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He can't forget her :(
I met a guy through one of my closest friends, and we've become really close over the past few months, he's my best boy mate, and I've grown to like him as more recently. He knows how I feel about him and we've held hands before, but we agreed on friends only at the moment. He had his heart broken a few days after we met, a girl he liked a lot lead him on and used him, and she was really horrible to him for being upset about it... he said he's trying to move on and that he "just needs to get laid" but he just can't seem to forget her :( I hate that there's nothing I can do to help him and I really like him so so much, I don't know where I stand or what I should do at all... I don't wanna get my heart broken or be used but I just don't know where I am in his head :( I'm willing to wait for him but I don't wanna waste my time either..
(I'm age 16 if that helps at all!) Thanks in adcvance guys :)
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You could talk to him about it. You could let him know where he stands in your heart. Give him a chance though. Give him a chance to figure things out. Don't get your hopes up high though because it could be bad and good for what he feels. Just wait and see like that saying good things come to those who wait. Good luck though! I'll be cheering you on!
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Well then live your life. Don't let his sitution keep you locked up. Even if you like this person a lot you need to let the past situation resolve itself. Like you said you don't want to get used in the process. Just let him know that you'll be there when he's ready, and when he needs you help.
Lillian
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he said that he wants to stay friends and go off and get a rebound in other words. when he says this im guessing that he thinks that your soemthing special and doesnt want you to be that rebound.
what id do is give him time.stay friends with him.some people need the time to think and just have a rest from all the relationship stuff.
there not much you can do.he know you like him and that your there for him.i think he just needs to trust you more and really find out for himself that your not there to hurt him.
what id do is stay being his friend and keep the close contact with him.get to know eachother alittle better.give it sometime because you dont want to be that rebound.
if he really likes you then when hes ready hell make the move.
just keep doing what you do.flirt with him occassionally hang out with him etc.
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