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First Date, First boyfriend, Marriage
Posted Monday January 18 2010, 11:45 pm
19/F
I've always been very picky about who I would want to date and wanted to make sure it was someone I could really have a real relationship with. I never wanted to date just to date and I never dated anyone until January last year. My boyfriend was the first guy I went on a date with, my first kiss, and various other firsts. We've been together a year now and are absolutely perfect for each other. We're already thinking and planning our future life together and I already know that when the time comes for him to pop the question I will say yes.
I'm not asking for advice really but more of a Poll of sorts. How common is it for someone to marry their first boyfriends? Am I just really lucky that I found ...
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Crush on me?
Posted Monday January 18 2010, 10:33 pm
So, theres this guy.. he is only in one of my classes this semester, but i've known him forever. I don't have a crush on him or anything, but hes a cool guy to just hang out with. He is the kind of person who would pick up my binder if I dropped it, make a joke to make someone smile, or help me with an assignment if I asked him. Otherwise, he is pretty quiet at school. Whenever I see him at least. I don't know what he does on the weekends, besides avoiding his parents and hanging out with his buddies.
He sits at the back of the class, and he tends to keep to himself unless he is with his few guy friends then he shows his real personality. We tend to get along well when we do talk. If anything, he would be like a...
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we aren't going out yet,,,but is this normal?
Posted Monday January 18 2010, 9:38 pm
Me and this guy,joe have been talking for about a month. We chilled every weekend atleast once except this weekend.We chilled during the week too and at school he would accompany me to my locker ,to lunch,to class and kiss me before class.Friday we made plans but he told me his brother was coming down and it was his bro's birthday so he couldn't chill.He texted me the next day,just to talk but it wasn't for very long.Then he texted me again later that night just to talk as well.His brother left the next day but he told me he had a formal party to go to that night (which is true because another one of my friends was there and saw him) and so he couldn't chill but he said after the party ,he could hangout.He never called me after the party an...
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Sex fears
Posted Monday January 18 2010, 7:42 pm
To put it bluntly, im scared of having sex, i feel its wrong and i hav this new bf who has done it a few times. He keeps saying stuff 2 me but i just hate the thought of it. i know thats really immature but i do need help
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Nicknames! (:
Posted Monday January 18 2010, 4:07 pm
What are some cute nicknames for your boyfriend?
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does he like me????
Posted Monday January 18 2010, 3:04 pm
hiya....well i split up with my ex a few months ago..and on new year i met a guy that i liked...he asked for my number and i made the mistake of bringing him home with me that night...he seemed different to other guys, he went home the next day and said that he would give me a text..he text me a few days later saying thanks for letting him stay and that did i have a good year we texted each other abit and that was the end of the txts...i got a text from him a couple of days ago saying that he was in my town and if he could come round with his friend..i said ok so he came round and i was with my mate who i live with...so their was 2 guys and me and my mate...me and this guy ended up going to bed while my mate and his mate were downstairs......
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two of them and only one of me
Posted Monday January 18 2010, 2:59 pm
ok so I am 17 and I have been with the same guy for 10 months he has been there for me thew everthing and has made me really happy he is 18. We got into a big fight on new years about me having guys frineds and I walked down town to get away from him fighting with me and I hung out with a bunch of my girl friends. I walked to the other side of town and on my way back I bumped into one of my sisters old guy friends. We were kinda friends we said hi when we seen each other.He walked me to my boyfriends house where I was staying and I gave him my number because he said I could crash on his couch anytime I needed some where to stay. I went inside my boyfriends and we were just talking then I got a text from that same guy and my boyfriend saw an...
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So i'm so confused on how to tell my boyfriend something...I need help!
Posted Monday January 18 2010, 1:33 pm
Ok so I'm 17 years old and my boyfriend is about to be 20 years old. We always talk about how we can't wait to finally live together and start our own live together. Now the only problem I have is that I want to have a baby already. How should I tell him that I want to have a baby? He loves children and we have both talked about how we would like to have a large family together. I know that a baby is alot of work, but I feel that we are ready for it. Please help!
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need help :/
Posted Monday January 18 2010, 10:24 am
so my and my boyfriend of almost 2 years broke up like 2 months ago. we hung out once like about a month after we broke up and everything went well, or so it seemed. he texted me and we were still good friends. i liked it. now he doesn't text me anymore and he rarely texts me back so i texted him saying "i need to ask you something" i want to ask him if were done being friends so i can just give up and move on with my life...problem is he didn't answer me. i know he loses his phone alot but i don't want to make myself seem desperate. i'm fine without a relationship with him but he still means something to me and i want to be friends and i want to know if i'm wasting my time...i don't just want to randomly stop talking to him cause...
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don't know what to think !
Posted Monday January 18 2010, 2:02 am
Me and this guy have been talking for about 3 weeks and we hungout the last two weekends and during the week and at school and stuff and we kissed in school and he bought me a drink and held me ,etc.We kinda made plans to chill on the weekend but not officially.His brother (who he considers his best friend) came down from college for the weekend and it was his birthday, so he called me on friday and said he couldnt hangout because of that.Then he didnt text me the rest of the night until the next day and he just texted me to talk and he was still spending time with his brother. He texted me really late at night and was drunk and we talked for a bit and made plans to hangout the next night.He texted me a little bit but then i asked him to ha...
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VALENTINES DAY
Posted Monday January 18 2010, 1:23 am
I like this boy but am scared to tell him that i like him to his face...so i have decided to slip love notes into his locker until valentines day then tell him that i was the one who wrote them...Is this a good idea? Does anyone think it is cute and that he would like this? Thnx in advance!!14/F
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BOY PROBLEMS!!!
Posted Monday January 18 2010, 1:20 am
There is this boy i like-lets call him S-well i have known S for 3 yrs. And everyone knows we like each other...but at the beginning of the year my "friend" K kissed him in front of me and she knows that i have a crush on him...so now me and her are not really friends...so last week i had one of my friends go and ask him if he liked me and he said that he did but that i didn't act that way towards him so he was like now he doesn't know if he likes me anymore because he says i pretend like he is no one...how do i show him that i like him/build up the courage to tell him. How do i find out if he really likes me? Also he is a really big flirt.
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stuck between two
Posted Sunday January 17 2010, 10:44 pm
19/sophomore in college
boy #1: my friend tyler and i have had a history since spring of senior year. i guess you could say we were together, we went to prom together, but we never dated (he asked to become official, but i didn't see a point since we'd be going to college and we'd be at opposite ends of the country..he's on the west coast, i'm on the east coast) we've been on and off and we hook up when we're both home, we had sex for the first time together over winter break, but it didn't change anything between us.
boy #2: this past semester at school i became friends with this kid chris. we hung out a lot and went on "dates" together. we both like each other, but i think he likes me a lot more than i like...
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insecurities
Posted Sunday January 17 2010, 5:44 pm
16/f
i have many insecurities about my boyfriend cheating on me or is flirting with other girls. the reason for that, was because my first boyfriend he cheated on me twice. and i got broken up a couple of times in a row because they started liking another girl by flirting or they were cheating. and my first longest relationship liked his ex girlfriend while going out with me and was talking to another girl in the beginning of the relationship. now my current boyfriend i've been with for about 13 months, he flirted with another girl in the beginning of the relationship. after he got caught, he actually admitted it. the thing is that he is very honest to me and he would actually admit it if he was cheating on me. i spoke to him...
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He likes me not?
Posted Sunday January 17 2010, 5:14 pm
So there is this guy at school that i have liked for a long while. We used to talk a little, just say hi and little questions here and there. He is pretty shy. He told me he liked me two weeks ago, so i decided that it would be okay for me to just tell him that i liked him too. I feel like he is too shy though because when we see each other all he will do is smile and give me a hug. I'm the one who tries to make conversations so things aren't so awkward. He won't call me for some odd reason. He will text me, and he doesn't say much.When he does want to hang out, he wants me to go over to his house, and he won't offer to find a way to come get me, or at least meet half way. This pisses me off because i don't chase guys. His friend and I have...
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My Boyfriend is just too BORINGG !
Posted Sunday January 17 2010, 1:23 pm
Okay well me and my boyfriend have been through alot, we've gone out like 10 times . No joke , and each time we broke up we'd miss each other like crazy so we'd get back together . We text , and the thing is i like talking to him on the phone but he just doesnt take the hint . He texts so BORING ! It gets me so frusterated ! He just isnt outgoing through text . When we're together hes sweet and nice , but through text he just bores me to death ! I don't know what to do to get him to just be more upfront and outgoingg ! Please help !
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Posted Sunday January 17 2010, 12:38 pm
So the last time me and my boyfriend had sex (excluding today) was around about the 28th/29th of December. We tried to do two nights ago, friday, and it just felt weird for me, although we didn't do anything differently. And I got this really weird feeling in like my lower tummy which I've never gotten before. We tried again but it felt too weird :/. Does anyone know what's wrong??
I know I can't be pregnant because we had sex around the 28th and I got my period on the 9th January.
We tried today and I had the same feeling again but it was only for a while and wasn't as bad. So should we just try again next weekend?
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Ahh finding love!
Posted Sunday January 17 2010, 10:35 am
Ok so if someone tells me I should go google this question or summin since like a million girls have asked it before, just shhh.
Okay I seem to have this problem, like maybe it's biological or some kind of a scent that I give off then men smell and know to stay away but for some reason its just impossible for me to get a guy to like me on an emotional level where he wants to ask me out somewhere.
Over the past say... 3 years I've been in two long term relationships. One was for about 9 months and the second about 18 months. The 8 month one was my first 'real' relationship (after those piddly crush ones you have in your teens). It fell a part really unexpectantly and horribly with nothing I could do to prevent i...
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breaking up with him nicely
Posted Sunday January 17 2010, 7:53 am
im going out with this boy and he really likes me and we have been going out for a long time but i like some one else and for meh and him to be going out for this long period of time and me and him dont see each other as much its a waste of time but i dont want to hurt his feeling or anything or tell him that i dont like him i just dont want to go out with him please help me find a way to break up with him without being like i dont want to go out with you any more
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break ups!
Posted Sunday January 17 2010, 12:35 am
so my long distance boyfriend broke up with me today.
i kinda saw it coming becuase he wanted a "break" three days ago and didn't talk to me for those three days
but I guess I was expecting him to come back to me like every other time.
im in love with him and I'm completing heart broken.
he wasn't a bad breakup at all actually.
he told me he just couldn't deal with the distance and its just too hard for him right now and he can't do it.
i asked him if we could still be friends and he said that he was hoping we can be, so I'm happy about that. but I just wish we were still together
our distance isn't far at all though if you really think about it. its about 6 hours away at th...
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