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Would you take him back after what he did?
Okay so I really liked this guy Kris and everything was really going well. We went out on several dates and we were like going to end up a couple in the future like no doubt. We basically were. Anyways so I'm the new girl at my school and like ALL the guys are so interested in me and it's kinda creepy. I'm not trying to sound stuck up or self absorbed or anything but it's true. Like I know I'm pretty but NOT that pretty to have my facebook blow up filled with 4329840938049301 friend requests from boys. Anyways so I was talking to Kris the other day and he was like hey can we talk on the phone I gotta go in a few minutes (facebook). I'm like oh sorry I'm 3 way chatting with so and so (all boys) and he immediately got very protective and jealous because apparently I was explaining to him in great detail what my conversation with them was about (HE asked about it!) so then he was like whatever bye. Then I'm like aw :( I feel bad BUT THEN not long after I find out he's been extremely flirting with this stupid freshman and she's not even pretty or semi pretty. Anyways I heard they went out on a date and crap afterwards. I was pretty pissed and I talked to him about it and he's like oh I'm so so so sorry I did it because I was depressed by what you did WTF. Then I was like BYE.
WOULD YOU TAKE HIM BACK AFTER WHAT HE DID?! Oh btw I wasn't even flirting with the guys on the phone AT ALL even though they're pretty cute.
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You are both being really immature about this.
If you really liked this guy, you could have been a bit clearer on that with him, instead of testing how he'd react if you were too busy with other guys to talk to him.
A simple "I'd rather talk to you, but I think it would be rude to end my FB conversations right now. I'll see you tomorrow!" could have been all it took. You didn't need to NOT talk to them, this guy you really liked just needed a bit of encouragement to feel secure in your 'really like'ing of him.
You can't really 'take him back' cause he was never actually yours in the first place. Don't pretend you have ownership over a guy you weren't a couple with yet. He was free to date.
If you don't want to be with him, then don't be. If you do, you need to tell him so. This is the sort of thing that happens when you keep a guy, or a girl, dangling too long, without defining your relationship.
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youre being pretty immature about it. and just because shes not pretty doesnt mean theres other good things about the girl.
but he has every right to do what he did. just like you had every right to talk on the phone with other guys. you arent dating and the only reason why he probably did what he did was becuase he was jealous of how you were talking to other guys so he wanted to get you jealous
and obviously it worked.
just talk to him about and ask him whats up with him and that girl and ask him how he feels about you and stufff (:
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