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My Boyfriend is just too BORINGG !


Question Posted Sunday January 17 2010, 1:23 pm

Okay well me and my boyfriend have been through alot, we've gone out like 10 times . No joke , and each time we broke up we'd miss each other like crazy so we'd get back together . We text , and the thing is i like talking to him on the phone but he just doesnt take the hint . He texts so BORING ! It gets me so frusterated ! He just isnt outgoing through text . When we're together hes sweet and nice , but through text he just bores me to death ! I don't know what to do to get him to just be more upfront and outgoingg ! Please help !

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christina answered Tuesday January 19 2010, 5:00 am:
How exactly is someone supposed to be interesting through a text message..? Anyway, if you really think he's that boring through texting, tell him. You can't expect him to realize it. Guys are not mind-readers so if you've got a problem, tell him. Otherwise, you're going to be miserable.

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lacexface answered Monday January 18 2010, 3:22 pm:
The key to a relationship is communication, so tell him. Tell him you feel that he expresses his emotions better in person, and you wish he would talk to you more while texting and show some personality. If your relationship isn't long distance, then there's really no need to text him if he's that boring. You can just see him in person if you don't feel like confronting him about this. It's not that big of a deal, I know a lot of people who just don't like texting so they don't say much in a text, maybe he's one of those people.

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Bronx7 answered Monday January 18 2010, 1:23 pm:
You have to tell him you want more phone convo'z.If you dnt b upfront den ur not really being honest with eachother and if he doesn't say call then his probly just not ready for a real long term relationship

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Matt answered Monday January 18 2010, 12:06 am:
You should cut off your proverbial third arm and live awhile without texting.


If your relationship doesn't last, you're not old enough/mature enough/cool enough to have one in the first place.


In conclusion, texting is for the vocally challenged.

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sunshine1232 answered Sunday January 17 2010, 5:01 pm:
Personally i think it's better to see someone face to face and in person then to text you can't really expect someone to be entertaining through text messages if he's sweet and nice to you while
you two are together then i say text him less and
hang out with him more find something to talk about create conversation maybe he'll start to loosen up and be upfront and outgoing maybe he's just shy and needs time don't rush him(:

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xoxonicole answered Sunday January 17 2010, 3:42 pm:
Maybe you should talk instead of text more often. If he's boring through text, call him or plan to meet him somewhere.

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