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what matters more?
what matters more to you, what you really really want or what you deserve? and why?
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Everyone will answer this question differently.
In my personal opinion, it's both plus one. You need to look out for what you want. Being indecisive and unsure about things can be a little uneasy and make things more difficult than they need to be. But, you also need to look out for what you deserve. If someone's treating you like shit & you know you deserve better, drop the situation & do what you need to.
Here's the plus one: Remember that not everything is about you. Having everything be about you will make others think that you're self-centered & selfish. Remember that there are other people around that you should care for & who matter.
Those 3 things should matter equally.
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Having struggled through 2 8-year long relationships that failed, I would have to say it comes down to what you deserve.
I was cheated on and unappreciated and took for granted.
Today, I'm with someone who provides for me, who takes care of my every need and loves me unconditionally.
I'm greatful because it just seems like it's my time, u know?? like to finally have someone that cares about my wants AND provides me with what I deserve as a good woman.
If you know you're giving your all,then you're only going to want what you feel you deserve...goodness in return.
Almost a trick question! lol. Because we alll really really want to be given what we feel we deserve ;-)
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Other people matter more than what you want or deserve. But you cant always get what you want, or what you deserve, but you SHOULD Want what you deserve.
this is a really difficult question to answer, but i hope i helped.
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"He was the hero Gotham deserved, but not the one it needed." To me, what I want matters more, though I fully acknowledge that I can't always get what I want. I can still try, though. I don't usually know what I really want, so if I figure out that I want something, I really hold on to that.
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This question is all about YOU. The answer is neither. What matters most is other people. Its not all about you.
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