Question Posted Wednesday November 4 2009, 4:27 pm
I'm 19 and haven't had sex yet, mainly because I haven't been in a relationship since I was 14, which doesn't really count. I've been hooking up with this guy who I don't really trust yet, and since I've waited so long at this point, I don't want to just sleep with him just because we've been hooking up a lot. Problem is, I can tell he's getting bored and frustrated with me just giving him head. He's really generous when it comes to pleasing me so I want to do the same for him. How can I keep things exciting until I'm ready to have sex?
sobeg answered Wednesday November 4 2009, 7:56 pm: unfortunately there really isnt anything else to do....seems to me if you do not trust this guy why even giving head blow jobs? Sorry to sound mean but sounds to me like hes just not the guy i really dont understand why instead of wasting your time on a person you do not love you focus on a person who you will trust and wont need to be sexual until you feel comfortable? I guess what im trying to say is dont think of yourself low he is not the only guy im sure you can find someone thats...well...worth it. sorry to sound uncaring but just cause he has not penetrated your vagina doesnt mean you havent had sex im sure hes cummed and im sure you have too or else you would have stopped..without a doubt hes already frustrated and i wouldnt be surprised hes already getting it from someone else. the only thing i can think of that will please him is to give it to him and for what i can tell your not ready so get ready ...get married???!?? im not sure why you dont trust him but if you dont trust him then maybe you should close the relationship..
I know this is not at all what you want to hear and even though youll low grade me i hope this helps in any way [ sobeg's advice column | Ask sobeg A Question ]
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