2: Just my friend. Hates guy 1. Has a crush on me. Knows I like guy 1 and does NOT like it AT ALL!
Both are single
How do I handle this situation?
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Love Square :(
Posted Thursday November 5 2009, 7:37 pm
17 F
My best friend, Amy, went out with this guy (Nick) for a year and a half. They had a very strong and healthy relationship, but in August, he broke up with her and told her he lost feelings for her many months ago. Naturally, she was very hurt.
However, in October, she got a new boyfriend, Ron, and they have been going out for a month. At first, I was shocked at how quickly she got over Nick, but I figured she knew what she was doing.
However, recently, she told me that she still has feelings for Nick, but she DOES like Ron. She told me she thought I should know that Nick has moved on though, and now he likes me.
I'm very confused. He has not made a move on me yet. Most o...
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can't get him out of my mind
Posted Thursday November 5 2009, 7:23 pm
This guy, Carson and i went out for about a year. We were so amazing together, but ofcourse we fought once in a while....i loved him, and still love him so much. Everyguy that i have ever been with does not compare to him at all. This guy named Justin and I have been talking...we have been talking about going out maybe cuz we kind of like each other.....for about a year, carson and I didn't talk...he would prank call me or talk shit about me to my friends...yeah, you guys are probably thinking that this is so fucked up..true, but i think he was only trying to get my attention....so anyway....we are talking a little bit..nothing big, just texting...and he wants to write a song together and record it....he knows how much i love singing..and i...
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do i love him?
Posted Thursday November 5 2009, 5:33 pm
idk if i am in love how do you know if you are??? helpp
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i feel so bad about this :/
Posted Thursday November 5 2009, 1:07 pm
im really lovesick because the guy i love rejected me and now we dont even talk anymore because i stopped talking to him because i couldnt handle the situation.
ive tried talking to him recently but it seems like hes mad at me which is understandable.
i just dont understand him because ive noticed him checking me out a lot lately and i know that im pretty but he told me that he doesnt care about that stuff. (he rejected me because he still has feelings for his ex)
i just hate how we dont talk anymore ( i know its my fault). he always talks to so many other girls but not to me. and ive become good friends with one of his guy friends and whenever i talk to him he ignores him too. it makes me feel like shiit :S
and ...
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my sons mom and I not together....
Posted Thursday November 5 2009, 1:02 pm
Me and my ex are not together any more. She has had a bf for almost 2 yrs. we broke up shortly after I moved out of state. I now have moved back and we are talking again. We have been spending alot of time together. It started of with just going out driving then to movies then dinner. Just yesterday it went a little farther. We went to the mall and flirted alot. We came back to my house and started to watch a movie. She then asked fo a back rub. (for me its a turn on) Needless to say I got into it and turned on. I know what makes her get "hot" and I started to do those things. We played around had fun and I told her I like to get rough. Well lets get to the point. She got rough and we ended up kissing and she freaked out cuz she ...
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i want kids...
Posted Thursday November 5 2009, 12:02 am
ok i always talk about how i want kids right now.. and im 17 female and my bf is going to be 18. he told me at least wait til im 18 so our parents cant tell us anything cause they already tell us stuff and were both still virgins! so they just act stupid! well anyways i have a baby brother that is going to be 4 in december..everytime he is around when my boyfriend is wich is like every single time! my boyfriend gives him like 98% of his time and attention wile i only get like 2%. it super sucks and ive already tried talking to him abotu it. and he says well hes a kid he needs attention too!
well when my baby brother is with me and were by ourselves hes all nice and loving and cute! then once he gets with me and my boyfriend of almost...
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my bf and i....
Posted Wednesday November 4 2009, 11:53 pm
ok im a 17 female and hes going to be 18 male. well he ses he is a virgin and promises and swears. i am a virgin. weve been together for almost 11 months. and oh my gosh i want him so bad...physically. we havent done anything sexual except like feeling eachother but over clothes like he will squeeze or touch my boobs my butt or my front area. ive touched everything on him except his front area. cause he gets tickelish when i put my hands down there. and hes scared that ill give him a boner or something cause were never like completely alone. which sucks! cause i really want to have sex already i think im ready to give myself to him! in everyway. im super comfortable with him. but like i just said were never like completely alone. well like ...
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me and my boyfriend want to move.
Posted Wednesday November 4 2009, 11:10 pm
ok im 17 female and my boyfriend is going to be 18 in january. well we have been talking about wanting to move to hollywood or los angeles. and just moving out of the town we live in now, well today he jus randomly says "hey you need to start searching for houses or appartments or anything in L.A. or hollywood so we can move there i want out of here. and you need to get a job and we need to start saving money!" ok well hes working on getting a job. and i already applied for target and in-n-out burger. well once we get jobs i understand to save money thats the biggest thing. but what are some ways we can totally be ready at least by the time i turn 18 in september...of 2010? cause i need advice on how i can go about getting a job....
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guy wont talk to me.
Posted Wednesday November 4 2009, 8:08 pm
im in a LDR. me and him have been having problems for the last two weeks and nothing seems to be getting better.
ill admit ive broken up with him alot, but alot has been out of anger and me being sad because he acts like he doesnt care.
most of the problems are because of him
and i always seem be getting the blame for it.
he has barely talked to me in the past week
and last saturday through monday he didnt talk to me becuase he "lost his phone at his friends house" i guess i believe that but i dont really know.
the whole distance thing is really hard on me but i love him so im going to deal with it because of that.
we have been fighting for the past two weeks. and ive told him soo m...
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Would you take him back after what he did?
Posted Wednesday November 4 2009, 7:02 pm
Okay so I really liked this guy Kris and everything was really going well. We went out on several dates and we were like going to end up a couple in the future like no doubt. We basically were. Anyways so I'm the new girl at my school and like ALL the guys are so interested in me and it's kinda creepy. I'm not trying to sound stuck up or self absorbed or anything but it's true. Like I know I'm pretty but NOT that pretty to have my facebook blow up filled with 4329840938049301 friend requests from boys. Anyways so I was talking to Kris the other day and he was like hey can we talk on the phone I gotta go in a few minutes (facebook). I'm like oh sorry I'm 3 way chatting with so and so (all boys) and he immediately got very protective and jeal...
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Pleasure for men without penetration
Posted Wednesday November 4 2009, 4:27 pm
I'm 19 and haven't had sex yet, mainly because I haven't been in a relationship since I was 14, which doesn't really count. I've been hooking up with this guy who I don't really trust yet, and since I've waited so long at this point, I don't want to just sleep with him just because we've been hooking up a lot. Problem is, I can tell he's getting bored and frustrated with me just giving him head. He's really generous when it comes to pleasing me so I want to do the same for him. How can I keep things exciting until I'm ready to have sex?
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Is he serious about our relationship?
Posted Wednesday November 4 2009, 1:16 pm
I'm a 22 year old female, my boyfriend is 24. We've been dating for about 10 months now. We are exclusive. I recently moved back home with my mother in Los Angeles. I was in San Francisco. My boyfriends still in San Francisco, but his family lives in Irvine. I'm not really sure if he thinks we're going to be together for long. He told me his mom said I can't go to Utah with his family for Thanksgiving. That really hurt me a lot. He also isn't coming down for my birthday because he says he has to study for school. The thing is my birthday is on a Saturday and he has the Friday and Monday off. He didn't come to my graduation and my mother's birthday. He didn't invite me to his White Coat ceremony. The day after, I went with him and his family...
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open up around him.
Posted Wednesday November 4 2009, 1:27 am
19/female. i've known this guy for like .. 5 years now. i've always had a crush on him and i think he's an absolute babe ;) we call each other "best friends" just because thats what we call each other hahaa. basically, we are though. when we're alone .. its kind of awkward. if we're not flirting it's basically silent because i don't know what to say. then i'll randomly say something and feel dumb. when we're hanging out with a group of people i'm so quiet. i'm usually a crazy girl .. the wild one of my group of friends but not around him .. noooo! i'm the shy, quiet, never know what to say girl. and i can't look at him in the eyes .. i feel like if i look at him he'll be looking at all my imperfections i'm so insecure about. how c...
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To Divorce or To Not Divorce..?
Posted Wednesday November 4 2009, 1:10 am
I'm a 21 female been married for 2 years. My husband is in the army and for the first 15 months of our marriage he was in Iraq. Our marriage hasn't been the greatest and it seems like we argue all the time and we never agree on anything. Since he has been back it has gotten worse. It seems like he never wants to spend anytime with me and he doesn't find me attractive. We are lucky to have sex maybe 2 times in 2 weeks or so and even when we have sex it feels like he is doing it out of obligation or mechanically. I feel like he doesn't love me anymore. I want to start a family but he doesn't seem to want to have a kid with me. I don't know what to do I want to get counseling but he doesn't want to go. I am seriously thinking about getting a d...
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my boyfriends neighbors
Posted Wednesday November 4 2009, 12:03 am
ok me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 11 months. hes a 17 year old male and im a 17 year old female. everytime we go to his house if his girl neighbors are outside there making a whole bunch of comments either insulting me or just stupid stuff as if hes messing around with them behind my back. like just trying to cause problems between me and him. cause i know hes not cheating on me, we spend like every second and every minute together he wouldnt have time to do it anyways. well like one girl will continuosly be like hey my babys daddy! or little stupid comments like that, it makes him mad and he will say shutup or something cause he knows there just doing it to make me mad. well i try to ignore them cause i dont want to star...
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He wants me, should I give him a chance?
Posted Tuesday November 3 2009, 8:13 pm
21/f and he's like 23 or 24...
Okay I was talking this guy named jose back in june of 2009. He found me on a website and the conversations were good. I was actually interested in him and vice-versa. He always complemented me and told me all the sweet things I don't hear so much. So I allowed him to talk to my friend samantha because I wanted her to see if she thought he was a good guy for me. HOWEVER, he was sitten here telling her the same things he was telling me. So I busted him we he tried to jump stupid with me (and that was about meeting up with him cause I'm not to fond about meeting up with people I don't really know). So he felt like crap and pleaded to me that I am the only one he wants and blah blah. He admitted to his mis...
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