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Subtle Clues
Posted Tuesday December 8 2009, 1:04 pm
I need advice on how to subtly kick things up a notch in my relationship with a professor. I want to let things evolve naturally, but suddenly I feel like the air between us is just charged. I'm fairly certain that he feels the same way towards me and I know him well enough outside of class to make this judgment. I want to give him clear signals that I'm into him but also want to be subtle - I want him to take the lead and know that he's not overstepping his bounds. What can I do/say that would let him know?
Also, I'm not looking to 'hook up with him' - I want an actual relationship. Please note that there's nothing unethical in this - I won't have him for any more classes and there's no conflict of interests or university policies against it.
Thanks!
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excuse to be as least dressed as possible hah
Posted Monday December 7 2009, 9:11 pm
so there's this guy that i've been talking to. he's such a sweetheart and i know he likes me for me. we've been talking for a few month. okay so i want to have a little fun...don't tell me not to because i know i do, thats not my question...my question is, what/where/when can we hang out in which i'll be wearing the least amount of clothes possible haha...and preferably with a group of friends too.
(could be a bathing suit or w.e.)
thanks :)
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what matters more?
Posted Monday December 7 2009, 3:12 pm
what matters more to you, what you really really want or what you deserve? and why?
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SO i mean i know the kind of person i am how do i achieve this?
Posted Sunday December 6 2009, 10:21 pm
Oka so this is going to sound hell a weird but i am so not a relationship girl i really hate them i love boys i love doing naughty stuff i love to have fun fun! I guess some would call me a slut idc anyway i know that if i see a hot guy i want to be able to just makeout with him no strings attach or hook up so i mean how do you just do that you say wanna makeout and then you do? that sounds hella weird.
i am not ugly i am chill i snowboard i have tons of friends..so yah taht kinda defines me
Oh yah please dont say you should respect yourself more or something gay liek that i respect myself fine i have a good family life i just want to have fun with boys ill worry about if i get inot troublle and stuff you ju...
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I Like this guy what should i do
Posted Sunday December 6 2009, 10:16 pm
I liek this guy and he is a freshman..I am in 8th grade i am pre sure he doesnt know me cause well he is always baked and i know through a mutual friend anywya i am pre sure he is hella prefect fe rme so heres the deal i want to talk to him and he put his number on myspace saying text me so should i just text him and see what happens or what? it be appreciated if you helped me =]]
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christmas/new years with the boyfriend
Posted Sunday December 6 2009, 9:17 pm
19/f
I recently moved into a house near college with two people, my best friend and her best guy friend. Not to her knowledge, he and I have been seeing eachother for almost three months now. Ergo, we've had to be secretive about our relationship.
Yesterday he asked what I was doing for Christmas, I instinctively answered that I was spending it with my parents, and then he asked if I wanted to go home with him for New Years, in that case visit. I was super psyched and I agreed, but said I would have to get my parents permission since I would be taking their car to drive to his place (2-3 hours away). My parents are aware of the situation and approve, and have been since the beggining.
This is...
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does he like me?
Posted Sunday December 6 2009, 6:01 pm
Okay so thereS this guy and we've been talking for awhile but him and his girlfriend recently brokeup and i see them talk at school and hug and i'm scared there gonna get back together cause they went out for like ayear but he flirts with me alot but everyone thinks there gonna get back together :( should i just give upon him and move on? or should i keep flirting with him? when we talk he seems to like me...but i don't know what to do! can anyone help?
thanks in advance :)
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How do you know if you're meant to be with someone?
Posted Sunday December 6 2009, 5:18 pm
Okay, so I'm 19/f, my boyfriend is 17, going on 18.
We've been together for a couple of years now.
He's one of those "it's my way or the highway" type of people which can be really frustrating.
Over the past couple of years we've had good times but it seems like when I think about it, all I can remember is all the shit he's done to me..and I have always been a pushover about everything. He's just so inconsiderate in so many ways..
But, like I said there are good times too, so I don't want to make him out to be a complete jerk.
But anyway, lately I've been thinking a lot that I might be better off without him, because he basically controls every aspect of my life.
We've been fighting a lot ...
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this guy i like...
Posted Sunday December 6 2009, 4:36 pm
okay so there's this guy i like and a lot of people say he likes me. I dont think he likes me because if he did he wouldn't day I was a ugly pathetic loser. BUT he still looks at me 24/7. I dont get it!
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i will never get to the end of this!
Posted Sunday December 6 2009, 2:58 pm
Ever since 7th grade,(I am in 11th now) I had a thing for this kid(Mike). We had a great friendship,he liked me a few times ,but i always liked him. I think he always had a little thing for me too,but we never went out. As bad as this sounds,ever since 8th grade we were having sex,up until toward the end of 10th grade and thats when i hooked up with someone and he got mad and got a girlfriend and i moved on as well and got over him and found someone new etc etc. We hadn't said a word to eachother in about 6 months .Just recently,he broke up with his girlfriend and the guy i was talking to(joey) ,started liking my best friend (a whole other story) .Anyway,since the kid
i was talking to started liking my best friend,i needed to get ove...
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feel dirty and slutty...
Posted Sunday December 6 2009, 2:04 pm
im 17/f. so i've been in a relationship for a year and i just got out of it like a few weeks ago...i went to a college party last night and i started hooking up with this really hott guy but i felt so dirty and slutty so i stopped and told him that i couldn't do this. when i was with my boyfriend i was like a sex maniac haha but i never felt slutty at all because we had that really strong connection you know? i thought being single and meeting guys and hooking up is suppose to be fun? i don't understand. i'm young and i'm suppose to like this....i guess all i want is someone who cares...idk what should i do...
like if thats what college is like then i'm not that excited..i don't just want to be another pointless girl he's hooked up with...i want to mean something.
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no guilt...
Posted Sunday December 6 2009, 1:02 pm
okay so long story short im a cheater.... but i never feel bad about it. why? why don't i ever feel guilty?
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He can't forget her :(
Posted Sunday December 6 2009, 7:54 am
I met a guy through one of my closest friends, and we've become really close over the past few months, he's my best boy mate, and I've grown to like him as more recently. He knows how I feel about him and we've held hands before, but we agreed on friends only at the moment. He had his heart broken a few days after we met, a girl he liked a lot lead him on and used him, and she was really horrible to him for being upset about it... he said he's trying to move on and that he "just needs to get laid" but he just can't seem to forget her :( I hate that there's nothing I can do to help him and I really like him so so much, I don't know where I stand or what I should do at all... I don't wanna get my heart broken or be used but I just d...
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confused
Posted Sunday December 6 2009, 2:56 am
K im really confused and need like serious help so here goes
k so i saw this guy in the 8th grade im now in the 11th grade and ever since i saw him and talked to him maybe a few times in grade 9 but only cuz he was sitting beside me in english and we wuld jus causually talk and well i cant stop thinking about him i mean ever since grade 8 i cant think of any other guy then him i dont know why im not even close to him or know him or really talk to him and now i dont talk to him at all because i dont go to his school anymore because i moved after grade 9 to a new skool only about a half hour away from my old school and i still cant stop thinking about him i feel like im going crazy i dont know why i want to get to know him and ...
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pregnant..adoption?
Posted Sunday December 6 2009, 2:08 am
im 18 my boyfriends 20..and im pregnant.
we were so careful..we used condoms and bc but we ran out of condoms and thought it would be ok. i took every pill on time but im pregnant. he wants to give the baby up for adoption and i cant, i already love it. does anyone have advice on how and can convince him to keep it? no lectures please.
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newly long distance relationship
Posted Sunday December 6 2009, 12:51 am
THIS IS A LONG ONE!! SORRY BUT I REALLY NEED ADVICE!
Hi, First of all, thank you for reading my question and answering it...ok here it goes!
I just got into a relationship with this super sweet guy. He makes me sooo happy. We met online, and after a few weeks we exchanged numbers. We started texting, then I came over my "shyness" and talked on the phone. To be honest, I never met anyone online before, and neither did he so we was kinda iffy about it. I joined the site the same time he did, and he was the only one that caught my interest! He doesnt live too far away, but it is far. I live in South Florida, and he is in Tampa.
Anyways, me a...
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A Legitimate Apology?
Posted Saturday December 5 2009, 8:55 pm
I just got the most shocking message from my ex-boyfriend Kris. I'm still like processing the whole thing... I have no idea what to think or do. Read it for yourselves!
Lexie, I apologize for everything, i dont know what i was thinking, I hate not talking with you. Your the only girl i ever think about, id really like to see you, I love you... i hope you still have some feelings for me :/ i understand if u dont :'( ... i wish you werent mad at me.. i really do love you and no one else, and id really like to see you :) ♥ i hope you can forgive me and we can move on the way we both wanted it to be, just me and you ♥ text me or something.I ♥ U
I'm still so skeptical over the whole message and if this is his ...
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Okay Girl Problem
Posted Saturday December 5 2009, 7:54 pm
Okay I like this girl(big surprise) and she likes me(bigger surprise). Well here's the problem she is not in my class,shes in my cousins, and I have never talked to her but I want to but she is always with her friends I mean Always and I don't want to walk up to her while shes with her friends cause we've never talked. My question is does anyone have any advice on how to approach this problem? cause I really like her and there's another question I am 18 and she is 15 and I was wondering is this frowned upon by Adults? like I don't mind and I she doesn't either if she did she wouldn't like me! but I was just curious. Also my cousin doesn't hang out with her or talks to her he hangs out with other friends so he's no option.
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Boy Trouble
Posted Saturday December 5 2009, 5:46 pm
Okay, so there's a friend of mine named Alex. We've known each other for 3 years and he's really nice, but lately he's been acting weird. At first, I thought he was just being nice, but then it got weirder.
About two weeks ago when we were talking, he kept glancing down at my lips. He did it a lot and after a while, it started to creep me out. He did this during four different conversations. A week ago, he was in a group of mine during our technology class, and my friend Lyndsey turned around and asked if he was always in our group. He said no, and then my other friend said, "He's only in this group because he's in love with Emily." Lyndsey said, "That's exactly why." And when I asked her, she said she was...
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SO confusing
Posted Friday December 4 2009, 11:49 pm
There's this guy I used to like from age 12 to age 16 and im still 16 but im over him,,,,finally.
We used to have sex all the time and we were good friend but he never wanted to date me..yet he liked me several times during our friendship and it seems as though he did the whole time but didn't wanna tell anyone.Anyways,when he found out I had sex with someone else ,he got soo mad at me and he fought the kid i had sex with and eventually got another girlfriend and they went out for 6 months. They broke up and he started talking to me..but he says he stills like his ex gf a little bit and they are still close.He was texting me last night talking about us hooking up and us catching up and hanging out,which i was fine with.He texted me f...
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