There's this guy I used to like from age 12 to age 16 and im still 16 but im over him,,,,finally.
We used to have sex all the time and we were good friend but he never wanted to date me..yet he liked me several times during our friendship and it seems as though he did the whole time but didn't wanna tell anyone.Anyways,when he found out I had sex with someone else ,he got soo mad at me and he fought the kid i had sex with and eventually got another girlfriend and they went out for 6 months. They broke up and he started talking to me..but he says he stills like his ex gf a little bit and they are still close.He was texting me last night talking about us hooking up and us catching up and hanging out,which i was fine with.He texted me for like 5 hours and i went to sleep and told him to text me tomorrow (meaning today) so we could hangout and he sounded really interested and said yes.I saw him at school the next day and we talked for a minute and i figured he would talk to me later,but he didnt! I don't know why he would spend so much time talking to me one night and make plans with me and then blow me off and not text me.I was thinking maybe he'd text me tomorrow after he gets back from a concert he said he's going to but idk.I'm just confused!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? x0for3v3rfr33x0 answered Saturday December 5 2009, 1:34 pm: I do not like the sound of this guy. If you are over him than why put him back into your life that closely again?
You guys were never official and yet, he thinks you shouldn't be with anyone else? If you are not dating the person than you are not committed. He stepped out of line fighting someone you were intimate with.
Him not telling anyone was another way of him thinking he has some sort of control over you. He was most likely hooking up with other girls as well but didn't want you to know, thinking he could have you for himself. He can do that but not you? Not acceptable. If you guys were good friends, I can't think of any other reasoon why people weren't to know about the two of you.
If he still has feeling for his ex and claims they are close, he probably means intimate. This sounds like when he is not with her, he wants you. He was probably with her at the time he blew you off.
This guy is all about games with you. I don't think he deserves your time, and I think you deserve someone better.
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